Trinity Connection Interactive Empowerment Suite

Are You Loud and Proud Of Who and What You Are?

2008-07-20T10:40:00Z

I have just read an article by Julian Clary (a very camp, English comedian) in the August edition of Psychologies magazine, who states on his passport his occupation reads “Camp comic and renowned homosexual”, I laughed thinking how wonderful here is someone who is so obviously comfortable and proud with who and what he is.

It got me wondering how many of us are really comfortable with who and what we are, how many of us stand tall and proud in our skin and how many of us are too afraid to be who we really are in case it gets noticed and we become the recipient of disapproving looks from others.

Until recently I avoided putting “Psychic” in my occupation, I would just put Counsellor and Empowerment Coach, then one day I thought, I am Psychic and I’m proud to be, I’m proud of how I use my gift and it’s a part of who I am, (just like my wicked sense of humour is part of me, just as my beliefs in what is right and wrong is part of who I am, surviving a break-down made me partly who I am), so why shouldn’t I let people know, so what if someone else doesn’t approve, I only need my own approval.

I love who I am, I love who I am becoming, I make no apologies for “blowing my own trumpet”, it has been a long hard journey to get where I am and to become and accept who I am, and when I think of what I could have become, I’m proud I changed paths. I’m proud of all I achieved and I’m proud of the mistakes I made and the fact I learned from them instead of taking the easy way out and blaming someone else, because it’s only by admitting the part I have played in my journey that I have been able to recognise and change the bits I don’t like.

If you aren’t loud and proud of you then look at why and do whatever it takes to change that, until you do you won’t fully love yourself and your trumpet will be silent.

Okay all together pick up your trumpet and play “I’M PROUD OF ME”.

Blessings.

Post It

2008-07-20T08:01:00Z

Just A few reminders (sorry if you have to scroll down to them, I can't figure out how to stop that happening)

How To Get From Here To There - Introductory Offer

2008-07-19T15:43:00Z

Numerology Tarot - Special Introductory Offer

We as humans have a tendency to give more time and effort to thoughts of what we don’t have rather than what we do have, this can cause blocks and obstacles to our personal growth.

Tarot cards can help us bring the focus and energy back onto the right path, and help us see which direction we should be moving towards for a happier, healthier more fulfilling life.

Combining Tarot with Numerology gives us an insight into what you yourself can do to make things better for you, and what the possible time span will be. Please bear in mind when looking at timing things generally don't happen overnight and sometimes can take a bit longer than we would like them to. Not everything in life will happen exactly as you want it to or withina time period that you decide, and if you are not open to things moving in a different way again blocks and obstacles will occur.

Sometimes what we see as a negative thing at the time it is happening can turn out to be the best thing that happened to us, this is because we look at things from an emotional point of view as they are happening, and we find it hard to look past any pain we are feeling.

Most things in life don’t come to us without effort quite often all the effort that is needed is simply to change your attitude towards things and change will occur almost immediately.

Tarot cards will give you a look at the bigger picture and help you make the right choices for you.

I look forward to reading for you. Please allow at least 5 minutes for a decent reading.

Blessings.

Weekly Angel Card - Patience

2008-07-18T07:25:00Z

Trust the higher forces of life to know what is best for you and remember that when you are asked to wair, you are being prepared for something even better than you expected.

So change your attitude to one of acceptance. Relax and take stock.

Ask your Angel to enfold you during this waiting period so that you can listen to the promptings of the Divine.

Do not rush off on some wild goose-chase of your lower will.

When the time is right and you are ready and refreshed, the next door will open.

Patience is always rewarded.

AFFIRMATION

All things happen at the perfect time.

The Focus On You Reading

2008-07-17T13:56:00Z

This is a monthly reading to focus on you, with complimentary minutes from me to get you started.

So many readings are focused on someone else in our lives that we don't often look at the part we play in a scenario, or fully focus on our own fears or deal with our side of the story and what we can do ourselves and we become stuck going round and round in circles.

If you are interested in having a reading the focuses only on you then e-mail me and will send you 2 free minutes to get you started and if you need to you can extend the reading by adding to your account and we will work on a solution with the help of the Universe to give you a boost forward.

Bear in mind this is all about you not about what someone else is likely to do or is doing, it really is going to be JUST ABOUT YOU and empowering you so you can deal with the situation in a more positive way and if you go off asking about someone else sorry I'll get out my wet fish.

Blessings

Trinity.

Oh Jiminy Cricket

2008-07-16T08:35:00Z

I read something on the internet this morning that really got me fired up. A little while later I was washing the dishes while standing on a soap box having a real good whine about this thing I had read and what these people had done. When all of a sudden that little voice inside me started up

“You don’t mind if I sit on the tree trunk sticking out of your eye do you, what is your problem, what has it got to do with you what someone else is doing, it’s not going to affect you, it’s their choice to do as they please, maybe they didn’t mean it to happen and they are turning a negative into a positive. Maybe you need to say something nice or just keep your mouth shut and keep your nose out of other people’s business , at the end of the day you are getting all wound up over something that doesn’t have anything to do with you whatsoever …. so stop”.

I started to laugh, and thought, I’ve been bitch slapped by my very own Jiminy Cricket and I deserved it.

Blessings.

Let's Flip The Coin Over And Look At You For A Change.

2008-07-15T14:14:00Z

Focusing on the other person isn't always what is going to help change things for you, focusing on the other person can in fact cause the pain to intensify and this in turn can stop things from moving in a better direction for all concerned. Asking what, why, when of yourself will help you work through the pain and become a much stronger person, and in turn this can lead to you becoming more attractive to potential mates, or even remind your 'estranged' partner why they were attracted to you in the first place.

I work in a very different way to other Psychics. I look at the situation you are going through and using my gift of highly tuned intuition I see what the possible outcomes are. I look to see what action, if any you can take to make things better for you and what the consequences of that action could have on your situation.

I expect you to interact with me and tell me what is going on, if you phone expecting me to know everything about everything then you are going to be very disappointed. If you have the mind set that Psychics don’t need to ask questions then please don’t phone me because I do need to ask questions so I can understand where you are at this moment in your life. If I can’t understand that, I can’t see how to move you forward, or the best way to explain what is going on to you, we are all individuals and all deal with things in a different way, I need to know which way you deal with things, I need to see the true you not the you filled with emotion and anger.

Too many people phone and expect me to tell them what is going on with their lives without saying anything to me. They also expect I can change their future for them, I can't, only they can do that by working on the real problems now. I don’t claim to be a Psychic who knows all without being told anything, nor do I invite you to ‘test me’ I don’t do tests. I don't claim to be able to give you a full reading in a nanosecond, what I will give you is a couple of free minutes to give me your story so far, so I can connect properly with you and the other people involved and we can take your reading from there.

I am aware that you are paying for my insight, but if you are unwilling to let me know what the situation is then you will pay more because you will be on the phone longer because I have to sift through quite a lot of things that may be on your sub-conscious but is not of importance to you at this time. If your focus is on one particular aspect of your life or one particular situation, or one particular question, you won’t hear anything that is said to you that is not pertaining to where your focus is and that would be a waste of the phone call.

I work very much in the now, it’s no good looking to the future if the problem that needs to be sorted is now, because if you don’t deal with a problem now you will simply take the problem forward with you and nothing will really change.

Sometimes there isn’t a problem at all and it is down to your fears, if that is the case that is what needs to be addressed, and that is what will come through to me.

The most successful readings I have ever given is when the client has been fully open and honest about their situation at this moment and sometimes the events that led up to that situation, when they do that I can get a really good link into the other people involved and clarify things. You have to be honest with yourself about the part you have played in a situation, you have to be honest with yourself about what you are feeling, you have to be honest with yourself about what you want to do about your situation, if you don’t then you may just be denying the solution.

I’m not always given full intricate details of why something is happening and this is because sometimes knowing every little detail about something isn’t actually going to help you it could confuse you even more.

The Universe gives us what we can cope with, the Universe gives us what we need to put ourselves on the right track, the Universe doesn’t waste energy giving us something that isn’t of use to us.

A lot of times clients block information coming through because they keep their focus on something that isn’t to their liking hoping that the more they ask about it the more it is likely to change and they become stuck. If you keep going over and over the same thing then you need to look at why you can’t accept something and start working on that instead of hoping the outcome will change simply by asking the same question over and over again.

I am here to help you keep in touch with the essence of you and stop you acting from frustration and fear, but I can only do that if you let me and you really want to make things better for you. I prefer to focus on you and your life now so together we can work towards making that future work for you.

If you want to work with someone who is down to earth and practical with the added bonus of Spiritual guidance then call me. If you want someone who just paints castles in the air please please save yourself time and money and phone someone else.

Blessings.

Men Can Multi-Task They Just Choose Not To !

2008-07-15T08:38:00Z

I have been speaking to quite a few male acquaintances lately and discovered the age old saying “men can’t multi-task” is actually not true, it should be changed to ‘men choose not to multi-task’ it’s not because they don’t have the brain capacity, it’s actually because men are great at living in the now.

Some people would say this is rubbish, but just think about it, if a man is doing something and you ask him to do something else, 9 times out of 10, he will wait until he has finished what he is doing before going onto the next task. Ask a woman to do something while she is doing something else and you will either get the answer “can’t you see I’m busy” or you will see a woman doing an impression of a headless chicken running around doing 2,3 or 4 things at a time, because women perceive everything needs to be done now, get it out of the way because we have a hundred and one other things to do, even if most of the things we have to do don’t actually need doing until next week or next month.

One of the great teachings of self-help books is to ‘live in the now’, this means focus on what is right in front of you, give your whole attention to what you are doing at the time, don’t fret about what is round the corner.

Men are great at this, they live in the now, their thoughts are on what is right in front of them, what needs their immediate attention. They worry about what’s round the corner when they get round the corner. This of course is frustrating to women because we tend to fret about what’s round the corner before we can even see the corner.

The majority of men I spoke with, although working towards long terms goals kept their focus on the now, knowing that their actions now would have far reaching consequences, also being aware that things could change and they needed to be able to move with the changes.

It’s only when you are focused on the here and now that you can react to changes when they occur, if you only focus on the future, changes can occur and you won’t see them and therefore you won’t react, therefore you won’t adjust your thinking or actions now, and you will be stuck trying to adjust to the consequences of the changes which may be too late.

So remember next time he hasn’t phoned you for a couple of days it’s not because you have done something wrong, or because he has gone off you it’s simply because he is choosing to live in the now, and he is dealing with what is directly in front of him. You cannot expect to be the sole focus of his attention all the time.

Men don’t see things as women do, and they don’t fix things if they aren’t broken. It may be wise to take a leaf out of their book.

Blessings.

Your Boundaries Are Your Boundaries.

2008-07-15T06:54:00Z

Quite often I speak about setting boundaries, this means deciding what for you is an acceptable way to be treated by others.

Not everyone will have the same level of acceptable behaviour. If someone isn’t willing to work within your boundaries you have to make a choice of either making an exception for that particular person or distancing yourself from them.

If you decide to make them an exception to the rule you shouldn’t do it with the thought that you will be able to change them and force them to interact with you by your rules, you should do it accepting them the way they are.

You will find you will tolerate certain behaviour from some people but not from others depending what level of friendship/relationship you have with them. We tend to put up with ‘boundary breaking’ from family but wouldn’t put up with the same behaviour from friends.

When you set boundaries they are yours and just as it’s up to you whether you allow someone to stay in your life if they break them, it is equally up to others whether they honour them or not.

You set boundaries for your well being you can’t make others comply with them if they don’t want to, just as others can’t make you comply with their level of acceptance.

Blessings.

Dalai Lama Wisdom - Family & Friends (Part 2)

2008-07-14T08:33:00Z

Cherish One Another

If we cherish others, then both others and ourselves, both deeply and superficially will be happy. When we cherish ourselves more than others, we produce various types of suffering, both for ourselves land for those around us.

Living In Harmony

Peaceful living is about trusting those on whom we depend and caring for those who depend on us.

Be Forgiving

When we are able to recognize and forgive ignorant actions of the past, we gain the strength to solve the problems of the past constructively.

Compassion Builds Trust

It is compassion that creates the sense of trust that allows us to open up to others and reveal our problems, doubts and uncertainties.

How Children Thrive

Children whose homes have love and affection are better, healthier, normal and sturdy. Where children lack human affection and love, physical development is sometimes difficult as is study.

Childhood Deprivation

Children who had difficulties at an early age, growing under a lack of human love and affection, will find it difficult to show other humans love and compassion. And that’s a great tragedy, a great tragedy.

True Friendship

The proper way to create friends is through a warm heart and not simple money or power. Friends of power and friends of money are something different. These are not friends.

Making Friends

If we have a kind and loving heart we will win more friends.

Be Friendly

Friends are very important, as are a friendly manner and a genuine smile.

Smile From The Heart

A genuine smile must come from the face of compassion.

Mutual Interest

If you want friends and a friendly atmosphere, you must create the basis for them. Whether the other’s response will be positive or not, first you must create some kind of common ground.

Create A Peaceful Environment

If in a small family, even without children, the members have a warm heart to each other, a peaceful atmosphere will be created. However, if one of the persons feels angry, immediately the atmosphere in the house becomes tense.

It’s Not

2008-07-13T21:48:00Z

It’s not what you see, it’s how you see it.

It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.

It’s not what you’ve got, it’s what you do with it.

It’s not what you’ve done, it’s how you did it.

It’s not where you’re going, it’s how you get there.

It’s not how big your share is, it’s how much you share.

It’s not how much you love, it’s how you love.

It’s not about you or me, it’s about ALL of us.

Weekly Medicine Card - Lizard

2008-07-09T14:12:00Z

Pay attention to your dreams they will tell you a lot about yourself.

Help you face up to fears and blocks.

Your dreams can help you towards reality and truth

Vesuvian Eruptions !

2008-07-09T10:43:00Z

Yesterday in the deep south of England a rumble was heard in the distance, slowly but surely getting louder until finally the primeval scream of a woman tipped over the edge was heard loud and clear by anyone within a 50 mile radius.

What had happened? Was this some earth shattering disaster that was taking place, was death and destruction happening on a massive scale?

Eh no! just my daughter saying “I’ll do it later” one time too many. That was it Vesuvius erupted on a magnitude not seen for a long time. This eruption went on and on until eventually I got in touch with my male side and stormed down the garden into my shed. (The Shed one of the few male inventions I shall be ever grateful for).

I sat in the shed and let myself soak up the peace and quiet, (as well as the smell of paint, nitromors and paint thinner, the high was amazing haha) and realised the eruption had been caused because I feel so much of my life is out of my hands at the moment, I am waiting for other people to take action so I can get on with what I need to do.

I am waiting for my daughter to do her bit so I can get on and organise the change over and re-decoration of rooms.

I am waiting for Keen to remove feedback left on my listing complaining that the free 3 minutes they give to new members isn’t enough to get a decent reading, which it isn’t, callers are supposed to pay for more minutes to get a full reading, this feedback could slow my business down considerably and it’s not even a complaint about the reading which I couldn’t help with anyway because the caller only wanted me to tell them how to market their business and I’m not a business consultant.

I am waiting to see if my Landlord is going to get my central heating boiler re-situated because of a ridiculous complaint by neighbours saying the fumes from the outlet pipe is stopping them from enjoying their garden, which is strange considering they don’t spend anytime in their garden anyway, and if we are all sitting in our gardens it’s because the weather is nice and I don’t have my central heating on, there is an occasional brief whiff of gas fumes if the wind happens to be blowing in the wrong direction which has happened only twice in the last 6 years.

I am waiting to see if I will have enough money to keep my car on the road when insurance, car tax, and MOT (a road test cars in the UK have to go through yearly) are all due and need paying for at the end of this month.

So what can I do, well I can accept that I cannot and am not in charge of every situation or other people, recognise what I know to be true that I am in charge of me and my reactions to things and people, accept that sometimes delays happen, usually to our benefit even if we can’t see it. Remember when other people are involved things won’t always go my way and I may have to adjust my plans or my thinking accordingly. That as long as I do what I can with what I can, I can then rest easy until it’s my turn to step up again.

Most of all remember that Spirit has a sneaky way of testing us on lessons we think we have already learnt, just to make sure we keep on the right track.

We need to explode sometimes to clear the air, but try and explode in a controlled manner, and after the explosion sit and examine your part in it and the true cause of the explosion otherwise you might just continue exploding.

If you need me today I’ll be in the shed!....(now was it two parts thinners and 3 parts nitromors or the other way round hehehe)

Play the ‘If I Were’ Game.

2008-07-06T12:48:00Z

We have all at some point in our lives suffered from low self-esteem, usually because of a harrowing experience. It can be hard to get ourselves back when this has happened and it can even leave us questioning who we really are, sometimes no amount of re-assurance or ‘kicks up the backside’ makes any difference.

One tool I have used many times is to play the ‘What if I were’ game. Pick out the good points in a person you admire and incorporate those points into your life.

If your confidence has been knocked in your job, act and dress with the confidence of a business woman or man that you admire. If your personal life has been rocked then take on the persona of someone you admire and see as having a good balanced life.

You will soon find yourself regaining your lost confidence and will be able to fly solo once more.

Blessings.

Mr Sandman Send Me A Dream

2008-07-03T17:17:00Z

We can have more than one dream during our sleep, some will have meanings attached some won’t.

Most dreams we remember will be relaying a message of some sort, sometimes the message will be regarding a past, present or future event. Sometimes the dream will highlight something within ourselves we are hiding from or even unaware of, but which needs to be addressed to enable us to move forward.

Some believe dreams of this nature are our subconscious dealing with something which our conscious state will pick up on and without realising we will in fact deal with the problem. If you like our dreams can point out the cause of a problem to help us understand and deal with the symptoms we act out in our conscious state.

I had an interesting call where I was asked to explain two dreams, it was clear that the message being given was to look at and deal with insecurities and fear, when it was explained to me what was happening in the person’s life it was clear I had picked up exactly what the dreams were about. Unfortunately although this person remembered the dreams they were not yet ready to admit to their inner feelings.

Dreams can be a gauge to how we really feel when our thoughts and feelings are not busy with everyday life, and can be of great help in clarifying things. Sometimes when we have that ‘De ja vu’ feeling it could be we are in fact remembering a dream we had previously forgotten.

If you are wise you will take notice of dreams you remember and the message they have for you because they might just help clarify things in your wakened state.

Blessings.