WE ALL INCARNATE IN SOUL GROUPS. These are our family members, children, lovers, friends, colleagues, etc. However, all of the above, especially our love partner, fit into FOUR KINDS OF SOULMATES!
KARMIC SOULMATE: Deep passion, strong love, but a lot of hurt and pain. Nine out of ten times, this love is not meant to last. When the karma is balanced, the relationship usually ends.
COMPANION SOULMATE: Very compatible, very happy lover and best friend. There is a purpose for the relationship, an assignment that can only be completed by the joint energy like raising special children, working on a project (e.g. two scientists), or as simple as baking love-filled bread. These relationships only last if your true twin flame is not available because they are married to a karmic partner, or remains in the astral plane in order to guide and connect with you spiritually. If the relationship is ONLY project related, the person (subconsciously) gives you the impetus to achieve your goals, or helps you fulfill a dream you could not have done on your own.
THE NEAR TWIN: Comes or appears just before a twin flame reunion. The synchronicity is strong, and you feel guided to be together. There is sometimes instant recognition of the soul from a past life, and/or your mutual incarnation within your SOUL GROUP, which includes family members, relatives, friends, and people within your circle of influence. If you had your charts done, an astrologer would say you matched up perfectly for marriage. They may be your best friend, and the connection is as intense as if it is your twin flame. An example in mythology: In Camelot, Guenevere was married to King Arthur. They loved each other. But when Lancelot showed up, he was the man in her deeper heart of hearts.
TWIN FLAME: No matter how many soulmates you have had, how many times you've been married, in the highest planes of Spirit, this is the true HUSBAND/WIFE. It's just as difficult as a Karmic Soulmate Relationship, if not more. You may have perpetual dreams which seem unable to materialize because one partner is not "listening" to the still-small-voice within. The synchronicity is even stronger here, and there is also an easy telepathic connection no matter the distance. Each is a mirror image of the other's soul - two completely different individuals, yet whole as one when together. That can be both good and bad, strong and weak. Not many people achieve this bond, because if both partners are not sufficiently evolved, they tear apart, never forgetting, or being able to cut the bond of love. Sometimes it's just a timing thing - each partner needs to complete some things on their own, to become whole individually first. The waiting makes the one with knowing, stop believing and end up with a substitute. If they make it, the Universe rewards and uses both AS ONE energy of Love through which the Light of God passes. In this instance only, 1 + 1 does not equal 2. It equals the Power of 20. It is my belief that a reader may "see" the strong connection/bond between souls, but no reader or astrologer can tell if the person is your Twin Flame. This unique relationship is between you, the other person, and God.
THEN THERE ARE THE TESTS: Three things which keep twin flames apart are: Pride, Selfishness, and Unforgiveness. Also FYI, the tests of a Twin Flame relationship are harsh; anywhere from age difference, same gender, "waiting" years for one or the other's karmic marriage/relationship to another partner to end - (YOU CANNOT BE THE CAUSE OF A BREAK-UP), or waiting for the partner who died in this life, to return as a "walk-in" into another adult body in this life. This is the rarest and hardest test - (read books by Ruth Montgomery). If the partner you love is NOT a Twin, you are required to MOVE ON! Only you, your partner and God will know your test of FAITH! The purpose/MISSION of a Twin Flame relationship is not only love and romance. The purpose of joining the energies is in service to humanity. Both parties HAVE to be aware of who they are, who they are to each other, and be ready to serve in a higher way.
Please note: There are many souls not meant to be with a Twin Flame, either because there is more evolving and growing to happen individually, or one Twin remains in the Astral Plane, holding the balance for the work the other has to complete on Earth (e.g. Sai Baba and Mother Theresa), but the connection still always comes through the dreams. REMEMBER YOUR TRUTH! For more internet information see: www.twinflame1111.com
Do you thank God for this Love?
Let go of a painful PAST/Present Love and move on?
Pray for Healing and removal of negative energy?
Wait on the promise of the Universe?
Only the Truth can set you free in Mind and Heart. Can you handle a Higher Truth?
Even if the answer is not what you want to hear, just TRUST that your Higher Self will always reveal a new Blessing to come... in some form or another... like a union with your true partner.
As my Higher self told me in a dream: "God is Love; Love is TRUTH, Truth is God!" Allow me to work with you to move forward in LOVE!