Love is Divine - we cannot pick who we fall in love with; however, on this earth and in this body, we fall under specific Universal laws. The one I feel compelled to share with you is "The Law of Attraction".:

Your thoughts are like magnets. The way it works (and this is without exception) is whatever you are thinking while at the same time having a strong emotion, you are attracting into your life.This is called manifesting. Only a few seconds of this so called "recipe" is the equivalent of two weeks in attracting "it" closer to your present.

The problem is you may not always deliberately attract or draw unto yourself or manifest. You get stuck in anxiety, fear, or depression - all the while thinking about those things that cause you such negative emotion in the first place. The result is you are drawing more of the same.

If you want something so bad: ie. your relationship to manifest into a commitment without all this back and forth stuff, then the focus on the relationship is good; however, when you mix it with emotions of anxiety or sadness because you don't yet have it the way you want it, then you are preventing or blocking it from coming to you.

Believe me it's not like you are a puppet master and controlling the whole situation. This other person has a "co- creating" roll in this too, however they are reacting off your energy/emotions and thoughts(telepathically).

Now that you have this knowledge of how powerful your thoughts "mixed" with emotions are, it is important to:

* Keep your mind as blank as possible whenever you find yourself experiencing ANYTHING but a positive emotion.
* Flip your focus to what you want rather than what you don't have. Get excited about it and hold that "experience" for only a few seconds.

I cannot emphasize enough how detramental your anxiety and sadness over not yet having it is. You are creating energy that is like "glue" - energy than cannot do anything because of this "bi-polar" creating.

Therefore be mindful of your thoughts and especially while having a strong negative emotion.