I have so much chaos in my life, it's become normal. You become used to it. You have to just relax, calm down, take a deep breath and try to see how you can make things work rather than complain about how they're wrong. Tom Welling Let our hopes – not our hurts, shape our future – Robert Schuller One must still have chaos in oneself to be able to give birth to a dancing star. Friedrich Nietzsche Tom Welling is an actor/director. Robert Schuller, an author, motivational speaker, Friedrich Nietzsche, was a German philosopher. Different positions, different eras, yet the constant theme. Life has chaos, life has ups. Life has downs. We should be like Bro whale, letting the waves flood over us, yet our strengths, our power is strong enough to weather through the storms with love, with peace, with knowledge that the universe is healing our situations. We can kinda float, or swim through the rougher times when we allow ourselves the power we have. Chaos is important to cut away the junk, then we can see our way clear to the dream. Animal totem: Whale: Bro whale is the keeper of the secret, of the past as he lives a long life. He holds the mystery of the spirit as well as the experiences of the past. His totem reminds us to use the past as a gauge for our answers, but to swim past them toward the future. His medicine is to remain strong, unbeatable against the waves of life.