I bet you once looked at your life and
thought, “Ok, I’m ready for something new.” You took action, you did
your research and you are feeling great about it! Then all of a sudden
that F word tackles every single fiber of faith you once had. Your instinct is to back down, run, hide, scream, yell, protest and be highly frustrated. A year might pass before you know it and that great plan to make that change never came. You’re still making the same amount of money or less, you’re still single or in a relationship that is not going anywhere.
What I came across is that some feelings can’t be explained by words. Some feelings are so deep and buried from past experiences it may just be coming to the surface after 10, 20 or 40 years.
This is because when you are ready for change you are open to receive and when you are open you are letting go of things you probably didn’t know you were holding on to.
As a child when you were hurt
emotionally, you probably didn’t have the skills to process those
feelings and it was buried. As a young adult you probably didn’t have
the time when it came to the surface and now that you are much older you
are wiser – freeing things up and there it is staring at you. You’ve
forgotten all about it and still don’t recognize what it is.
That’s ok. You don’t have to know why it is there.
Fear, that son of a gun, comes out of
nowhere especially when you are ready to achieve greatness. It doesn’t
mean not to keep going or there is something wrong, it just means deal
with this emotion in order to grow. It is almost impossible to achieve
anything outside yourself without some type of growth. Even a warrior
like myself fall to their knees and have to reorganize the plan.
In order to face fear, you will have to first acknowledge what ever feeling it has decorated itself as….it could camouflage as sadness, tiredness, frustration and even anger.
Then, you must choose on what you wish to feel instead whether it is peace, harmony, passion, focus or happiness.
Sometimes, I say it out loud. “I rather feel peace.”
Sometimes those fear-like emotions come
back and sometimes it goes away for good. It’s up to you to choose not
to give up. Focus on what you rather have like that great and sexy body
or the best relationship you’ve ever had or perhaps its just a better
place to live.
Be the warrior and get off your knees and fight the good fight.
The F word can keep you from doing
what you love. It can be sneaky and appear as something else. It will
make you blame something else other then yourself. It seems powerful and
unwavering, but its not the Master, you are. Nothing has the power to
create in your world. You get to choose.
Author: Jessica Brown
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