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How to Survive a Broken Heart..

One of the most painful feelings you can experience in life is a broken heart.  It tears at the core of your essence.  It feels like your heart is being torn out of your chest.  It hurts!  So, what do you do when your heart is broken?

I have written up a list of things to do to help ease the pain.  Although when you are in the throes of pain caused by a broken heart it may seem like the pain will never leave - but, it will.  In time a broken heart does mend.. and life does go on.  But, what do we do in the meantime?

1.  Talk to someone.  A friend, a therapist, anyone who will listen.  The best thing you can do is verbalize what you are feeling. 

2.  Allow yourself to feel.  There are steps of healing.  At the beginning stages it is important to allow yourself to feel the pain.  As you begin to heal, the pain turns to anger and eventually leaves.  These are all normal stages of healing.  There are 12-step programs designed to walk you through the stages of healing.. that is one very good place to start.

3.  Spend time with friends.  Even though you may not be in the mood to be social or be with friends - do your best to spend time with friends or family.  Don't allow yourself to be alone all day and evening.

4.  Plan your day.  Sit down with pad and paper in hand.  Make a list of things you have always loved to do.  Jot down at least 10 items.  Now, grab a calendar or appointment book.. and begin working out a schedule for yourself.  Plan your day from the moment you wake up until the minute you go to sleep.  Put down everything.  This is an imperative step to helping you survive the initial days of a broken relationship.  The goal is to fill your day completely.  The worst thing is to be alone and feel lonely and abandoned.

5.  Go places.  Go the the library, art gallery, museum, baseball game.. find things to do that you have always enjoyed.  I want you to go and do it!

6.  Do the above steps even if you are not in the mood or if you feel like you are just going through the motions.

7.  Call me.  I am a Love Psychic and Life Coach.  My clients call me The Love Doctor.  I will help you rebuild your life.  Before you know it you will be living your life to its fullest!

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-Lady Fontaine,

The Love Doctor

Comments
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Wednesday, June 06, 2007 5:28 PM
lovely
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Thursday, June 07, 2007 5:47 AM
i would love for someone to tell me its gonna get better thanks for reminding happiness comes from within ourselves not someone else
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Thursday, June 07, 2007 6:22 AM
Thank you so much. I recently had that happen to me, and I didn't want to be around anybody. I spent my time alone, and that made my depression worse. (My grandma died around that same time also.) But I did eventually spend more time with my family, then everything became so much better! I forgot about that loser! :].. Thanks for writing about this!
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Thursday, June 07, 2007 9:44 AM
your completly right !!! thank u
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Thursday, June 07, 2007 11:57 AM
i think its always the womans falt they set the standards too high and we cant compete with that i mean they want a man tall rich and sensitive and i reality thats not the standard of a guy of quality it the inside that counts not the finical or the hight it the heart so there i said it so ladies if you want  a man ask him out dont wait for him to ask you .
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Thursday, June 07, 2007 3:33 PM
DEAR ALL
love begins there where nothing is expected in return. to servive you only need god help. in whom you get rest and yuor soul is restore. to forget about your failures even if you tried best to your capabilities better to forgive and move on.you have got only one life  love like you have never loved before, dance like noone is watching . live like you live forever. do whatever you want to do . dream what ever you love most or passonate about but only remember one thing your futre is in god'shands and not in yours family, your bosses your employer, your bankers or brookers . surrender yourself to the will of god and you will get the best of what you deserve. god loves you unconditionally. hewill never break your heart. . dream and think better insted of being bigger. god is your creator. he knows what you can handle in life and gives you according ly . a child will oneday only inherit his or her family traits even though if he has a pssion for bcoming a big star. donot feel broken god is with you . when you get up early in the morning first thing that yoou can do is to thank god for giving you another blessed day of your life . thank for everything you have good parents ,teachers friends loveones, relatives neigbours etc. god says donot be anxious aoutanything in life but by prayer and petition present your request to god and the peace of god which transends all understandings will gaurd your heart and your mind in jesus christ. amen.love yourself and you will be loved . trustnin your strength and donot focus on your faults. this world will be yours if you love this world less and to god more. i live my life as i want. god gave me everything . my cup overflows with his blessings. thankgod for using me for his purpose . i love everyone with all my heart . may peace be with you .god bless you all . love you abha.as i love my life partner my soulmate dj vikash. one more thing i will tell you marry to a person ,not to whom you love but who loves you.
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Thursday, June 07, 2007 4:59 PM
I believe in true love, and I think It's rare. I had it once and it was stolen from me. he was killed in truck accident June 10th 2001, and my heart bleeds everyday. He's in my thaught's alway's. I still feel him, and I pray to him also, and I know where he is. He entered God's Golden Gate, and believe me he passed through. I pray to him, for me to find the love we shared, And my prayers got answered. I found it once more.
AND I PRAY TO GOD TO NEVER PUT ME THROUGH THAT AGAIN.
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Thursday, June 07, 2007 5:00 PM
HMMMMMMM THATS OK
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Tuesday, December 16, 2008 12:02 AM
Never feel broken .GOD LIVING WORDS ARE OUR STRENGTH.  as we all know GOD GRACE is with us. HE is in total control . nothing is impossible for our GOD OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST . WHO LIVES IN US god is working on our behalf. my vikash nischal sharma urf dj vikash the best radio announcer , the best soccer player and reporter and the best journalist of radio tarana newzealand , AUCKLAND HAS givenup announcing and left tarana. i donot where he is gone . but i am sure my god is always with him will keep him safe and heappy. my love vikash yours abha miss you every moment . take care of you love my vikash nischal god bless you . we are sure to meet in this life . god has promised me . GOD IS A PROMISS KEEPING FATHER.  i request you all who read this please pray for my vikash that abha loves only dj vikash urf nischal vikash sharma of radio tarana auckland newzealand. please come back vikash. i call you in jesus name amen !GOD YOU ARE MY STRENGTH. PLEASE GIVE ME STRENGTH I CAN LIVE FOR MY VIKASH AND CAN DIE FOR HIM. I WILL KEEP MY WORDS TILL THE LAST BREATH OF MY LIFE. I PRAY IN JESUS NAME AMEN! PLEASE bring back vikash into my life and on radio tarana . your's forever ONLY ABHA LOVES AND AGAPE YOU . GOD BLESS YOU ALL .
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Wednesday, February 03, 2010 11:27 PM
MY DEAREST SWEET HEART NISCHAL VIKASH SHARMA
HOW ARE YOU LOVE . I AM HAPPY FOR YOUR EVERY SUCCESS AND THE PROGRESS YOU MAKE IN LIFE . CONGRATULATION HONEY  FOR YOUR NEW JOB SINCE FAB 2009 IN SYDNEY AUSTRALIA AS SENIOUR CONSULTANT IN EXICUTIVE OFFICE 360 DEEGREE CONSULTING PTY UK LIMITED . GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS IN WHATEVER YOU DO OR SAY . GOOD LUCK KEEP IT UP . YOU ARE SO CUTE AND UNIQUE .
MOONSOON RAIN OR SUMMER HEAT , MY FOREVER FRIEND VIKASH YOU ARE ALWAYS SWEET , ITS YOU THAT I LOVE MOST IN WORLD OR INSIDE YOU (YOUR HEART )THAT BEATS.
DONOT YOU MISS YOUR AUCKLAND TARANA LISNERS . WE MISS YOU DAY AND NIGHT . COME BACK SOME DAY IF TIME AND MOOD PERMIT YOU . WE WILL WAIT FOR YOU . HAVE A GREAT DAY . GOD BLESS YOU ABONDANTLY .
LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY  . YOURS ONLY  
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Thursday, April 08, 2010 12:05 AM
my love of life DJ VIKASH URF NISCHAL VIKASH SHARMA , HOW ARE YOU SWEET HEART YOU ARE THE REASON I BREATHE , TELL ME MY FOREVER FRIEND IS IT YOU WHO IS SWEET OR INSIDE YOU THAT BEAT. I MISS YOU HONEY . PLEASE CONTACT ME AT THE EARLIEST LEST YOU REGRET LATER. . GOD BLESS YOU . GOOD LUCK . LIVING TO SEE AND MEET YOU.
WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL YOURS ONLY ABHA JAIN
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Thursday, March 08, 2012 2:32 PM
ok...so i like this guy named jake leclaire... he broke my heart a few months ago and i never got over him. He's so mean and an ass... he has a gf and idk wat to do???
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Saturday, March 10, 2012 12:17 PM
I have been married 22 years..my husband and I have been separated for a year. He is living with another woman.I miss him everyday.There are times I just want the pain to end.What is crazy is he and I still meet and have relations.I know I should not do this but as I said I still Love him..
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Friday, April 20, 2012 1:20 AM
Me and him broke up yesturday, i feel that i would be happier six feet under. he left me because he cant see me and wants to have sex, but since im literally half way around the world he is seeing other girls and sleeping withthem. im only 16 and i dont know what to do. i love him, yes i do. but does he love me?
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Friday, April 20, 2012 1:22 AM
too much pain, more than i can manage, i will be happy when im six feet under and until then i will hate myself and life.
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Sunday, July 08, 2012 12:44 PM
The pain is so hard to bare i have no excitment about life its just not the same nothing intrests me i just feel i would rather die than go through all this bullshit she hurt me so bad,its so easy for her not only did she break my heart and devastate my life she took all the money 2.5mill and i cant even get that back i got it all the the way aound im trying to stay positive but its so hard we did everything together for 20 years and now she has all the money and a new man hows that for a kick in the groini feel like such a looser i think of taking my life every day if i do that i wont go to heaven at this point i dont care i have no desire for life how sad is that if had known this would have happend i would have vended my life long ago the only thing that keeps me alive is the pain i would cause my daughter and sisters and i just found out that my daughter is a lesbian it doesant change the way i feel about her but i am dissapointed i wanted a granson since there is no one to carry on the family name.it just seems like everything bad has been happening to me sice the breakup il tell you i dont care how manly you are this is the worst pain i have ever felt in my life and i never want to feel it again and i have expierienced many pinful things isn my life 7 surgeries and painfull procedures but nothing as painful as this i would rather have broken bones than suffer this pain i dont know what im going to do i think checking out of this world would be good for me i know its the coward way out but i dont find enjoyment in anything any moore so why bother to exsist and live a life of misery im 52 ive done most of the things i set out to dothe only 2 major things i havent done yet is too walk on the great wall of china and by a lamborghini and thats not gonna happen she took all the money it took me 15 yrs to build that business and i was such a fool not to put things in writing becouse i loved her and trusted her and look were it got me i know this is not rite but i hope she dies heartless woman they say what goes around comes around i have yet to see it i have to decide what to do with my life live it or end it
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Monday, October 22, 2012 1:22 PM
It was absolutely horrible at first, I still dont know da reason for the breakup, he went away! I was so addicted to him. The first few weeks su ked, now everytime I think Im ok and Im over him something happens, something that losens a whole torrent of bottled feelings! The fact that I still love him & I know that he loves me as well doesnt help a bit! He is a good man. I dont know what went wrong
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Friday, July 05, 2013 6:05 AM
Do you know that you mention his/her  name morethan amillion times in the moment where  it hurts most and its unbearable since you can't control anything.Always remind yourself it was for the best
# re: How to Survive a Broken Heart.. @ Thursday, July 18, 2013 7:02 AM
It simply hurts. And I feel like I won't be able to love again. I know that everyone is telling me that I will love again, but I don't want to feel like this. I feel like I have been wasting 7 months of my life. And for what? For feeling empty, and feeling all the pain on this earth. I would like to scream, to do anytgug but suffering. I don't want to move on. I want him. I want to feel again the things I felt with him. I love him, I don't want to let him go. May I be selfish, but he was the only beautiful thing in my life. And now that he's gone, I am alone.
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