Start by being high quality and projecting (marketing) yourself as such.
is classy is special. Classy is something you don’t get on your average city sidewalk. However, the reason high class is so unusual is
because people give trash. When I say this , think again about how many very rude and selfish people there are, how many critical people. The reason they give trash is because
they think trash (about themselves and others), talk trash, and
habitually focus on trash.
You cannot be high class if you don’t
THINK you are high class. You have to start by believing you are top quality. It’s your job to market what you've got, and to market
yourself, you have to believe you are special.
If you don’t think
marketing yourself is crucial, then I must tell you that you could be
the best guy or gal around – loyal, kind, dynamic – and people wouldn’t have
any idea of who you are. Marketing yourself doesn’t mean to yell and boast about
yourself (far from it). Marketing yourself – is all about holding
yourself highly, and acting so (impeccable self-respect, NOT
carelessness). There’s a difference. For example, the difference between
making a mistake and “not giving a ****” and making a mistake,
acknowledging it, and deciding to move on and do better. The former is
about someone having little regard for themselves, and the latter is all
about her valuing yourself and others.
high quality woman or man is a person of value and a person of value is one who
values the happiness of others, and who is considerate.
rarely perceive real value in you unless you give THEM something. Think
of what a typical low value and low quality person looks and acts like.
Usually, this type of person is so significance-driven that he or she is
habitually unable to listen, to care for or to help others. Typically,
this kind of person makes you cringe because she or he gives the human race a
bad name. She or he may even frustrate you with anger because you simply
can’t get a word in and let’s face it, it’s HARD being around someone
who doesn’t care about you at all.
A person of low value has such a
low sense of self-worth that it’s impossible to perceive what
life is like from another angle. He or she is too in to the self! It’s very much
a case of ‘the empty vessel makes the most noise’.
Here is what a high quality human is NOT: She or he is not someone who is constantly sucking value from others.