I cant seem to get away from this man I know he is not right for me. What can I do? What should I do. If your caught in a one way relationship with a man you know is not returning the same love, feelings, and effort you are than you have a problem. The question is. What should or can I do about it.
Since I am The romance psychic, many of the calls and readings that I get and do are about relationships. Relationships come in all shapes and sizes and there are no two that are the same butt there is one situation among them all that is quite prevalent in my readings. It is when I get a call mostly from women who tell me about a man they are with that just cant seem to get to that next level, who seems to either be stalled or is slipping away. You may be experiencing what I call the roller coaster ride, where things get good for a while and they get you thinking everything is better and then all of a sudden there is a drop off leaving you with that terrible feeling in your stomach and that hole in your heart.
It is a ride because it happens over and over again, you are always grasping at the good parts, thinking of those great times, hoping and praying and even thinking that they will be back and he will change. It comes to a point where you look at it and all you do is think about those few good months or those few places in time during the relationship that were great. Where he may have said things to you such as I want to spend the rest of my life with you, that he is looking for someone to have a serious committed relationship with, that you are the only one for him.
He may have said all of this in the beginning of the relationship, he may have even meant it at the time, he may have just said these things because he knew it was what you wanted to hear. The fact is that now you have been through the ringer, the up's and downs of this relationship are starting to get you wondering where it is going, if things will get better or if you are and have been just wasting your time.
I hope that you call me before it is too late. many times I get readings when it is too late. When you have had so many readings with other advisors who have just given you the fairytale sorry and told you that things are going to get better, but they just have not come through. You keep holding on, finding small things that you grasp onto to help you say to yourself that things are going to be better. You keep thinking about the good times and you do not think about all the bad.
The most important thing you need to know is that when you do or accept the same things over and over again you wind up getting the same results over and over again. That is the definition of insanity. You need to change the way you are doing things. The very first step in changing the way you are doing things is to know exactly what the other person is thinking and feeling about you, about your relationship, and most importantly his intentions. You need the truth. Not some sugar coated version of the truth, not a fairytale story that keeps you doing the same things over and over again, but the real truth about what his feelings are and his intentions.
Here is the paradox that many people face. Most people, especially women, believe that if two people love each other, if they both have feelings for each other, than a relationship, a growing relationship is inevitable. You need to understand, you really need to get this, because it is very important. Just because you care for someone, maybe even love that other person, does not necessarily mean that that person is able to be in a solid committed relationship with you at this time. Maybe even never. It does not mean that they do not care about you, it does not mean they do not have feelings for you and it does not mean that they do not love you. You just need to understand that sometimes love and feelings do not always equal a long term relationship.
Once you understand this, once you get it, then you can start making the changes necessary to either get things back on track with him, or in some cases decide to move on so you can find that right person, or that right person can find you that is not just in love with you, that does not just care about you, but is also in a place in his life where he can and wants to be in a real relationship that continues to grow into something more. Something more as in together forever. True happiness, never worrying about things, and yes it may feel to you now that there is never going to be another person you love that much, but the truth is that we each have so many soul mates running all over the earth just waiting for karma to find the right time and place to allow you to find them or them to find you.
The truth is a very hard thing to hear. It is also a very hard thing to deliver to a person calling you for a psychic reading. Most times your not calling a psychic when things are great, your calling when things are not so great, when you have had a fight, a break up, or a split. You may be calling because you realize that you may be wasting time and really you know the answers to what you are about to ask but you may just need that confirmation. The problem is that if you call someone for a reading and they give you the fairytale version of a reading then you just continue to waste time. You do not fix anything, and hence you continue to go ahead and do the same things over and over again and as I have written earlier in this post you continue to get the same results over and over again. This has to stop. It must, so that you can find true happiness. So that you can know what the real issue is and either fix things which in many cases can be done, or in some cases realize that no matter what you do, no matter how strong the feelings or love is that a real relationship is just not going to happen.
I believe so strongly in telling my family of clients the truth. First because that is what you are spending your money on a reading for. If you want a fairytale, if you want someone to just make you up a happy story you really do not need a psychic. You need a psychic, a clairvoyant, who is not afraid to tell you exactly what the other person is feeling for you, than tell you what the intentions of that other person really are.
If you do not know the truth how in the world can you make things better. If you are doing something or saying things that are freaking out this other, making him run away you need to know this so that you can change your actions or reactions, so that the other person can find that comfort zone. That is what you are looking for. You want the other person to feel comfortable and happy with you and you both need to be on the same page and on the same pace. Men in case you have not realized this yet are much slower than women to get into a serious relationship despite what they may have said in the beginning. Things men say in the beginning of a relationship are things they know you want to hear. Imagine your a man and your on a dating site, you making your profile, do you put down that you are not looking for a relationship or that you are not sure, do you say that you have just gotten out of something long term that has you uneasy about jumping back in so quick. No way, you would not get a single answer to your profile. So as every man does they put down that they are looking for a long term or at least a serious relationship because all men know that this is what you, as a women want to hear.
Forget what he said when things started out, forget what he says period and go by his actions. If he is calling you everyday, if he is seeing you with a consistent pace then things are probably ok. If indeed he is not, if things are shaky, if he is inconsistent in the way he communicates, talks to you, or acts toward you then that is a problem and you need to very quickly find out what is going on in his male mind. If you find out now you can understand him better and maybe fix things up quickly or at the very least avoid the pain. Stop the roller coaster ride, make things better. But if you continue to grasp on to just a few nice words, a few great times, and avoid dealing with and seeing with your own eyes what is really going on than you are indeed living in a fairytale world. Eventually it will end and when it does it will not be pretty.
I read on keen to help people. If I wanted each person to call me back ever day I would just make up some great story that had a happy ending. This is not what I do, you can not help someone if you do not tell them the truth. Yes the truth hurts and sometimes people do not want to hear the truth, but it is my responsibility to tell you only what I see and only the truth. I believe that is why you call to begin with, at least most people.
Now with all of this said I want to say just a few more things. As a psychic when I get a call from someone about a relationship my very first goal is to try to help you make that relationship work. If it is something that can work I will help you understand what is going on and what needs to change to make things better.
You have heard that expression " Men Are From Mars women Are From Venus" it's a name of a book actually and what it is about is men acting and operating and even thinking about things so much differently than women. Communicating differently.
Men think differently about everything than women do, they indeed do speak a different language and they also read differently when you get inside their head. When I read a man he reads so much differently than a women. It is my personal belief that if you want to know what your man is thinking and feeling the best person for the job is another male advisor. Not only can a male psychic clairvoyant read the man in a way only another man can, but a male psychic can interpret those thoughts feelings and those intention to a women better. I am very good at this and that is why I have so many repeat callers. This is not to say that there are not many great female advisors here on keen. Many great male advisors as well. I just seem to hear so much when I answer my phone for a reading from a women that she is amazed at how accurate I am and is also amazed at how much more she understands what is going on. I am usually not the first advisor a person calls because although my reviews and ratings are amazing, it is clear from those reviews that I tell the truth very bluntly and do not sugar coat. Sometimes people just want to hear that everything will be ok and usually when you are calling things are not ok. So if you want that fairytale maybe I am not the first psychic you should call but make sure when you call me you want the truth because after a reading with me, I will be the last advisor you call.
You will know the truth, you will know if things can be fixed or not. I will tell you if asked what you can do to make things better and I will tell you if things are not able to be fixed and help you to move on so that you can find that perfect person and eventually find that pure happiness that you deserve.
Below I have pasted the link to my main page. Please read my feedback, see what I am all about and then allow me the privilege of performing a reading on you and telling you the truths about whatever questions you are asking about. I promise you that you will find it very refreshing, accurate and detailed, and you will also be able to understand exactly what is going on in your life and what the other person is thinking, feeling, and wanting from you and your relationship.
Above is the link to my main listing here on keen. please read the page and more importantly the feedback and than call me now. I truly believe that if you are reading this post, that karma has sent you to me so that I can help you.
Love and Light Andrew
P.S. feel free to email me before you call and give me the back story if you would like to save some time. I am here to help and I will not waste your time nor your money