Goblins, Ghouls, Witches, and
Ghosts! Its that time of year again when we do all we can to
delightfully scare our friends silly, tickle our fear bones, and relish
the dark side and the deepest secrets of the night! All in fun, of
So in the spirit of Halloween, my post today is all about the dark side of the numbers in Numerology!
When I write about the meanings of the numbers, I try to give you a
picture of the highest vibration each number can aspire to, while
giving you a little bit of the negative side to be realistic.
Depending on the individual's spiritual level of growth, they may
to use their talents and natural traits to the very best of their abilities,
for the highest good of all; or they may choose to ignore their talents
and skills and just scrape by, wallowing in extreme depths of
I try not to belabor the least desirable manifestation of
the numbers' energies, because I hope to encourage you to learn and grow as much as possible so you become the very best of your uniquelly true happy self.
The truth is
that with each number vibration, as with anything else in life, the
meaning is more like a continuum or scale, not a concrete value.
Because we all have free will, we can choose to live up to our very
best, or slide to the very most negative end of the scale, or anywhere
If we are shown the highest possibility of
something, then it is
more likely that we will want to aspire to that; but I don't want you
to be like babes in the woods, either; so in this post, I'll discuss the less
desirable qualities of each number.
If you are looking for Mr. or Ms.
Right, remember, they may have a numbers that are compatible with
yours; but they may also be living on the totally negative side of their
numbers, as well, or somewhere in between. Their behavior will tell you the difference; so watch what people do; don't rely on what they are saying. This is a good rule to apply in business as well as personal relationships to stay safe.
As co-creators of our reality, we get to make new choices countless
times a day, as we go through life. Everything has a
vibrational frequency. Every thought, every emotion, every action, every color, every
sound and so on.
Numerology is one way to measure and define the
vibrations that affect us. By measuring the vibration of the letters in
our name that we hear, over and over again, which shape our thinking,
and feeling; and the numbers that appear in our charts over and over
again, we can make choices that are most like who we really are and,
therefore, create a life that flows much more easily for us, giving us
a better experience in this life, and the next.
Knowing our Number vibrations allows us to focus and craft our
journey throughout our lifetime on earth. providing opportunities at
to either use and incorporate the numbers' energies and grow; or to
resist and fight them. When we resist, it sets up a pattern that will
until we learn the lesson the vibration is calling forth from our very
best selves. Why struggle when our lives can flow?
It may seem like we keep making the same mistakes over and over;
but actually, the good things we learned also come back into our lives
as well. Its just a matter of focus. Once we learn to shift our focus
to remember the positive things that happen to us, we can accept the
lessons that still need learning because we know that as we mature,
life gets easier.
In this post, I will concentrate on the really negative side of
each number's vibration; so you can be aware that the person you are, or
the people you meet, may be using free will
to manifest the darker side of their numbers; and it may not be so
a picture! After reading this post, you should have a good idea of what
that darker side looks like, and be able to make better choices.
If a quality I mention really annoys or angers you, look
closer, it could mean that it is one of your issues you've been hiding
from yourself! If that's you, see my posts on the Mayan Oracle, which is excellent for dealing with our Shadow side.
news is, that if we approach someone (ourselves included) with
understanding, we can work on those issues and find our way
out of trouble and into a balanced and peaceful place.
We cannot change
others, only they can do that (so don't even try); but we can stay out of trouble by
avoiding those living out the least desirable traits of their number's
Just remember, no one can
maintain a positive mood all of the time, and we usually feel much
better when we’re flowing easily with
life, expressing ourselves naturally, and creating a life affirming
reality. This means attracting the positive in others by being our
highest and best selves as well.
So here goes! If you meet someone (or are someone!)
who consistently lives out, even glories in, one or more of these
patterns - Beware!
The Number One's most negative vibration is one of total
selfishness, and I mean total. Its as if no one else exists! Everything
is about "me". If One doesn't get his or her way, look out. The need
for control is paramount, and may become such an obsession that One
becomes arrogant, cruel, bullying, stubborn, unstable, dependent,
manipulative, chauvinistic, and even physically abusive. The negative
One may have delusions of grandeur, and invincibility, and has to be first, no matter what it takes. The picture of a
bulldozer running over everyone and everything in the way fits a
The Number Two's most negative vibrations are extreme moodiness,
clinging, apathy, resentment, dishonesty, tearfulness, self pity, deceptiveness,
and passive-aggressive behavior. A negative Two gives with an ulterior
motive; hiding what they want or need, while blaming everyone else for
their unhappiness. Seething under the surface, the negative Two
finally erupts like a volcano!
The negative side of Three is constant superficial chatter,
biting sarcasm, vanity, extreme judgmentalism, and incessant
gossiping. When the Three is insecure or feels rejected, expect him or
her to become extremely self-pitying, whining,
critical of others, oversensitive to criticism, paranoid, jealous, a compulsive
worrier, and very antisocial (like verbally attacking the "offender"
behind their back, or feigning apathy while sabotaging or verbally annihilating someone else).
The negative side of Four is moodiness, dullness, rigidity,
stubborness insecurity, controlling behavior, and compulsive orderliness. A negative Four can
go so far overboard on everything that he or she becomes resistent,
restrictive, and rebellious; even violent, hateful, destructive,
crude, and secretive.
A negative Five has a problem with excess and becomes
overindulgent, irresponsibile and erratic. Five energy when negative
craves overstimulation physically, mentally, and sexually which can lead
to impulsivity, addictive behavior, addictions of any kind, job hopping, lack of focus,
projects, unkept promises, infidelity, getting into trouble trying to
experience anything new and strange, and escapism of every form. Five's
need for freedom and constant novelty can lead to untrustworthy, unreliable and
estranged, personal and business relationships that leave a trail of
unhappiness for the negative Five as well as anyone they encounter.
The negative side of Six is the "after all I did for you" guilt
trip. Here is where the Six becomes the martyr, the self-sacrificing
"slave". A negative Six can be become so involved in the lives of
others, that they become domineeering, bossy, and downright meddlesome. Prying,
manipulating, and interfering in others' lives is the order of the day,
is pride, smugness, blaming, cynicism, extreme criticism, spite, envy
and more. Get on their bad side, and a negative Six can hold onto a grudge for a
The negative Seven feels superior to others, feels no one
understands them, and doesn't care to come down off his or her pedestal
long enough to explain, either. A negative Seven is emotionally aloof,
and intolerant of others; often
masking a deep fear of loneliness and isolation. The normal need for
undisturbed study becomes a disdain for the "unenlightened" masses, and
can lead a negative Seven to become antisocial, even a hermit.
Skepticism, confusion, faithlessness, cynicism, and feelings of despair
turn into melancholy and more emotional isolation. Negative Sevens are
good at pushing your buttons, and
easily become mentally aggressive as well. Beware the sharp tongue lashings of a negative Seven.
The negative side of Eight is extreme greediness and ingratitude, as well as badly
neglecting those who love them most, and betraying the people who helped them
along the way. The natural
ability of Eight to attract and multiply resources often
puts them in the position of power and authority. A negative Eight can
become hard, intolerant, cruel,
deceptive, unscrupulous, and unfair in the extreme. They can be master
manipulators; doing anything for more money or more power. To a
negative Eight, the ends justify the means however cruelly that plays
out. An angry Eight is full of vengeance, and will go to any lengths to
get his or her way. Gaudiness, name dropping, and incessantly fauning
over the rich and famous are other unattractive traits of a negative
Eight. A negative Eight lives on a roller coaster of financial disaster, and
other types of disaster as well. Don't feel too sorry for Eight when trouble
starts, though, or you may end up being their next victim. Besides,
they always manage to land on their feet.
The negative side of Nine is resentment, laziness, procrastination,
and arrogance. Early in a negative Nine's life there may be a tendency to resent
that others rely on him or her.
They see everyone else get praise, money or fame for their
efforts, while Nine feels unappreciated and neglected. Jealousy,
bitterness, paranoia, extreme selfishness, narciscism, and
self-centeredness can result, as well as living in a dream world where
Nine is the hero or heroine, loved and appreciated by all.
The Master Numbers, Eleven, Twenty Two, and Thirty Three, like
the Nine, are called to selflessly offer
themselves and their talents to the world. Resistance to their calling
will, for the Master Numbers, manifest as the negative side of their
reduced vibration; 2, 4, or 6
with an added dose of exaggerated self-importance thrown in ,as well as
eccentricity and, possibly, even perverted genius.: the power-monger,
eccentric who attempts to
"control the world", by example. This is "Master" energy focused on the
and it can be a powerfully destructive force ( remember the Unabomber?). Fortunately, the most
expression is that of the reduced number vibration, with a
little added egocentricity and self importance.
Well! That's about all the negativity I can stand!
There you have
it! The ugliest of the ugly! If you run into someone manifesting these
nasty traits, run away as fast as you can; don't walk, don't argue or
explain either, just get thee away!
Happily, most of us do aspire to be our best selves at one level or
another, and only in the extreme case do we meet people living the very
worst possible depths of their negativity; but if you do find these
traits persisting in someone you know, don't feel guilty about beating
a hasty retreat! Safety first!
I hope this post didn't
"scare" you too much; but if it saves you from a bad relationship, then
it was worth it.
It is my wish for you that you all live happy, joyous lives, filled with Light, Love and Laughter!
Surrounding you with Angels!
Happy Halloween Y'All!
Angel Hugs, Maeyer
copyright Raja's Heart Foundation, 2008