The Feng Shui Gypsy

An Adult Picture Story Book by Sister Othelia on helpful tips for Dating, Intuition, Tarot and Life.
Dreams about Old Lovers


Last night I was surprised to get a visit from an old love in a dream. My common sense was saying “OH NO YOU DON’T!” Yet there he was, drop dead gorgeous, but never showing me his face. I took him by the hand and said, “Come here. Let me look in your eyes.” Like a kaleidoscope star the center of his Iris opened. I saw vast skies, open land, a river, and then the center of his eyes closed.


"I live on a reservation, with a lot of friends. We ride horses and take care of cattle." he said... {To which I remembered his love of old muscle cars he bought for cheap and fixed up to sell; Before his love affair with methaphetomine. Hmmmmmmm……} He walked away, me trailing behind at his heels. “ Where have you been? You know I’m married. It’s too late to come back.” I shouted.   He quickly handed me a faded blue box with a Wal-Mart ring and matching necklace of 24 kt. Gold. I thought, how sweet, {but how cheap}…



In cowboy boots and long loping strides, his long hair blew behind him.  {Last time I saw him he was going bald.}  He presented a brass credit card to the proprietor of the Estate, who sat in front of the Hacienda in a folded metal chair like a kid at a Cool-Aid  card table.  Everyone was much impressed! Truly this was a credit card only owned by mega trillionaires such as Oprah and Donald Trump.


“I have many friends.” my old love said again.  The Kaleidoscope star in his eye opened up.  I saw piles of money, skinny arms reaching out for bags of white powder and cars racing away.  As if throwing a towel over an exposed body part, the kaleidoscope in his eye clicked shut.


HE BUYS, HE CONQUERS, HE WINS……{but not really}


“You can’t buy that house!   It’s too big!   Who will mow the yard?” I cried out. 

I will” he said, and drove away on a shiny red John Deer lawn mower into the "Twilight of Bad Boys."


The End 




It never fails that when I least expect it, old hauntings come to visit.   It would be easy to say the following:


  • I had a  telepathic connection with an old love
  • I was being taught a lesson about my "bad boy" love patterns
  • I was being haunted by a recently passed over old lover
  • I was being reminded of my own personal evolution and journey
  • I was given a message of the where abouts concerning a crime 


  • Perhaps the best thing one can do with dreams about old loves is write them down, date them, and do nothing.  What the Universe intends for us, will happen as should.
  • Mistaking old love visits as a need to communicate with them, may be sabotaging an important lesson a dream sent by our Angels, may be giving us.





# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Sunday, November 23, 2008 6:50 PM
still don't understand? it's tuff especially when there is no closure and the ending of the relationship was not on bad terms. You tend to contemplate on whether or not there is a chance for reconcilliation your dreams have a way sending you messages.  
# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Monday, November 24, 2008 3:38 PM
Simple …and I repeat, if the Universe intends for you both to be back together it will happen.  However the worst thing you can do is jump the gun and communicate with an old love simply because you had a dream about them. If the timeing is not right you can completely sabotage your chances.  Angel communication through dreams brings you what’s best, without trying.  Synchronicity is not accidental. And dreams can prepare you for those synchronistic moments.  
# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Tuesday, November 25, 2008 6:43 AM
I also dream about my old lover so often. In my dream, he was nicer, the way he love and care for me was better than when we were together. He seemed to realize about his mistake and wanted me to get back with me in an hidden intention. Yet in reality, it's never been one time that he would contact me.  I don't know what my dreams were trying to tell me.
# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Wednesday, November 26, 2008 6:01 AM
Sovin I believe the fact that in your dream he treated you better then he did in real life, you still have not accepted the reality of the jerk he really was.  

We all want to see the best in the people we love.  Some of us still love those people that hurt us, even when they hurt us over and over.  Your mind is hungry to believe the best in your old boyfriend.  Thankfully your common sense sees that he never treated you that good.

Your dream is a wake up call.  You clearly see, when you wake up, the OLD way you saw him....and the REALITY is he was a mean person. Your dream is saying "WAKE UP! HERE IS HOW YOU USED TO THINK!"  We all need reminders.  You are really very wise!  
# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Thursday, November 27, 2008 4:16 PM
Thank you so much, SisterOthelia
# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Wednesday, February 11, 2009 7:45 PM
i had a dream about a former love last night.. it was so vivid. She was with me. I was so glad to see her .. i was thinking i wanted to be with her and stay with her as long as she would allow me to, and then reality came back in and i was trying to figure out how to stay away from home overnight. THe feeling of contentment stayed with me all day after and the other comments helped me to just let this be and not feel i have to do anything about the dream ..just allow it to be with me.
# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Thursday, May 21, 2009 3:28 AM
thanks for what you wrote. i was really upset today, after another dream of a lover..
thing is, this was the sweetest lover ever, met in an holiday overseas. then i happened to find out (in a very very odd way) that he had a woman and children. i was really really upset.
he kept writing to me, all these years, from time to time, apologizing and all.
now that i am in a relationship with the WOMAN of my dreams, my life partner,  which happenes to be the most wonderful person ever, caring loyal sexy passionate .. and i am very much in love with her, i have dreams about this guy, dreaming her and i off to his caribbean country, me looking for this guy (i have dreamt about going back to visit very many times, looking for him, finding him).
in the last 2 dreams i was considering threatening my current relationship to be with this guy. i am very very upset...

could this be that i am not that at ease, still, with my newly discovered lesbianism???
# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Tuesday, July 21, 2009 8:50 AM
I had a vivid dream last night about a old lover. We were laughing together and holding each other? Something that we did in the past all the time. He was a gentle soul. He passed on about 6 years ago? Please help me with this dream????????
# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Wednesday, July 22, 2009 11:21 AM
I wrote a question yesterday but did not get a response. Can u please contact me about my dream as soon as possible. Thank you very much.
# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Saturday, March 05, 2011 8:23 PM
30 plus years ago, I had ended a six year relationship due to go going arguments about nearly all topics including belief view points and money problems.   After three months, I was lonely and tried to get back wtih her but ultimately she married the other guy after less then one year.

My dream recently was that I met her again and asked her to marry me.  She did not believe me since I had postponned the wedding date numerous times when we were together.  In the dream, I asked her to elope that very day.  Then the dream ended.  What is the meaning of this dream?
# re: Dreams about Old Lovers @ Saturday, April 23, 2011 7:54 AM
Last night i have a dream about an old intimate friend....that i was once really in love with....but she had a bf....and for this reason we werent able to be together....i ended up moving on and had a new gf....throughout the years i would always think about her.....and last night i saw her in my dreams...i wanted to talk to her but got the feeling that she didnt want to talk to me....and was giving me the cold shoulder...then i got arrested....what does this mean?
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