A dear friend of mine who I have known for 11 years now posted that comment on her facebook today. She is 40 and was single for years. She wanted to date but just met the wrong men. Four months ago, she met the right one. She is not the other friend that I talked about in past blogs. This is a different friend. She had her 40th birthday party back in December. It was a lavish Las Vegas event. She rented out a luxury suite for us with limo rides, fancy cake,etc. She was very happy. She did not whine about being 40 and single.
Now she is dating a great guy who treats her very well. He cleans the house, has food waiting for her when she comes home from the swing shift. He rubs her feet, changes the litter box, you name it, he does it. He gets along well with her friends and he passed her mothers torture test. Most men would of left after what my sweet surrogate mom did to him!lol!
She waited and appreciated the journey. Never complained, got angry, nothing. She is mature and grounded. SHE IS GROWN AND SEXY.! She never blamed. She talks about how she admires how I struggled in life. She calls me her hero. I consider her my hero because she is wealthy enough to not ever have to work and she chooses to work. She chose a man who works and will clean up and cook. She was patient and she received a quality man.
When a woman is thinking that she needs a man to feel complete, she will attract half a man because she is try to find her other half and feel completed. Be patient, not desperate and you will find a whole partner.