All natural psychics go through their own struggles with learning how to use their perceptive abilities. Then there is the issue of wisely integrating the additional information into one's daily life. Sometime in the next one hundred years, when psychic abilities have finally been scientifically studied and officially demystified, young intuitives will have a much less confusing time with this "condition."

There a few important, key distinctions for intuitives and non-intuitives to keep in mind regarding psychic perception: your subconscious is ALWAYS working for your best benefit! It is your best friend and it never varies in this regard. Some ancient texts refer to the subconscious mind as The Master Within.

Over a hundred years of modern "psychology" has convinced most people that there is something broken inside them that is looking to sabotage and destroy their every attempt at happiness. Nothing could be further from the truth! There is nothing that can happen to you in this life that can alter your subconscious mind's mission to help you. Only ideas held in the CONSCIOUS mind can twist up the healthy information coming to you through the portal of your subconscious mind.

Truly one of the greatest villains of this psychological fraud of a "broken self," perpetrated on the 21st century is Sigmund Freud. Ironically, the very sound of his name hints at his intellectual dishonesty.




Your subconscious mind is the master problem solver and will give you every opportunity to master your life, usually in the form on an algorithm, allegory, symbol or spontaneous cognition meant to cut through the confusion. This is why customers will often have dreams, insights and visions that correspond with my own psychic attempts to assist them. It is there subconscious mind seeking to solve their problem.

The other important concept to keep in mind with any kind of psychic perception is that it's all just data!

This tendency to make psychic perception more complex than it is, is similar to that criminal Freud's idea of broken self. There is no reason to split hairs and purposely obscure what your subconscious mind is telling you; whether it be seeing auras, hearing words, feeling sensations or precognitive flashes. It's all just data!

Your better known five senses faithfully deliver information to your brain about your environment, thereby enabling you to make the best judgments possible. In the same way, your psychic senses faithfully deliver information to your brain about the invisible world, enabling you to do same.

So what role do we modern psychics play in this process?





Having struggled, usually painfully so, to decipher this additional information from childhood, we have a lot of experience with it. Hopefully, by the time most psychics are offering their services to the public, they have developed a personal philosophy that supports their efforts to solve problems. Having a large personal thesaurus also helps. A problem can be anything from a romantic dilemma or something more earthly, like diagnosing a car issue. Psi can also be used with problems like what happened to Malaysia Airlines Flight 370 or which sports team is going to win.

Remember, it's all just data!
“The madness of love is the greatest of heaven’s blessings” ~ Plato




The phrase true love is almost as misunderstood as the word love.

What is true love according to this masculine male psychic? It’s optimum. It’s the best of all possibilities. It’s not the easiest, it’s not the ideal, and it’s not perfect by any means.

There are two things that are almost equally sad as a psychic: a customer who want to force a temporary relationship to be a true love one, and the customer who wants to make true love a temporarily relationship!

I’ve been asked many times: how can you tell whether this is a temporary relationship or true love? It’s intuitive; I can feel it.

Forget the analytical answers and classic relationship texts. Chances are pretty good, you and your true love should have been done with each other years ago, and with good reason. But you cannot give each other up!


Cold objectivity has its value in psychic readings.  One unfortunate phenomena many of us have run into is having a Psychic let their personal experience color their view of your situation.  That will never happen with me. 

While I can be compassionate about your situation,  I am coldly objective about the psychic data.  My personal experience has no place except as an occasional point of reference. 

Nor do your emotions have an impact on the reading. You can be crying, sobbing or even screaming. As long as I can make out what you're saying, I'm okay with emotions. I can read right through them! The only thing I would have a problem with in you calling into question my integrity as a psychic or hurling personal insults at me. If you get excited about your man and demand to know why he is behaving a certain, I will tell you. You're tone, quite frankly, doesn't make a damn bit of difference.

I only ask that you be honest with your verbal feedback so I can stay properly attuned to your situation.

If you want brutal accuracy with practical application, I am your psychic!  Talk to you soon!


There has been much written about Jesus of Nazareth; some of it true, most of it false.

Many whom have grown up in Christian homes found themselves fascinated by the character of Jesus, but not quite satisfied with seemingly sterile image of him portrayed by their respective churches.

The birth of this Avatar was indeed heralded by certain celestial and astrological events. Many mystics were waiting for his incarnation. He was born into the well organized Order of the Essene, a branch of the Great White Brotherhood. The Essene where healers headquartered in Galilee, north of Samaria, among the Gentiles.

A decree had been issued in 103 B.C. that forced everyone in Israel to conform to Mosaic law. Jesus’ parents, Joseph and Mary were Gentiles. They were Aryans who were Jewish, like many in Israel at the time, only by law. They lived in Galilee, but not in Nazareth, because this village did not exist at the time. Rather Jesus was referred to as Nazarene because this was the word the Jews used at the time to describe anyone who did not fully adhere to Judaism or who professed a different faith.

Some passages by Jesus in the New Testament are mysterious indeed. Many have been thought of in terms of spiritual regeneration, especially the term ‘born again.’

In the 11th Chapter of Matthew, Jesus is speaking to his Disciples about John the Baptist:“Truly I say unto you, Among them that are born of women there hath not risen a greater than John the Baptist: notwithstanding he that is least in the kingdom of heaven is greater than he.

“And from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffereth violence, and the violent take it by force. For all the prophets and the law prophesied until John. And if ye will receive it, this is Elias, which was for to come.

He that hath ears to hear, let him hear.” [emphasis added].

Jesus certainly seems to be stating the John the Baptist is the reincarnation of Elias.

The two major sects of Jews in Jerusalem during that time where the Pharisees and the Sadducees. The Pharisees were more metaphysical, believing in angels and an after life, while the Sadducees where more secular and legalistic.

In John, Chapter 3, a Pharisee named Nicodemus comes to visit Jesus secretly at night, for Jesus had many secret disciples:

The same came to Jesus by night, and said unto him, “Rabbi, we know that thou art a teacher come from God: for no man can do these miracles that thou doest, except God be with him.” 

Jesus answered, “Truly, I say unto thee, except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.”

Nicodemus saith unto him, “How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter the second time into his mother’s womb, and be born?”

Jesus answered, “Truly, I say unto thee, except a man be born of water and of the spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the spirit is spirit. 

“Marvel not that I said unto thee, ye must be born again. The wind bloweth where it listeth, and thou hearest the sound thereof, but canst not tell whence it cometh, and whither it goeth: so is every one that is born of the spirit.”

Nicodemus answered and said unto him, “How can these things be?”

“Art thou a master of Israel, and knowest not these things?” Jesus answered, “Truly, I say unto thee, we [the Essene] speak that we do know, and testify that we have seen; and ye receive not our witness. If I have told you earthly things, and ye believe not, how shall ye believe, if I tell you of heavenly things?” [emphasis added].

Then again, in the 9th Chapter of John: And as Jesus passed by, he saw a man which was blind from his birth. And his disciples asked him, saying, “Master, who did sin, this man, or his parents, that he was born blind?”

 Jesus answered, “Neither hath this man sinned, nor his parents: but that the works of God should be made manifest in him.” 

Jesus then heals the man. But the question remains, how could this man have sinned before he was born unless he had a previous life? 

Reincarnation is certainly one of the most misunderstood of mystical doctrines. And I will not go into an elaborate explanation of it. This blog is only to point out some rather mysterious passages in the Bible.

A note about ‘past life readings’: I will warn you that at our current state of spiritual evolution, maybe one hundred persons on Earth can perceive anything about your past lives; and I am not one of them. So please be careful when you come in contact with intuitives who profess this skill. It is very rare.



Let’s see, last time I checked, I was a man! There some customers who would like me to be a woman.  But guess what?  When you call a straight male psychic, you’re going to get a male perspective!  As shocking as that might seem, it’s the truth!

Most of my female customers, who are the majority, are very accepting of the intuitive information. They appreciate the unique intuitive insights I can offer while helping them understand the very different manner in which we men think.  

Over the past 25 years of psychic work, I have probably run into a dozen men during readings who were absolutely fabulous and immediately told my customers to keep him.  The only reason they were calling me was for confirmation.  I’ve run into about twice as many men who were just complete dogs and I told my customers to dump him.  The vast majority of men out there are good guys, trying to do the best they can in a confusing world.  There are very few real ‘players’ out their ladies.  That was back in high school.

Most men do not have commitment issues, they don’t get involved with women just to break their hearts and they don’t drink your tears for pleasure. There are tons of psychics out there who will tell you that your guy is a player when he is not.  It’s one of the easiest things to do.  Other psychics will tell you that your guy will magically turn around, come back to you and everything will be great.  Both of  those options take  power and responsibility away from you, the customer!

Now, this might not be politically correct in the psychic handbook, but there is almost always something you have done or said to make your man cool his jets with you. Therefore there is almost always something, however small, you can do to improve your relationship and communication with your man.  That is where I come in. I am intuitive and a straight male and I can tell you exactly what he is thinking, exactly what he is feeling, and exactly what you can do to improve things.

But please don’t call me up, just wanting a scapegoat or me to tell you your guys is great or a dog.  Chances are, he’s neither.  For the purposes of illustration, I am going to list a few things not to do if you want to improve your relationship with your man: don’t sleep with his friend, don’t steal money from him, don’t stalk his every move around the internet and confront him with it constantly.  Don’t create spoof social networking accounts with a model's picture offering him more revealing pictures.  Don’t email and call him 50 times a day and demand to know why he won’t call you back.  Don’t show up at his place of work only to flip him off in front of co-workers.

For men, most of their supposed ‘commitment issues’ revolve around real problems they are trying to solve with you.  The issues are simple.  Some examples are: money (their lack of usually), children (from a previous relationship, yours or you wanting more kids), sex (incompatible styles / appetites), long distances, work schedules and career goals.  So when you call me, please be open to possibility that what your man is telling you is the issue, really is the issue; especially when I pick it up intuitively before you tell me anything about him!

I don’t have your guy on the phone, I have you on the phone.  I want to help you improve your relationship and as a male psychic, I can do that!  But not if you insist that your guy is a Prince or and Villain.

I look forward to your call looking for real solutions. 



One question I get frequently asked is how a man can be a woman's optimum mate if he's already married?  The answer is simple: he married the wrong woman. 

An optimum mate is not a perfect or ideal mate, but the best person for you.   Is the relationship the easiest?  Almost never!  Is it the most beneficial?  Absolutely!  Is an optimum mate a 'soul mate'?  Truthfully I don't know; I've never read an adequate explanation of a 'soul mate.' 

What I do know is that I can intuitively sense and / or Remote View an optimum mate; and there is only one.  Soul mates seem to be numerous.

Optimum Mates are a part of your optimum path or trajectory in life.  To understand why a man or woman would be married to the wrong person is pretty simple.   They ignored their heart and / or their intuition.  This frequently happens in our society, which frowns up intuition as 'irrational.'  As we all know however, there are some things that make no rational sense but must simply be felt.

People not only make mistakes, in our overly-rational society, about mates, but vocations and location to live as well.  But that, is another story!


"Many are the vistas that are revealed to him who has attained the mountaintop."


Amenhotep IV was born on November 24th, 1378 B.C. He was the son of Amenhotep III and Queen Tia. In 1367, when he was only 11 years old, he became Pharaoh of Egypt. At a young age, he married Nefertiti, with whom he had supposedly seven daughters only.

As a young man, Amenhotep IV scorned the superstitious practices of the priests of Amon. He considered them impostors who advantage of the credulity of the common people. When he ascended to the Throne, he opposed the priesthood with unprecedented determination.

Amenhotep was convinced the entire universe was the work of One God, rather than a multitude of gods and goddesses. For the first time in recorded history, monotheism replaced polytheism.

Some, like author Nicholas Reeves, claim that Amenhotep/Akhnaton was a false prophet. Instead of being the idealistic founder of a new faith, he cynically used religion for purely political ends in a calculated attempt to reassert the authority of the king to concentrate all power in his own hands.

I can tell with absolutely certainty, from my Remote Viewing sessions of Akhnaton, he was absolutely sincere and really believed his new faith.

For centuries afterward, Amenhotep was thought to be afflicted with madness by scholars and lay persons alike. But there is a great deal of evidence to suggest that he contributed considerably to the cultural and spiritual evolution of humanity. He changed his name from Amenhotep, which means "Amon Is Satisfied" to Akhnaton, meaning "Disciple of Aton."

The common Egyptian people at the time, as taught by the priests of Helioplis, believed that Sun was the God of all gods whom they called Amon-Ra. For Akhnaton, the Sun was only the visible symbol of the invisible God whom he called Aton. He believed that this God was a unique intelligence that manifested throughout the whole universe. Aton was represented as a solar disk, whose beams ended in hands, thus symbolizing his desire to spread blessings to all humanity.



Akhnaton left Thebes, the traditional capital of Egypt to build a new capital named Akhetaton, in central Egypt and dedicated to his new religion. He gathered the most learned men and women of his time to lay the foundation for a mystical brotherhood whose ideals were to be disseminated over the entire Earth. He passed away on July 24th, 1350 B.C. He was 28 years old.

As soon as Akhnaton had passed away, the old priesthood reassured their power and convinced his young son, Tutankhaton, to change his name to Tutankhamun, and allow the old polytheistic religion to be practiced once more. They torn down all stele, statues and writings of Akhnaton and did everything in their power to wipe the "heretical Pharaoh" out of existence in the this world and in the Afterlife.



Some scholars have speculated that because of his Father's activities, Tutankhamun was murdered by the old priesthood. But this was not the case. King Tut as he is popularly referred to, had a clubbed foot. As I have seen through my Remote Viewing sessions, he fell down a steep flight of stone stairs, and fractured his left leg. This break became infected and the young Pharaoh died from that infection.


Below is the National Spiritualist Association of Churches of the United States of America Declaration of Principles, which I also affirm.

  1. We believe in Infinite Intelligence.
  2. We believe that the phenomena of Nature, both physical and spiritual, are the expression of Infinite Intelligence.
  3. We affirm that a correct understanding of such expression and living in accordance therewith, constitute true religion.
  4. We affirm that the existence and personal identity of the the individual continue after the change called death.
  5. We affirm that communication with the so-called dead is a fact, scientifically proven by the phenomena of Spiritualism.
  6. We believe that the highest morality is contained in the Golden Rule: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
  7. We affirm the moral responsibility of individuals, and that we make our own happiness or unhappiness as we obey or disobey Nature’s physical and spiritual laws.
  8. We affirm that the doorway to reformation is never closed against any soul here or hereafter.
  9. We affirm that the precepts of Prophecy and Healing are Divine attributes proven through Mediumship.

I am normally much more “crunchy,” liking proof positive that goes beyond personal belief. Hence why I love Remote Viewing. However, as a natural psychic and medium who lives with this everyday, I must say these principles are true.

Despite my scientific side, which loves quantifying and measuring the human psychic function, we must also accept that belief plays a significant role in psychic perception. Please see my previous blog about Free Will for more details.



Sacred Space is a term as old as our ancestors. Every people, culture and tribe across the globe has that "special" place of contemplation and reflection. Where our daily struggles are temporarily ignored and we turn our attention to something greater than ourselves. It's a sacred place of disassociation. But it is far different than the typical distractions on TV or the Internet. In this special place, we quiet our conscious mind and turn our attention inward. This is a place where we reconnect with our very being: our soul itself.

Unfortunately not too many people ever get to experience the atmosphere of a Sacred Space. Modern society moves very fast and we are constantly inundated with communication and noise: from emails, text messages, phone apps, Facebook, Twitter, not to mention other external distractions like household responsibilities, children, homework, regular maintenance of cars, etc. And most people are never told about the Master Within and how important it is to cultivate that connection with the Inner Self.



A Sacred Space becomes imbued with the elevated thoughts, spiritual aspirations and prayers of the people connecting with their Inner Selves. It naturally becomes of place of healing and rejuvenation. And in a very real way, that science will one day confirm, the very nature of the matter making up that location changes. It becomes even easier to access higher stages of consciousness there!



For many mystics, outdoor settings are the best sacred space. Natural environments tend to elicit a profound sense of peace to the mystically-inclined. Whether it be a grove of trees, a desert, or a beach, natural scenery makes a perfect place for solitary meditation and contemplation.



The old symbol of the magicians workshop is also indicative of a sacred space. Old wizards studied metaphysical principles there and kept their secrets well hidden from the profane eyes of an often ignorant public.

For some female mystics, the kitchen can even be a sacred space. I would encourage everyone reading this to find or create your own sacred space. If you need any advice or direction, write or call me.


"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." ~ Joseph Campbell


I've joked with a few of my customers that I was going to start calling myself The Man Whisperer! Maybe I won't change my member name to that, but I'll blog about it.

Okay ladies, listen up: Everyday I run into the same series of problems with my mostly female customers. Don't take this wrong, I love you all and am happy to help. But the average woman is completely lost with the signals the average man puts out in a relationship. This is understandable, since we really are wired very differently.

About half my time on the phone is spent, not perceiving raw psychic information, but explaining how the male animal works in general; and then specifically, how the customer's man thinks and feels about her. This is wonderful too, since I really do help the customer.

The part that shocks me a little is how perplexed most women are about how men think. I would suspect with how much energy females put into relationships, they'd have their guy figured out by now. ;-)

Again, I do not mean to be insulting or offensive. It's easy for me because I am a straight-alpha-male psychic. One hint I would like to give you ladies before you call me is: guys are very, very simple. Most of the time, you're reading way more into the situation then is there.

There are many fantastic female intuitives here on Keen who can help you explore your feelings and spirituality in ways I probably never could as a man. So please don't think I'm being derogatory toward them.

But if you're completely confounded and hopeless lost in the forest of overly plain male behavior, please let me help you
.

Honestly, unless you want to talk about your feelings at length, it will probably take me less then 10 minutes to help you understand just how little your man really thinks! :-D

I AM The Man Whisperer!



As most of you know by now, Remote Viewing (or RV) uses precise, prescribed methods to gather the most effective data about a target. Breaking larger problems into smaller pieces is one of the those methods. So I have focused on the two young girls who set things in motion in the witch trials of Salem, Massachusetts in 1692; Betty Parris and Abigail Williams.

Betty was the daughter of Reverend Samuel Parris and Abigail was his niece. In February of 1692, the girls began to suffer from fits described as “beyond the power of Epileptic Fits or natural disease to effect”. The girls screamed, threw things about the room, uttered strange sounds, crawled under furniture, and contorted themselves into peculiar positions according to the eyewitness accounts.

Several other girls began to suffer from the same fits, often in the 3 hour Wednesday or Sunday church meetings. When doctors could find nothing wrong with the girls they began to talk about “specters” that afflicted them, in the form of the “witches” who projected to them. However, while most of us in the 21st century would be cautious of accusing someone of something destructive based solely on “spectral evidence,” the Villagers at Salem had no problem with it.

RVing the source of Betty Parris’ “supernatural fits” I produced no evidence of demonic possession or anything pertaining to the Devil. Everything pointed to a bored, mischievous little girl who may not have even understood why she was behaving the way she was.

This is a chilling discovery. Granted this session encompasses only one girl, but she was the catalyst for the events. If she was not really possessed by anything other than boredom, this means that 20 innocent people really were executed in Salem in 1692.





Saturn: the planet of restriction. Obviously our Saturday is named after this planet, a symbol of restriction...which might do us some good in modern society. There is a concept very similar that Saturn symbolizes...patience, which is the message of this blog post.

Those of us who have been crushed, disappointed and heartbroken by love can often become fatalistic. We can become lonely and looking for almost anyone to fill the void in our heart. This is where our old friend Saturn comes in to remind us to be patient. More is lost by filling your life with the wrong person than patiently waiting for the right one.




Maybe it's naive, but I believe in the power of purity, I believe in the power of prayer, and I believe in the power of patience. May you, dear reader, utilize the divine power within you as you pray not only for the right person but the patience to wait for them. Patience is a lost virtue in our instant gratification society. Patience insures craftsmanship, quality, and a stable foundation for love, romance and family. Do not neglect this virtue.






Below is a beautiful song called "Someday" by a brother and sister band named La Rue from the 1990s. It perfectly captures the longing for a lover, a sweetheart, a companion, a husband, a wife, that almost all of us have. It's a moving expression of that longing to belong with someone, to someone, that most us of have. And unless you were the one of the fortunate few who met the love of your life in High School, this requires patience. Enjoy.

https://youtu.be/X3e2fWolsas


This is always an interesting question to get as a male psychic. The answer is not an easy one.

Men and women are wired very differently. I hope that despite a 50 year campaign of the gender-benders to make all humans
androgynous, most observant and practical people are acknowledging these profound differences between the sexes.

None of the biological distinctions that I will write about below negate or replace spiritual feelings and aspirations such as love, hope, sentimental or sweet emotions. The biological component overlaps!

Also keep in mind as you read that this blog addresses most established relationships and/or marriages, not a new dating dynamic. 

These natural, biological differences go back tens of thousands of years (at least), to primitive times when humans where primarily hunter-gathers. Men often left on extended hunting expeditions that lasted days or weeks. Their survival depended on emotionally detaching so they could focus on the hunt. If they did not focus, they could get injured, killed or even worse, return to the tribe with no food!

Our society and technology may have changed significantly in the past thousand years, but biology moves much slower. Men still have the habit of emotionally detaching to focus on work or important aspects of life.

Women, being hard-wired for emotional closeness and intimacy, as a survival mechanism, are on the opposite end. While women may no longer physically or financially have to depend on a man for her survival, emotionally she responds just like she did thousands of years ago: panic.

Let's get back to the question of missing: Yes, your man misses you, but not in the same way you miss him. A man very rarely feels waves of sentimental feelings sweep over him immediately after he has departed his love's presence. What women in the modern world needs to understand is that this lack of sentimentality is not a bad thing! Your man still loves you, still wants you, and is still attracted to you. But when he departs, biology sometimes kicks in and he feels the wonder lust of the hunt (for food, income, acquisitions, and personal productivity).

For thousands of years, that detachment meant the survival of his family and tribe. And that will not change overnight, but neither does it need to be looked at as callousness, lack of love or lack of caring.

Yes, your man loves you, yes he misses you; just not in the same way, with the same intensity and on the same time table as a woman. And that's a good thing! :-D It is completely possible for you balance your need for closeness and intimacy with your man's occasional need to pull away. It's a matter of understanding, tolerance and trust that goes both ways.

There are many more issues revolving around this one topic I could go into. However, in the spirit of brevity, I'm going to end it here.


Far too many people think that psychic abilities and spirituality are synonymous.   Psychic abilities are our extrasensory perception and/or mind-over matter skills, where spirituality is our moral character. 

While I have always wanted and needed a spiritual connection with the Divine, I have avoided stepping into the 'spiritual teacher' role for years because I was so disgusted with hypocrisy and self-deception in this field.  And it doesn't matter whether we are talking about traditional religionists or new agey/alternative types.  Both are groups have their hypocrites and pretenders.

What is spirituality?  While exploring this topic, I came across an interesting quote by the Dali Lama: "My religion is very simple.  My religion is kindness."  The Lama seems to be equating religion (which is a very bad word in modern America) with spirituality.  I don't see how kindness can be considered spiritual, much less a religion!  I think in attempt to emphasize that our spirituality should be a part of our daily lives, the Lama has done what most others have done: watered down any attempt at spirituality and turned into to politeness. 

I say that spirituality is more like a staircase, that requires effort to ascend, but will eventually lead to union with God.  There is a common saying in the modern new age movement that "we are one," implying that all people are somehow mystically connected.  While this is nice idea, what about God? Shouldn't our spirituality actually be an effort to have a better connection with the Divine?

To make it even more confusing, many people mistake psychic development with spirituality.  I've often heard people say, "Well, God wouldn't allow someone to develop such extraordinary powers if they weren't good and moral, right?"  Nothing could be further from the truth.  If someone are a good driver, does that make them spiritual?  If someone is a good writer, does that make them spiritual?  If someone is a good accountant, does that make them spiritual?  The answer is obviously no

Spirituality has nothing to do with driving, writing or accounting.  Someone could be morally bankrupt and still perform those tasks well.  The same is true with psychic perception.  We must stop thinking of psychic perception as anything other than a skill.

Let's continue with analogy of the staircase: a staircase requires effort to ascend, regular steps, is not done all at once and we can slip if we are not careful.  Spirituality is the same way. 


So what is the key to true spiritual development?  What is the key that unlocks the door to the staircase?  Regular meditation.  The thing that surprises me most in my field of public psychic is how few self-proclaimed psychics regularly mediate!  This is an absolute basic!  How can a psychic possibly be free of mental distractions and noise without regular meditation? 

When I have asked psychics how they meditate, I usually get an answer like "well, I just close my eyes and relax."  And that sounds good if they are attempting to nap.  But the purpose of meditation is to reach higher stages of consciousness!  Relaxing just won't do. 

Meditation, in today's hectic world, is the lost key.  And like ascending the staircase, forging the key requires effort.  Learning proper meditation can be challenging, but it is well worth the effort. 

Meditation can help us overcome the trauma of childhood, improve our health, clear out old, worn out belief systems, and spontaneously remember past lives.  Solutions to one's daily problems often present themselves in mediation.  This skill, this key, is something the spiritual aspirant simply cannot neglect.

But be forewarned, however.  You will eventually be forced to face your own demons and shortcomings.  All the times you behaved less then admirably will come before your minds eye and you will be forced to admit your mistakes and correct your behavior.  Meditation, and therefore spirituality, are not for the faint of heart. 

If you are ready for more than just a psychic reading, give me a call.



"I have a very strong feeling that the opposite of love is not hate - it's apathy. It's not giving a damn." ~ Leo Buscaglia



I had a customer I just adore call me earlier today and she was so mad at her guy she kept cussing and then apologizing. I had to keep reassuring her that it was okay to express herself like that. Because I almost never cuss, customers often think they must be very polite with me. While I appreciate this, it might interfere with your reading or understanding of the situation. My goal is to help you not only understand the situation and take effective action, but also rid yourself of those negative emotions. And often that is done through cussing!

You will find almost no cuss words in my blogs. I believe I use the word 'hell' in a few. I've also written some blogs about sexual purity, celibacy and chastity that might give you the idea that I'm a prude. While I will always advocate being careful with your body and heart, expressing your emotions during a call with me are an entirely different issue!

Maybe it's because I'm Sicilian and was raised by a Sailor Dad from Brooklyn that I couldn't care any less about cussing? Seriously, it rolls right off me. Maybe it's because I'm an INTJ? I don't know. My attitude when on the phone is compassionate, yet detached. You customers are often dealing with very emotional issues that you can't talk to anyone else about! You want to scream! You want to rant! You want cry and cuss! Please go ahead and do so! You're not going to offend me. I will do everything I can to help you. Feelings often don't make sense and that's okay! Or sometimes they don't make sense until they are untangled by verbal objectification. So spit it out! It's okay. I can take it. I'm not going to break.

While I can help you understand your man, I also know we men can be maddening! We men can be so freaking dense! Men often expect their women to be men with vaginas. And this leads to all kinds of problems! If he's wrong, I'll tell you so. If you're misunderstanding his behavior, I'll let you know that too. I'm only going to lay a few ground rules for expressing emotion or profanity during a call:

  1. Cuss all you want! Really.
  2. You can tell me how much men suck (because we often do)! Just try not to attack me directly. :-D
  3. You can cry all you want! Really. Just keep in mind that if I can't hear you clearly, I can't answer questions. We'll have to wait for you to calm down enough for me to understand you.


I want to be effective in helping you. If dropping the F-bomb helps, do it!
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