Before I ever became a Keen advisor, I was a client like you. With life's uncertainties and curveballs, I found solace through this network of advisors - whether it was to check if I should heed my intuition, what another person was feeling about me, or I needed hope that various aspects of life would work out. At times, if I didn't hear the answer I was seeking, I'd find someone else to tell me what I wanted.
While I'm of the sound belief that we find advisors, friends, and life partners who are ideal fits, if we're not ready for change, our default mechanism can be to stay stuck in false hope. False hope keeps us in our comfort zones, but they're not where growth occurs! A sizeable percentage of the population is programmed to stay in their comfort zone - understandably, it's what we've become accustomed to, and the known often seems preferable to uncertainty. Although growth and change can feel uncomfortable, they're required to fulfill our human potential.
After a period of consulting tarot cards with questions beginning with the word will, such as "will I get the job," "will I hear from him," and "will life be okay," I shifted my approach. Due to working with a few, transformational life coaches I began to ask questions starting with why, what, or how: "Why is this pattern repeating itself in my life?" "What can I learn from it?" and "How can I approach this situation for the best, possible outcome?"
By working with these types of questions, my fate was no longer outside of myself - instead, I took responsibility for the way I could actively shape my destiny by seeking powerful insights from the tarot cards. The art of asking - and the art of living - can be found in posing stronger questions to attain stronger answers.
Denise Eagle is an intuitive tarot consultant and a certified wellness coach, who is passionate about helping people to lead lives of joy and fulfillment.