Endings, why do things end, why does a great television series end, why does a great football game end, why does a great romance end, a marriage, a relationship, why oh why do great things end. When I ask why I do not mean exactly why as in what happened to make them end because sometimes there is no reason, sometimes a great television series that has great ratings just ends. Take the HBO series Newsroom, The Sopranos, and many other really great series with high ratings just come to an abrupt end. They leave us with a hole to fill, they leave us wanting more, they leave us with questions, so many questions. Relationships, romances, and even marriages are just the same. Why do they end especially when they were good or even great.
When something ends it leaves us with a space to fill, if it's a television series it leaves us with a feeling of what are we going to watch now, but alas we do move on and find that new show to watch. When a football game ends, the season end, or even just the game ends we want it not to be over, but with football, television shows, and so many other things we have learned that there is always another game, there is always another season and there will always be another great television show that we will get caught up in and love and it will replace the space, the hole, that we feel is missing.
When you apply the same theory to romances, relationships, and marriages it is not that easy. We know that with pretty much certainty that someone, some network executive, some screenwriter somewhere is going to have a new series ready for us to watch. In sports we always know that there is another game next week, or the next day if it's baseball or basketball game or if the season is over, well you know what they say, there is always next year. You can count on it with certainty, lets face it the NBA, the NFL and the networks are going to just keep doing what they do. They replace, they renew, they start fresh, you can count on it so even after watching the series finale of your favorite television show you know that there is going to be another to replace it.
Yes, you may even cry at the end of a good series such as house, the sopranos, or well for me this week it was the newsroom an HBO series that only lasted 3 years and was great. I wondered to myself why did it have to end. I love that show, there was so much more they could have done. I used too love the show House, many years of watching the show, even had a great series ending in my book, it was part of my life as I am sure each one of you out there reading this can identify with, I know everyone or most everyone has a show they love, that makes them feel great, that fills a gap in their life even if it just for one hour a week. With an end comes something new. If television series never ended then there would be no room for anything new, or anything better
Think back to a time where a series you watched ended and you said to yourself that I am never going to find another show to replace that one that I am going to love as much. I bet that you did, that you did find another show that you like just as much. you may not love it in the same way, for me, Friends The TV series, was a show that I will always miss and think of as my one great loves as far as television shows go, but I have found others that I love, maybe not in the same way but I love game of thrones, I love watching Homeland, and many others. Not maybe in the same way but I have filled that space, that hole in my heart, yes I have, and I am sure by now you get what I mean and where I am going with all of this talk about series finales and endings but even more important new shows.
Relationships, romances, and marriages are not television shows or sports games, they are unique compared to most other things in our life. To be honest, the idea of a marriage is that it never ends, as in "till death do us part", a relationship is something we hope grows into a marriage, and at some point a romance, we hope, grows into a relationship. The truth is that unlike anything else in our lives, most anything else anyway, we tend to feel that we do not need an ending because we do not need to make room or space for another. One great love, one great marriage, romance or relationship should be enough for us. We strive for that. We never want them to end as long as they make us feel great, and in many cases we even do not want them to end if they doo not always make us feel so great. The truth however is that they do end. Even marriages end 50% of the time. Relationships, and romances, well you know, they end all the time, but they also begin all the time too.
The question we always ask ourselves is why. Why did they end.
We can get very hung up on thinking about why a relationship ended, what could we have done better or different to have made it last. We really get hung up on the thought that we can get them back, that the person we broke up with, or that left us will comeback one day or at sometime. This waiting, this continual thinking that this is going to happen is what really hurts us the most, because the truth, is that in most relationships and romances that end, well they usually end for good. It may take us a while to realize this, but the fact is that eventually we move on, the other person moves on, and in the end we find another person, another relationship, or romance that fills that gap. That replaces the old and allows us to be happy again.
The difference between Marriages, relationships, and romances, versus television shows, or football games, is that there is nobody but ourselves that is going to just make a new one for us to replace the old. We are the only people that can do that. We do not have anyone that is going to just produce another relationship for us to jump into. We have to do the work, we are the producers. Yes, karma will help, the planets do align, and in some cases we can fix a broken relationship but if it is over, it is over for good and we must start new, we must start over and produce a new life for ourselves.
Karma, fate, or whatever universal force that allows us to find the right person, or the next right person to share our lives with, needs us to participate. We cant just change the channel or wait till next season. We have to at the very least do the work we must produce, or direct in a way.
The good news is this. Most of the time, and in most cases, we do find our next true love, our next relationship, or our next big romance. The problem is that it is a process, and you must participate in this process in order for that next great person to fall into our path's and into our lives. If we just sit around and wait, if we just lay down and think about what happened to our last, if we do not get over what has happened then we wont find that next one. We wont find "The One".
More good news, I have been reading people for so many years, and I have done so many readings, in the tens of thousands mind you, that I can assure you that if you just follow the steps, if you participate, you will absolutely, without any doubt, find your next relationship, romance or even marriage. I have seen this happen time after time.
The biggest problem is ourselves. We take such a long time to realize that the last relationship is over, that they are not coming back, that we need to pick ourselves up and start a new chapter in our life, and in many cases just start our next "new life", as I believe that each one of us, because we live such long lives compared to older generations, have two or even three lives that we lead and each one can be great. Each one can be better or if not better than different than the last, different in a good way. Sometimes better is not a good word to use, because it makes the last seem no good, or worse. My point is that you can have multiple lives that are totally fulfilling and wonderful.
How do we begin? How do we forget what we had before, how do we really know it is over. You see that's the trick, if you want to call it a trick, and I am going to do just that. You see the trick, the key, the secret, is knowing for sure that something is either over, or can be fixed.
Knowing if he is coming back, if there is something you can do to fix a bad or broken marriage or relationship, or if it is time to let go, move on, and participate in life and allow karma to replace. Yes! as long as you participate, as long as you know the direction you need to go in, then you are going to find that next true love, that next relationship, romance, or even marriage. The trick, is that "You Must Know".
I know you may have to get through the frogs to get to the prince but that's a post for another time. This is about starting over or making things work, knowing that you only have one direction you can go in, and that is forward. Knowing the truth even if it hurts.
The dilemma is this, many times you call and advisor, psychic, and you get what I call a "Fairytale Story", or you get something called "Sugar Coating". There are many out there that do not have the talent, or the bravery to tell you the truth. Some for their own selfish reason just do not want to tell you anything but a fairytale. They either cant see what it is that happened and why, so they just tell you for now what is going to make you feel good for the moment. It's safe, you will call them back for hope, false hope in so many cases. This bothers me because only the truth will help you.
This is bad, what you need is the cold hard truth in most cases and it takes a very good psychic to do that. Do you think it is easy to tell someone who is in pain that the person they are asking about is not coming back, that this relationship is not going to continue to grow, or that this marriage is on its way out or over. The truth is that in a lot of cases many people call just to get that "Fairytale Story". If your looking for that please do not call me.
Call me only if you are looking for the absolute truth and help in getting past it if needed. sometimes the truth is good news, but I will always tell you the truth.
Trust me when I say that if we can fix your relationship, marriage, or romance I am going to help you do that first, and in so many cases if you call me before it is way too late I can help you understand what the other person is thinking and feeling about you and the relationship, and I can help you adjust the way you act, react, and think to make things better, and give you the best opportunity to make things work. That is what I do. That is why my clients long ago nicknamed me "The Romance Psychic'.
Yes! lets fix this, lets make this work, but if it cant be fixed or if it is over, or if that person you are asking about is just not wanting the same thing as you are,, it is better to find out now. Your lucky, your on keen and there are many great advisors here. I would like to think of myself as one of those great psychic, clairvoyant, advisors, who with non judgmental compassion can help you to either fix your situation, understand what is happening or help you make the right decisions so that you can move on with your life.
There are a series of steps that must be taken first before you move on, before you can start over, and before you can, with the help of karma, guidance, and the right choices find and start the next relationship, or romance. Trust in this, you will have another love in your life if you want one.
Before however we even begin that we need to know exactly what is going on in your relationship, romance, or marriage. We need to know if there is anything that can make things better, if the other person has any intention of going long term and wants to be with you forever or if you are just wasting your time. You also need the truth, if things are over you need to know. You need to hear the truth even if it stings. I will always give you that truth. I am very honest and very accurate and I am also a male psychic so I can pretty easily tell you what the man in your life is going to do or not do by just reading his thoughts, feelings, and intentions. Once we get the truth we can either try fixing things, or we can start the process of moving on and starting our new life. The next chapter. The One. He is out there you know. We each have many one's, many soul mates, each just waiting for you, and karma, to help you intersect on you life path.
If you are reading this and you are stuck. If you are just playing those bad movies over and over in your head all day long. If you are sitting there waiting for a text or call that is just not coming, then please call me now and let me help you. I read on keen to help people.
No, I am not going to just give you some fairytale story, you have probably already had enough of them to last you a lifetime by now, and they have not come through. So please, allow me to give you a peak into what is going on and tell you the truth about everything. It does not matter what I tell you, if we can fix things we will, but if we cant I can help you as I have helped so many others find the next great love in your life. It may not be tomorrow but it will be so much faster than if you just sit there and wonder what happened, or stay in that stuck position. I can get you un-stuck. Let us start now. The call you make to me today, you will remember for the rest of your life. The call you make to me will help you start the rest of your life.
I hope this has helped many to just read what I have written here today and I look forward to reading you and helping you. If you are reading this, it is meant to be. With Love And Light PsychicAndrew