Todays Temperance card is about balance and relationships of all kinds. Friendships, family, romantic partnerships, and work partnerships all need your attention.

Although in general all your relationships are likely to be going quite well, you may need to look at your deeper personal issues and see if or how these are standing in your way. And if they are, how to work through them and integrate them. The idea now is to do what it takes to find balance, in yourself, in your relationships, and with your goals and aspirations. Remember, before you can really have peace and wisdom in your relationships, you need to have peace within yourself. Look at what you feel guilty about, mistakes that you feel you've made in your past. Then forgive yourself, and let them go. It's the only way you can truly make progress.

You have to get to know the real you before you are able to finally accept and embrace the concept of being true to yourself.
Ask yourself these important questions, to really get to know yourself and what will truly make you happy! One of the easiest ways to help you stay true to the person you really are is to have a conversation with yourself. Not the crazy whispering to oneself in front of a stained mirror, but a genuine, honest conversation. Think of this exercise as a meditation, of sorts, where you ask yourself some hard questions and really think about the answers and how they can help you.
#1 Am I happy? This is what you really want to gauge when considering how true to yourself you are. Being true to yourself equates to being happy; therefore, you need to determine whether or not you are happy.
#2 What am I grateful for? What are the things that you’re thankful for? What couldn’t you live without? Air? Water? Family? Friends? It helps to know what it is you’re fighting for.
#3 What gets me out of bed every morning? Is it work? Is it because you need to make a living? Is it because you want to do something special that day? No matter what the reason is, you got up.
#4 What am I good at? Don’t list things that you aren’t good at; instead, look and see at what you actually do well. Whether it’s making pancakes, playing board games, or dialing a number, knowing what you’re good at tells you where to start looking to find what makes you happy.
#5 What do I not like about myself? This is going to be difficult, but being honest with yourself will shed light on what it is that is making you untrue to yourself. Imagine solving a work problem; the first thing you look for are the things that aren’t working.
#6 What can I do to change that? Everything that you don’t like about yourself can be changed or adapted to. Change isn’t about overhauling the whole package—it’s about adjusting yourself in order to find what makes you feel comfortable and happy.
#7 Do I really have to change it? Again, this all boils down to what makes you feel good and happy. If changing your looks doesn’t make you happy, don’t. The fact that you’re unhappy is probably stemming from something else, like how you think people perceive you. If you’re okay with who you are, you’re off to a great start.
#8 Do I care too much about what other people think? If your answer is yes, you now know why you’re not being true to yourself. In order for you to change that, you have to accept that what other people think has no bearing on who you choose to be.
#9 Am I doing what’s best for myself? Your job, your dating life, your social life—all of your decisions in these areas create the life you are living. Making the best decisions means choosing what makes you happy, what makes you healthy, and what makes you thrive.
#10 Will my happiness come at the cost of someone else’s? Happiness is subjective, but some things that make us happy can make other people sad. Unfortunately, some types of happiness can only be achieved at the cost of someone else’s—like falling in love with a friend’s crush. But in order to be true to yourself, you have to think hard about what you’re willing to sacrifice for your happiness.
Staying true to yourself comes with a lot of responsibility. The great thing about it, however, is that no one else can make that decision for you.
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The Devil is not as frightening a card to interpret as the depiction on most cards indicates. It is a card about bondage but often this bondage is metaphoric and internal. With this card you are called to look beyond superficial appearances and to go deeper into the truth and meaning of a situation.It's important for you to remember that no matter what your situation, that you always have options to choose from.

First things first, don't let other people tell you that your options are limited. If you come to that conclusion, be sure that you are coming to it on your own. Regardless, it will be crucial to remember that you can free yourself from whatever restrictions are holding you back, at any time you choose to do so. You may have the feeling now that you are not in control of your life; sometimes this happens as a result of your own actions, but more often as a byproduct of inaction. So, take action, take whatever steps you can to give yourself the feeling, however slight, of being in control. Even if that is merely making a choice on what you are going to have for dinner. Small steps are important, too.
What About LOVE If you're in a long-term romantic relationship, one or both parties may have gotten to the point where they feel as though they are trapped in the situation. If you're getting signals that this is the case, try to talk about it, if you want to save the relationship. This card also sometimes appears when there is really nothing to be done but to end an unhappy relationship. We always have choices. Take steps to keep the magic alive. If you're seeking love, this may be a signal that you're reaching the point of desperation, an attitude which definitely drives off would-be lovers. If that's the case, consider taking a short time out from relationship-seeking and get to know yourself better. Return to your search when it's feeling less urgent.

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Today's card, 4 of Earth, can be a card about holding on to things, people, money, or situations longer than is healthy or realistic. When this card appears in a reading, it's a sure sign that you must look carefully at what you are clinging to, and whether others are clinging to you in an unhealthy way. Relax. It can also point to anxiety/fear about money and/or a clinging to whatever it is that makes you feel secure. The key here is to try to realize that being anxious and grasping does NOT bring security. If any card in the Tarot relates to the old saying about "If you love something set it free…" this is the one.

LOVE? Today's card about fear, basically, when it comes to love. Either you are holding on far too tight to a situation or lover, or someone is attempting to do that to you. This clinging is not healthy. True love allows for space between the lovers, and no matter what, one can never really control another person. If you are single and think that you are ready for a relationship, realize that you will undoubtedly have to step outside your comfort zone to make it happen. True love will not just drop out of the sky.

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About three years ago, I had flat-out hit rock bottom—emotionally, financially, mentally, and spiritually. The crash was painful in every way, and I finally had no choice but to face myself brutally, painfully, and honestly.

Years later, I look back with immense gratitude for the incredible gifts that time bestowed upon me. It instilled in me a deep trust that the universe actually did have my back, contrary to external appearances and bank balances.

You might think I’m crazy for saying this, but I’d do it all again, in a heartbeat, for the incredible insights and growth I gained through what were most definitely my darkest hours.

But like any good adventure, it’s only worthwhile if you come back having learned some solid lessons and with wisdom to share from having survived the fall. And so, with twenty-twenty hindsight, here are my top reasons why everyone should aim to hit rock bottom at least once in their lifetime:

1. At the bottom, you realise just how far off course you were, and that your life choices were simply not sustainable. It’s in those dark moments of despair that your anger and frustration become so great and you declare once and for all to never again accept such mediocrity from yourself or from others.
2. At the bottom, all your dysfunctional behaviours are finally revealed. If you never hit your lowest point, the dysfunctions continue to go unnoticed and unchecked, playing out under the denial radar and inevitably creating bigger dysfunctions and a harder fall down the track. Until the bubble bursts, you cleverly delude yourself into thinking everything is juuuuust great—and your life ends up being built on a big, fat lie and a false foundation.
3. Hitting rock bottom is the beginning of questioning everything that you’ve ever thought to be true. You question your motives, other people’s motives, your beliefs, your fears, why you did things, why you didn’t do things, why you attracted certain people and circumstances, why you succeeded, why you failed. The very fabric of your life is turned upside down and examined in raw detail. It’s from this point that you build again, from the ground up, with a fresh perspective based on your renewed sense of clarity.
4. At the bottom, your disempowering patterns and behaviours become glaringly obvious, and the triggers that kept you repeating those behaviour patterns come into sharp focus. You realise that hitting rock bottom was not only inevitable, but necessary, because those behaviours were simply not conducive to your growth. On top of that, and perhaps most importantly, all the roles you’d been playing pop into your conscious awareness. It becomes clear that you’ve been a kind of puppet, playing the same role over and over, creating the same dynamics over and over, and keeping the drama going over and over, like a well-paid actor in a soap opera. It’s not until you break the mould and start the journey back to your true self that you stop playing those old, scratched records and begin to create new conscious outcomes.
5. You realise at the bottom that you were, in fact, not where you thought you were in life. You let your ego run the show with grandiose ideas about what you could do—not knowing you didn’t yet have the foundation to successfully accomplish those things. Ego’s death grip loosens when you come to this realisation; you start to trust life and choose to live in the moment more often. As you surrender to your higher self more and more, you align with your right purpose and right life path. And it feels good.
6. You gain humility. You see that life is not black and white and that you don’t know everything. In fact, you realise you know very little, and you decide to become a student of life rather than a juror.
7. You gain compassion. You understand what it’s like for people in the depths of despair, shame, guilt, and fear. You can’t help but come back from the bottom feeling immense empathy with the human condition.
8. You’re able to let go of everything because nothing is working anyway! Letting go of the old creates space for the new and soon new ideas, people, opportunities, talents and gifts start to flood into your experience. As you empty your cup, so to speak, you fill it back up with stuff that you actually want, instead of accepting what was unconsciously passed onto you. Life hands you a fresh cup of reality.
9. After you’ve hit the bricks, you—perhaps for the first time—begin to accept full responsibility for all the outcomes in your life. You see that blaming is futile, that complaining is dumb, and that making excuses is for the unenlightened. You realise it was you who created all the good and all the bad in your life. You dug the hole in which you’re trapped, and only you can dig yourself out of it in order to finally become whole.
10. The good news is, once you’ve hit rock bottom, you know you can’t possibly go any lower. You realise the bottom is actually a great springboard from which to push yourself up to the surface—away from the darkness and back into the light.
11. Hitting rock bottom wakes you up to how you were relying on externals to make you happy. Instead of needing outside validation, you begin to trust yourself and start the journey within to find your own sense of self, your own sense of purpose, and your own validation. This new inner sanctuary becomes the foundation for your happy and meaningful new life.
12. And finally, after hitting your lowest point, you become enormously grateful for all that you have from that time forward. You’re sure that your situation can only get better from here, and it does. Simple things—a smile from a stranger, fresh food in the fridge, warm clothes on your body, a comfy bed, your good health—become things to treasure. Your existence is a constant prayer of gratitude to the universe and to yourself for having the courage to move beyond hard times and choose life, when you could have chosen a number of other options just to make the pain go away.
The gems mined in your darkest moments are what give you depth, courage, wisdom, and richness that can’t be learned elsewhere. Your ability to fly is in direct proportion to your willingness and courage to face your version of rock bottom. If you’ve ever been there and bounced back to tell the story, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
If you’re currently sitting on rock bottom and still chafing your behind, you’re probably cursing this post. But as someone who’s been there, done that, and got the T-shirt, I can tell you that in years to come, you’ll appreciate the experience (and the chafing) as the best thing that ever happened to you.
Only once you are willing to explore your darkest depths can you truly be of service in the world. Only when the old foundations crumble can you begin to build again on new and solid ground.
This is the gift of rock bottom: aim for it.
Today we are reminded to GO TO WORK! The 8 of Pentacles (8 of Earth, The Mountain) can indicate a period of very hard work. This does not have to be a negative thing, but you must be prepared for it. Think about what it is that you are working for. This work can be personal or professional. Be prepared to ask for help if you need it. Today you may be thinking you have a lot on your plate, but with dedication to the tasks at hand, you can accomplish a lot. Remember to be clear on what you are trying to accomplish. Strive for balance, and prioritize.
As for love: If you are currently committed, your workload or that of your partner may be interfering with the relationship. Make a point to make time and space for the relationship regardless of your jobs, otherwise things will suffer. If you are looking for love, the appearance of this card often tells us that you are actually too focused on money and what you do for a living to really create space in your life for a new relationship. Consider your priorities and where your time and energy goes. If you want love, make sure you have room for it.

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The 2 of Cups often refers to romantic partnership.. Today is a good day to reflect on what is going right in your relationship. We tend to focus on what is wrong and what upsets us, but we have to remember to look at the positives as well. In general this is a card that says that things are likely to be going smoothly. You should be feeling more than usually loved, cared for, and content. Embrace this feeling. Remember it, when times are tough.
This card can represent true love, balanced partnership, commitment, and all of the things that most of us hope for in regard to love and relationship. However, this does not mean that you can just do or say "whatever" and that your love/relationship will last; it only means that the underpinnings, the real, solid, potential for true love and affection is there. If you are "looking for love," this is a signal that it is very likely to be headed your way very soon. Relax.
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December 3rd will mark the “Full Cold Moon” which also happens to be a supermoon. For those who do not know supermoons happen when a full moon coincides with the moon’s perigee.

The supermoon will appear to be at least 14 percent larger and up to 30 percent brighter than it normally is. This is because it the moon itself is much closer to the Earth than it normally would be. Supermoons do not happen every month because the moon’s orbit changes as the Earth travels around the sun.

It seems the best time to really take in a supermoon is after moonrise. This is when the Moon is just above the horizon. That being as long as the weather is clear. In this position, the moon will be seen best. The Full Cold Moon for those who were wondering according to the Old Farmer’s Almanac was the name given to the full moon in December because of as you most likely assumed the cold weather.

Get Ready For Some Tricky Gemini Energy
The Full Super Moon is in the house of Gemini. Which means it is two sided with a lighthearted and inspiring influence as well as the dark twin hiding in the background possibly creating a little mischief or temptation to misbehave. This can be an interesting boon for writers and artisans as the inspiration that rises up to the surface can be very deep and unique. Metaphysical people, Shamans, Wiccans, artists, writers, astrologists, musicians, healers, Reiki practitioners, and people who use holistic practices in their work, should do really well with the energy during this time.

Mercury will also be going onto retrograde at this time which is going to make things a bit more intense. That being said, there will be a strong sense of mental balance coming our way as well. If you have been struggling to bring to life your emotions that struggle will soon be over.

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Many of you don't know that on top of working for Keen, I am a Psychic Medium for a private Paranormal Team, yes, Ghost Hunting. I have worked along side some of the most world renowned parapsychologist and investigators in the field. I have conducted over 500 investigations, in private homes, historical societies, businesses & so on. I have been in this field for over 15 years.
After years of experience, I can honestly say that there is no question, that our loved ones are around us. They come in times of hardship and also in times of joy. They appear in many different ways, we just have to be open enough to receive them, hear them and listen.....
Losing someone very close to you is extremely difficult, whether they were taken away tragically or through a lengthy illness. Loss is hard no matter how you look at it. Hours, days, weeks, months and years after they pass, we still so desperately wish we could hold them one more time, see them, wrap our arms around them, whisper I Love You in their ear.

For many people, however, there are many serendipitous events that occur that give them signs of their deceased loved ones. You may have even experienced some of these events and didn’t know they were signs from your loved ones. Here are a few signs, though I’m sure there are quite literally dozens or maybe even hundreds more different signs.

1. Smelling their smell. Whether it be their cologne, perfume, after shave or hairspray. You know that smell very well and every now and then you get a whiff of it and it is pure heaven. Total bliss. It takes you back to them getting ready in the bathroom for work or before you two are heading out somewhere. The memories it brings with it are beautiful.
2. In your sleep. While you’re dreaming, quite often you will dream of them which is totally normal but every now and then you will have what they call a spirit dream which means you can really feel them and their presence and if you listen closely, there is a message for you. This dream won’t be like the other dreams you have of them, this one is very clear and powerful.
3. Watch for the signs. They can come in any shape or form, be it a stranger that touches you, or coming across a pen that dad used to use all the time. It could be as clear as a gemstone that your mother used to wear around her neck. Anything like that, that appears out of the clear blue sky, which holds great meaning to your loved ones, is a sign.
4. What was that? It could have been a strange noise, something moving in the other room, a song that comes on for no reason, an animal that keeps coming around the house or anything that is absolutely completely out of the norm, is definitely a clear sign of your loved one. They are there with you.
5. You heard their voice. Without a doubt, you know that was them. You heard it loud and clear. It was soft and loving but it had a message. Did you pay attention to the message? Did you hear it? Deceased loved ones coming through in spirit with voices heard is actually very common. And beautiful.
6. Something just touched you. You felt that brush on your shoulder. It totally freaked you out. You touched your shoulder to make sure it wasn’t a spider or any other critter. You realize there is nothing there. No critter. But you felt it. Or a gentle touch on your cheek. Almost like someone kissing you. That was them.
7. Recognizing something of theirs. t could be you are walking down the street and someone is wearing the coat they wore all the time or a dress that they used to wear on special occasions. Perhaps it is in the form of jewelry or shoes. If you happen to see this often, this is a clear sign from them.
8. Electricity malfunctions. Or just flickering and doing silly crazy things. For no reason. This has been reported by many who have lost loved ones as the number one way their loved ones has contacted them. Lights can go off and on even though the weather is fine outside. Radios will start playing, any kind of activity that would clearly need a human touch to activate. I have even seen cases where they will get a call from them, on a number that is no longer in service.
If you have been blessed to experience any of these things, you are being touched by your loved one. What are your experiences? Please share below..

Karma and the law of cause and effect, stating that all events, and all people, are connected. It's important to remember that not everything you are dealing with, however, is a direct result of your own actions or karma. Sometimes you will be called upon to deal with the results of the actions of someone you care about, and this can sometimes be as difficult and demanding as it is when you're up against something that is completely of your own making. Don't blame yourself unnecessarily.

This card evokes the need for fairness, balance, and harmony. Operate in as balanced and reasonable a fashion as you can. This includes in how you think about and treat yourself. If you are directly involved with a court case, it is likely to be resolved, at least in large degree, in your favor.
LOVE If you are questioning whether you and your long-term partner are likely to stay together, often when this card appears, the answer is that you are likely to choose to go your separate ways. On the other hand, if you are single, this is a time when commitment may be coming your way very shortly. Stay clear about what you most want from relationships, and you are likely to "find it" that much sooner.

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Your love was once strong. Now there are more bills to pay, crying children, opinionated in-laws, and sleepless nights. As time goes by, you feel that you aren’t important to each other. But that’s not true, it’s just that the stress of life has become your priority, not each other.

Well, I have good news. The connection is still there, but it’s buried under piles of dirty laundry in the corner of the bedroom, dishes in the kitchen sink, and bickering over what the other person just said. Once you clear the clutter from your relationship, you’ll get back to looking at each other with loving eyes again.

If you knew how to be romantic when you were dating, you could do it again. You just have to put in a little extra effort now to fit love into your busy schedules. If you are willing to fight for the love you once had, treat each other like you did when you were dating. This is how to rekindle those amazing moments you used to share.

1. Schedule a date night! You don’t have to go to a five-star restaurant or a movie to have a date night. Date nights can be just as romantic in the comfort of your own bedroom. Turn off the television and shut the devices. Be cute and playful. Text each other during the day, “date night 2nite".
2. Talk to each other!! Gentlemen, there is nothing a woman loves more than a heart to heart conversation. Just talk to her. Ask about her day, her job, and her friends. Be present. Show her that you care. Look at her. Listen to what she says. Believe it or not, a face-to-face conversation can be extremely intimate. Ladies, let him talk too. Let him tell you how terrible his favorite sports team played or how annoying the guy who sits next to him at work was.
3.Shut out the rest of the world!! Focus on each other. If you find your mind wandering to the stack of papers on your desk at work, bring your thoughts back to each other. Keep your attention on the person in front of you.
4.Attention girls!! Dress up a little. Get out of your sweatpants. Take your hair out of that ponytail. Put on a little blush and lipstick, just like you did when you were dating.
5.Say only positive comments!! It’s easy to get on each other’s nerves but if you want to fall in love again, forget your list of negative complaints. Dump the negativity in the trash. It’s a toxic algae that grows in your mind. Starting from the tiniest thought, it grows until it’s so big it’s the only thing you see when you look at the other person. Remember the person you adored? The person you couldn’t live without for even five minutes? The positive traits are still there. You just have to look a little harder now to see them. Give each other compliments.
6.Give and expect nothing in return!! Purses, jewelry, and flowers are nice, but those can feel insincere sometimes. If you really want to show her you care, give her something that will make her life easier. Do something that will please your partner. Give of yourself.
7. Dance Together!! Dancing is romantic. Slow dance in your bedroom or even in the kitchen. Dancing is two people moving in sync. Feel the rhythm you share.
Once you schedule the time and put in a little extra effort, you will be able to live, love, and laugh together happily ever after again.

Todays Tarot Card is The Lovers.... It's possible when this card appears that you are feeling ambivalent about a relationship or situation in your life. It could be that your heart is telling you one thing, and your head, another. In general, the thing to do is to follow your heart. When this card appears, it usually means this time is likely to bring LOVE in capital letters to the center stage of your life. This is either a new relationship, or a powerful re-bonding of an old one. Either way you will be quite happy about how romance is going and others will likely remark that you are "glowing." This is serious stuff. It could mean, even in a new relationship, where you are meeting each other's families and talking about "forever." Again, share your joy with those around you who need it. Life will feel blissful to you now, which is wonderful.

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If you're waiting for news from someone or something, you are likely to like what you hear. Sister Wind can point to lots of activity, travel, being out and about, getting things accomplished. You are unlikely to feel like waiting for anything to come to you; that's a good thing… go after your heart's desire.
Love: You may literally be about to be swept off your feet, whether you are male or female. If you are currently in a committed relationship, It may be about to brighten up quite a bit and become a whole lot deeper and more satisfying. If you're looking for love, it may come along when you least expect it but you have to be having some sort of contact with other people for the door to be open to this. Get dressed up and go out on the town. You'll have a blast.

The Red String of Fate, also referred to as the Red String of Marriage, and other variants, is an East Asian belief originating from Chinese legend. According to this myth, the gods tie an invisible red cord around the ankles of those that are destined to meet one another in a certain situation or help each other in a certain way. Often, in Japanese culture, it is thought to be tied around the little finger. According to Chinese legend, the deity in charge of "the red thread" is believed to be Yuè Lǎo (月老), the old lunar matchmaker god, who is in charge of marriages.

The two people connected by the red thread are destined lovers, regardless of place, time, or circumstances. This magical cord may stretch or tangle, but never break. This myth is similar to the Western concept of soulmate or a destined flame.
The folklore story below, demonstrates this beautifully!
One story featuring the red string of fate involves a young boy. Walking home one night, a young boy sees an old man (Yue Xia Lao) standing beneath the moonlight. The man explains to the boy that he is attached to his destined wife by a red thread. Yue Xia Lao shows the boy the young girl who is destined to be his wife. Being young and having no interest in having a wife, the young boy picks up a rock and throws it at the girl, running away. Many years later, when the boy has grown into a young man, his parents arrange a wedding for him. On the night of his wedding, his wife waits for him in their bedroom, with the traditional veil covering her face. Raising it, the man is delighted to find that his wife is one of the great beauties of his village. However, she wears an adornment on her eyebrow. He asks her why she wears it and she responds that when she was a young girl, a boy threw a rock at her that struck her, leaving a scar on her eyebrow. She self-consciously wears the adornment to cover it up. The woman is, in fact, the same young girl connected to the man by the red thread shown to him by Yue Xia Lao back in his childhood, showing that they were connected by the red string of fate.

It’s fascinating to imagine the billions of people standing on the world with tiny little threads spinning out from their souls and tying them to each other, millions of tangling red webs crossing over and under and winding around each other. But deep down, we all know this is true!
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