The 4 of Pentacles reversed often implies that you are holding on to things, people, money, or situations far more than you should for your own well-being and piece of mind. It's time to relax and to remember that you cannot control what others choose to do. We all have free will. Focus on your own choices. When the 4 of Pentacles is reversed, it can mean that you will move quickly through the fear-based clinging you may have been exhibiting and suddenly learn to be more open, more generous, and more aware that fear solves nothing. Making a point to think positively will help.

What about Love: The 4 of Pentacles reversed is a card about fear, when it comes to love. However, the reversal can mean that you are about to let go of the fear, and finally open yourself up in a way that is real, and which will give your relationship a fighting chance. If you are looking for love and get the reversed 4 of Pentacles, it is telling you to not let fear of rejection hold you back. Reach out, mingle, get to know people. You have to be open for love to come to you, and being full of fear is not helpful.



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Many of you don't know that on top of working for Keen, I am a Psychic Medium for a private Paranormal Team, yes, Ghost Hunting. I have worked along side some of the most world renowned parapsychologist and investigators in the field. I have conducted over 500 investigations, in private homes, historical societies, businesses & so on. I have been in this field for over 15 years.
After years of experience, I can honestly say that there is no question, that our loved ones are around us. They come in times of hardship and also in times of joy. They appear in many different ways, we just have to be open enough to receive them, hear them and listen.....
Losing someone very close to you is extremely difficult, whether they were taken away tragically or through a lengthy illness. Loss is hard no matter how you look at it. Hours, days, weeks, months and years after they pass, we still so desperately wish we could hold them one more time, see them, wrap our arms around them, whisper I Love You in their ear.

For many people, however, there are many serendipitous events that occur that give them signs of their deceased loved ones. You may have even experienced some of these events and didn’t know they were signs from your loved ones. Here are a few signs, though I’m sure there are quite literally dozens or maybe even hundreds more different signs.



1. Smelling their smell. Whether it be their cologne, perfume, after shave or hairspray. You know that smell very well and every now and then you get a whiff of it and it is pure heaven. Total bliss. It takes you back to them getting ready in the bathroom for work or before you two are heading out somewhere. The memories it brings with it are beautiful.
2. In your sleep. While you’re dreaming, quite often you will dream of them which is totally normal but every now and then you will have what they call a spirit dream which means you can really feel them and their presence and if you listen closely, there is a message for you. This dream won’t be like the other dreams you have of them, this one is very clear and powerful.
3. Watch for the signs. They can come in any shape or form, be it a stranger that touches you, or coming across a pen that dad used to use all the time. It could be as clear as a gemstone that your mother used to wear around her neck. Anything like that, that appears out of the clear blue sky, which holds great meaning to your loved ones, is a sign.
4. What was that? It could have been a strange noise, something moving in the other room, a song that comes on for no reason, an animal that keeps coming around the house or anything that is absolutely completely out of the norm, is definitely a clear sign of your loved one. They are there with you.
5. You heard their voice. Without a doubt, you know that was them. You heard it loud and clear. It was soft and loving but it had a message. Did you pay attention to the message? Did you hear it? Deceased loved ones coming through in spirit with voices heard is actually very common. And beautiful.
6. Something just touched you. You felt that brush on your shoulder. It totally freaked you out. You touched your shoulder to make sure it wasn’t a spider or any other critter. You realize there is nothing there. No critter. But you felt it. Or a gentle touch on your cheek. Almost like someone kissing you. That was them.
7. Recognizing something of theirs. t could be you are walking down the street and someone is wearing the coat they wore all the time or a dress that they used to wear on special occasions. Perhaps it is in the form of jewelry or shoes. If you happen to see this often, this is a clear sign from them.
8. Electricity malfunctions. Or just flickering and doing silly crazy things. For no reason. This has been reported by many who have lost loved ones as the number one way their loved ones has contacted them. Lights can go off and on even though the weather is fine outside. Radios will start playing, any kind of activity that would clearly need a human touch to activate. I have even seen cases where they will get a call from them, on a number that is no longer in service.
If you have been blessed to experience any of these things, you are being touched by your loved one. What are your experiences? Please share below..

Today's card, 4 of Earth, can be a card about holding on to things, people, money, or situations longer than is healthy or realistic. When this card appears in a reading, it's a sure sign that you must look carefully at what you are clinging to, and whether others are clinging to you in an unhealthy way. Relax. It can also point to anxiety/fear about money and/or a clinging to whatever it is that makes you feel secure. The key here is to try to realize that being anxious and grasping does NOT bring security. If any card in the Tarot relates to the old saying about "If you love something set it free…" this is the one.

LOVE? Today's card about fear, basically, when it comes to love. Either you are holding on far too tight to a situation or lover, or someone is attempting to do that to you. This clinging is not healthy. True love allows for space between the lovers, and no matter what, one can never really control another person. If you are single and think that you are ready for a relationship, realize that you will undoubtedly have to step outside your comfort zone to make it happen. True love will not just drop out of the sky.

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Tragedies around the world strike fear into the hearts of millions. Most recently, fear was struck into the hearts of people in Florida, after the mass shooting in a school, this past week. These tragic events have been devastating to watch unfold. They have had a tremendous impact on the hearts and minds of the victims and their loved ones who have experienced these tragedies firsthand, and they have also had a profound affect on us all.
Dealing with tragedy is difficult, and although this isn't often discussed, moments like these can both heighten and trigger symptoms of anxiety, panic disorder and PTSD.

During these past few days, I found myself having a difficult time taking everything in. Having trouble sleeping, focusing or even going to the mail box. My eyes were instead glued to my computer screen and phone just waiting for the tragic updates to end, waiting for a resolution and progress. Instead, I was greeted with more images and tweets of tragedy, resulting in severe anxiety because I am, unfortunately, one of the 40 million Americans who suffer from anxiety. I have a few calming methods that have worked for me over the past few years and this past weekend.



Here are my tips on how to cope with world tragedy and the anxiety that may come as a result:
Communicate
The best thing to do during times like this is to confide in someone close to you. Talk to a relative or dear friend about your inner thoughts and feelings, no matter how dark or embarrassing they seem to be. There may be a chance that they share similar perspectives and emotions regarding the matter. And even if they don't, they'll be able to nurture you with sound advice.
Pray
As cliché as this always sounds, just as there is power in numbers, there is power in prayer. Take time during your day to have a moment with the higher power you believe in. You can do this both in private or in public, inviting your friends, family and neighbors to share this special moment with you. This moment will allow you, your loved ones and your community to find healing, strength, forgiveness and most importantly, spiritual peace.
Break Away From Social Media
As tempting as it is, social media is one of the main places you may need to take a break from during the aftermath of world tragedy. It is definitely OK to utilize social media to receive updates on the current tragedy taking place and to send your support (especially if you may need to contact your loved ones), but keep in mind that refreshing your timeline every five minutes to be repeatedly exposed to such horrors can be emotionally draining. So, make sure to take some time away from the computer and away from your phone, even if it's a mere five minutes, to reflect and most importantly, to recharge.
Overcome Your Anxiety
If you suffer from panic attacks (just as I do), severe anxiety or PTSD, seek proper care from your primary physician. They will refer you to a therapist and psychiatrist who will be able to prescribe medication for immediate relief. And if medication isn't an option you want to pursue, they will teach you special techniques to control your symptoms. One of the most popular techniques for panic attacks, in particular, is using a paper bag to control hyperventilation. It has helped me tremendously over the years.
Avoid Tuning Out
During times of tragedy, it can be so easy to succumb to feelings of numbness as a result fear and hopelessness, but I encourage you to not allow yourself to fall into that trap of despair. It's important to allow yourself to feel the emotions running through you, even if you do not fully understand them. It's also important to remain as active as possible. Indulge in activities outside of your home with your family and friends, even if it's as simple as spending a day at the gym.

The 4 of Swords (wind) is a card that signifies a break ,or need for a break from normal life. This can also mean that you or someone in your life may withdraw for a time. This withdrawal is not likely to be permanent. It also occasionally means illness or time in the hospital or (even more rarely) in jail. It's a clear signifier to give people their space. In general this card usually means that you are needing some time and space to yourself. Others may be pushing too hard for bits of your time and attention. Don't hesitate to draw boundaries for yourself or to say no. Conversely, when others say no to you, take them at their word. Pushing in this circumstance is asking for trouble.

LOVE If you are currently in a romantic relationship, you may be feeling a bit disconnected. It is important to let your partner know what is going on inside, but remember that your feelings are your own, it is not necessarily their job to try to make you feel fabulous all the time. It may be that you simply need some time apart. Don't hesitate to take it. If you're looking for love, now is not the time to push. You'd be better off getting very, very specific about exactly what you are looking for in a relationship. The time will come when you will meet someone. That time is probably not in the immediate.

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The reversed Ace of Swords,(one of wind, in my deck) though generally a positive card, warns that you must be very careful with your thinking. When it appears, it is easy to feel that something is positive when in fact it is not. Seek outside input.

Today the reversed Ace of Swords indicates that you need to be careful about illusions. It is very easy to trust people who are untrustworthy, it is very easy to think that "just this once" a get rich quick scheme may actually work. Be thoughtful and circumspect.

What about Love today In terms of love, the reversed Ace can mean that you may fall hard for someone who might be wildly inappropriate for you. There's nothing wrong with "taking a walk on the wild side," and there is truth that opposites attract. However, if someone tells you that they are "not looking for a commitment," or that "they are not good at relationships," your rational response is to believe them. Again, be cautious.



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Be serene in knowing you are succeeding in your goal. Today's card suggests a course of action which will harmonize what you want with what is currently possible. All things are possible today... The World card (the universe) may be giving you permission to do whatever you want. Presently, your motivation is close to the will of the divine. Even if you commit an error, it will be turned to the greater good. Stay active and just keep moving forward. It is unnecessary to keep checking or interrupting your spontaneity with calculation. Rather than look for consensus or affirmation from others, simply dance the dance. In other words, express yourself, react naturally, and let the chips fall where they may.
All things are possible if we have a plan and put our minds to it. Stick with and just go with the flow today. Let me get you answers to help you along this path! Give me a call!

We know that Feb 14th is a day of love, that we are to shower our loved ones in displays of affections, and we are to eat an unhealthy amount of chocolate. (I do for sure) Some revel in the glory of love while others curse the holiday to the depths of its existence, devaluing as a “Hallmark Holiday” constructed to simple push the sales of candy and cards. No matter how you feel about this holiday and it’s implications, the truth is that there is a ton of lore and history behind it. Here are few facts and folklore that might surprise you!
1: Though it is often claimed to be a holiday made up by the popular greeting card company, Hallmark didn’t produce its first Valentine’s Day card until 1913. This is literally centuries after the first declaration of the official holiday in 1537. The Catholic church recognizes that there were three saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.
2: In your dreams,? Ladies in medieval times who were looking for a suitor come Valentine’s Day had an interesting tradition. So they could dream of their future spouses, women would spend the evening eating bizarre foods in hopes of seeing the one they were meant for in their dreams.
3:Where did the traditional Heart Shape Box come from? John Cadbury, a coffee and tea shop owner in Birmingham England discovered the profitability behind chocolate manufacturing in 1822. In 1822 his son Richard packaged Cadbury chocolates, known really for their Easter cream eggs, in the world’s first heart-shaped box.
4: Chocolate used to cure a broken heart? We knew that chocolate was pretty powerful but we had no idea how much doctors believed in it. Doctors in the 1800s used to prescribe patients a dose of chocolate to cure the pangs of lost love. (I imagine this still works today, we just ice cream lol)
5: WOW! Approximately one billion Valentine cards are sent each year around the world.
6: The symbol of the ribbon, which often adorns modern-day Valentines, is rooted in the Middle Ages. When knights competed in tournaments, their sweethearts often gave them ribbons for good luck.
7: On Valentine’s Day 2000, the producer of (unnamed impotence drug), funded an impotence awareness day in Britain! (lol)
8: In medieval times it was believed that birds choose their mates on February 14, this made doves a favorite symbol for Valentine cards. The dove was sacred to Venus and other love deities and was known for choosing a lifelong mate.

9: The colors of Valentine's Day are Pink, Red and White for most cards and decorations, but is also on other Valentine commercial items like clothing, stuffed animals, candles, etc. Red symbolizes warmth and feeling. It is associated with the color of the human heart. White is a symbol of purity. (In some cases also of Faith and so it means the faith of the love two people have for each other.) And so Pink (combination of Red + White) is then a symbol as I understand if of innocents or virginity in some cases.
10: Remember to Love Yourself Too! One at a time, visualize yourself hugging the people that you love, friends, kids, husbands/wives, ect. Let the infinite tenderness of your love for them wash over you. Ask for help to let go of anything that gets in the way of being close to this person, who is so precious to you. (Does the idea of asking for help bother you? It doesn’t have to be God, or even the healing spirit of the universe, that you’re talking to. It could simply be your own deepest wisdom, which is also the heart of love. The interesting thing about asking for help in this way is that, at least in my experience, it always works...although not necessarily as we would have expected.)
The 2 of Cups (water) often refers to romantic partnership even when reversed, but that is not its only connotation. It can speak of balance, friendship, joy, and sharing.

Today the reversed 2 is a card that says that things are likely to be going well. However be careful that you are not causing problems in your platonic friendships by over attention to your love life.

What about love:Today you will need to make sure you aren't paying too much attention to love to the exclusion of all else when you receive the reversed 2 of Cups. If you get this card when there are problems in a relationship, it may be time to forgive and forget over past problems. Start fresh.


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At one time or another, it happens to everyone: You set an item down somewhere, or it falls out of your purse or pocket, and despite all of your best efforts to locate the object it cannot be found. This can be a frustrating, even haunting experience. You cannot have peace of mind knowing that something important to you is still out there, waiting to be found, yet always tantalizingly out of reach. A lost object reading can help you clear your own mind while leading you on the path to rediscovering your missing item.

WHAT IS A LOST OBJECT READING??

In a lost object reading, I will use my various gifts to help you attempt to find your lost object. After you have described the item to me, I will then use my psychic abilities in many number of ways: I will try to "see" the item, I will try to pick up on the energy of the lost object and using that energy, I will try to describe steps that you can take to track down the item.

I will help you clear your own mind. When we lose something important to us, we are often consumed with the need to find it. This puts unnecessary stress and anxiety into our minds, which can often block our own ability to find the missing object. I can help calm you and open your mind again, past the strain of the search, so that you can more easily remember where the object might be.


How Can a Lost Object Reading Help You?

There are, however, abilities that I can use that will help point you in the right direction. One part of the lost object reading will be helping you identify the object that you have lost. You should focus on the exact color, the texture, and the weight of the object. How does it feel when you hold it in your hand? Is it made from metal? From cloth? Beyond this, however, is the emotional memory: How does this object make you feel? What does it mean to you? Does it represent something else in your life, something that gives the object more significance? By the end of your lost object reading, you should have a clear indication of what to do next. And while a lost object reading cannot guarantee that you will find your missing item, there is a good possibility that by the end of the reading your mind will be clear, you will be focused on the object and not your feelings of anxiety and stress, and that you will be able to more calmly seek (and find) your missing item...


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The 2 of Swords reversed is a card about partnership and balance. It may be that the time has finally come where you are truly ready to open yourself up to a deep, meaningful partnership - and this can be on a personal or professional level. However, you will need to keep an eye on the other aspects of your life, all business, all love, etc., makes for an imbalanced and thus eventually problematic life.

Today the reversed 2 of Swords tells us that your partnerships are likely to deepen and become more important in your life, and this refers to partnerships of all kinds. However, beware putting too much emphasis on any one partnership. You have several that need to be priorities in your life.


What about love: The reversed 2 of Swords says that this is a time to be cautious and deliberate when it comes to love relationships. You may be tempted to push to "move things forward," but this is not the time. If you are looking for love, by all means get out and mingle, and you may well meet a likely contender, but it will be some time before a love relationship with them develops. Be patient. And then be more patient.

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With Valentine's Day right around the corner, I hope this gives you some great ideas on rekindling romance and bring love back into your life!
Your love was once strong. Now there are more bills to pay, crying children, opinionated in-laws, and sleepless nights. As time goes by, you feel that you aren’t important to each other. But that’s not true, it’s just that the stress of life has become your priority, not each other.

Well, I have good news. The connection is still there, but it’s buried under piles of dirty laundry in the corner of the bedroom, dishes in the kitchen sink, and bickering over what the other person just said. Once you clear the clutter from your relationship, you’ll get back to looking at each other with loving eyes again.

If you knew how to be romantic when you were dating, you could do it again. You just have to put in a little extra effort now to fit love into your busy schedules. If you are willing to fight for the love you once had, treat each other like you did when you were dating. This is how to rekindle those amazing moments you used to share.


1. Schedule a date night! You don’t have to go to a five-star restaurant or a movie to have a date night. Date nights can be just as romantic in the comfort of your own bedroom. Turn off the television and shut the devices. Be cute and playful. Text each other during the day, “date night 2nite".
2. Talk to each other!! Gentlemen, there is nothing a woman loves more than a heart to heart conversation. Just talk to her. Ask about her day, her job, and her friends. Be present. Show her that you care. Look at her. Listen to what she says. Believe it or not, a face-to-face conversation can be extremely intimate. Ladies, let him talk too. Let him tell you how terrible his favorite sports team played or how annoying the guy who sits next to him at work was.
3.Shut out the rest of the world! Focus on each other. If you find your mind wandering to the stack of papers on your desk at work, bring your thoughts back to each other. Keep your attention on the person in front of you.
4.Attention girls!! Dress up a little. Get out of your sweatpants. Take your hair out of that ponytail. Put on a little blush and lipstick, just like you did when you were dating.
5.Say only positive comments!! It’s easy to get on each other’s nerves but if you want to fall in love again, forget your list of negative complaints. Dump the negativity in the trash. It’s a toxic algae that grows in your mind. Starting from the tiniest thought, it grows until it’s so big it’s the only thing you see when you look at the other person. Remember the person you adored? The person you couldn’t live without for even five minutes? The positive traits are still there. You just have to look a little harder now to see them. Give each other compliments.
6.Give and expect nothing in return!! Purses, jewelry, and flowers are nice, but those can feel insincere sometimes. If you really want to show her you care, give her something that will make her life easier. Do something that will please your partner. Give of yourself.
7. Dance Together!! Dancing is romantic. Slow dance in your bedroom or even in the kitchen. Dancing is two people moving in sync. Feel the rhythm you share.
Once you schedule the time and put in a little extra effort, you will be able to live, love, and laugh together happily ever after again.
If you're waiting for news from someone or something, you are likely to like what you hear. The Knight of Swords can point to lots of activity, travel, being out and about, getting things accomplished. You are unlikely to feel like waiting for anything to come to you; that's a good thing… go after your heart's desire.

What About Love? You may literally be about to be swept off your feet, whether you are male or female. If you are currently in a committed relationship, It may be about to brighten up quite a bit and become a whole lot deeper and more satisfying. If you're looking for love, it may come along when you least expect it but you have to be having some sort of contact with other people for the door to be open to this. Get dressed up and go out on the town. You'll have a blast.


When the 10 appears, it is a clear signal to be careful about where you put your trust. When we see the 10 of swords come up, it is a good idea to ask yourself the question, as to whether you can believe what a person is telling you, or trust that a situation is stable, this is a pretty clear answer of "no." However, try to bear in mind that whenever a door closes, another door opens. You are being guided to a situation that is better for you. Trust yourself and trust in the universe.

Love: In relation to love questions, this is sadly not a good omen. Something about the love situation you are in is not quite right. Ask yourself a lot of questions, accept reality, don't close your eyes to the truth. You cannot force someone to love you or to behave respectfully. If you have recently met someone new (and are looking for love,) keep looking. The contenders you've met so far are not who they seem to be.

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