Silver Faery Hawk

Daughter of Evalach And Half Fairy or Faery

GIVING WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS!

 

Faery Blessings:

I'm a giver by nature.....I had to learn how to say no to certain people because instead of helping them I was enabling them instead...I also would give someone something and get my feelings hurt if they never reciprocated or gave me anything else back down the road....I grew resentful of giving because it appeared that those to whom I gave never truly appreciated what I gave, or gave up for them....but then I was reading the story of Jesus dying on the cross....He gave up his life for us and yet many of us never reciprocate or give him back anything in return...no he did not do it to get anything back, but to free us all so that we could live fully and joyfully and yet we sometimes don't even do that....so today I wanted to share this article by Madisyn Taylor from DailyOM with you as it reminded me instead of holding back from giving, to give fully as if I am giving it to God, because in a way I am...we are all part of His body, mind, soul and spirit....Enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!

 

"It is in the act of giving that we find joy, without the expectation of anything in return.

 

Since giving and receiving are so intimately intertwined in our lives, we often expect that we can attract abundance by simply conducting ourselves in an openhanded fashion. Yet we find ourselves wallowing in disappointment when our ample generosity is not met with the expected results. The answer to this quandary lies in the expectations that, in part, initially prompted us to give. Though our intention is likely pure, we can unintentionally mar the beautiful experience of giving by focusing on what we will eventually receive in return. When we let go of the notion that we deserve to receive gifts based on giving gifts, bounty can once again flow freely in and out of our lives.

 

When the gifts you give are laden down with expectations, they cease to be gifts and become units of exchange that you are, in effect, trading for some reward. Thus, the reciprocal laws of the universe err on the side of the giver who shares for the sake of sharing. You may have seen this simple truth at work in your own experience, perhaps when life's busyness prevented you from spending too much time contemplating the results your charitable actions would ultimately have on the lives of others. It was likely then that you received the greatest gifts in return for your kindness. If you have trouble divesting yourself of your expectations, you may need to reflect upon the root of your inability to act in the true spirit of giving. Each time you make a gift, whether spiritual or tangible, ask yourself if there is something you hope to receive in return. You may be surprised to discover that you expect to be repaid with an easy life, financial windfalls, or opportunities.

 

To integrate this most selfless form of generosity into your life, you will have to let go of your need to be in control. Accepting that while like inevitably attracts like, it typically does so on an unobservable timetable. This can help you stop weighing the gifts you give against those you have received. Giving eventually becomes a profound joy that stands alone, separate from any and all conditions, and you will learn to appreciate the flow of reciprocal abundance as a gift in and of itself."

 


 

God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Days
Lavonda`

Faery Blessings:

Did you know that there are people who find 100 things a day to be thankful for throughout the day…When I read this, my first thought was “how can anyone find 100 things in a day to be thankful for?”….it seemed like a long, drawn out and boring thing to do during the day, but then I had this thought about how happy that must make God to find that many things to show their appreciation of all the things he has given us to be thankful for…

 

So today I am going to start to try to find 100 things to be thankful for and let Him know just how grateful I am for every little thing He has given me and will continue giving daily if we continue to be grateful for what we have..I am currently at 10 things lol….this is harder than I thought, but boy does it make you focus and think about the little things when you start looking for those  100 things to be grateful for…

 

There is an old saying that actually is true….”Be grateful for your blessings, lest they flee from thee”…I choose to start today being grateful for everything around me and everything He has created for me to enjoy that is free, that I take for granted….I am going to stop and “smell the roses”(when I see them)…today I put rose oil in my mist lamp so I could remind myself to “stop and smell the roses”…I know it is a silly thing to do, but honestly it brightened my day to be more grateful and it takes such a small amount of time.

 

God gently reminded me when I started counting my blessings today that I spend so much time on the computer, watching TV, playing on my phone, that I could just do those things a little less and open up my mouth a bit more to thank Him for all the little things….I hope this helps someone today….enjoy todays message and Be Blessed!

 


 

God’s Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Days

Lavonda`

Faery Blessings:

Well I recently started a class on “Soul Care”….it is truly amazing just how little I knew about how to care for someone’s soul….I deal daily with heart, mind and emotions, but soul care was knew to me….I found out just how inadequate I am in helping others take care of their souls.

 

You see, we as humans want to have our physical lives(that we can see) in tact and peaceful and calm(which doesn’t always happen as planned), our emotional lives(our family, spouses and mates) and I can counsel along those lines with ease because I have personally experienced the emotions of others I deal with every day…..I had my insecurities, my jealousy, my neediness and other negative emotions in my youth and well into my 30’s……it took me a while to realize that at the core of my being, that I could change the way I feel about certain things in my life.

 

And my thinking, well that took me until I was in my 40’s to realize that I could change the way I think and thus change the way I feel….it has been a long and hard struggle to get there, but I made it and so can you.

 

But with “Soul Care”, you learn that no matter how well you have it together on the outside in your physical world, and even if you have your thinking in tact and healthy, and even if you can keep your emotions balanced and at peace, but there is the soul that cries out that I had no idea that we don’t listen to…

 

Soul Care is about all of the above things, Yes, but it is also about guiding and counseling others to find a love for their Higher Power or God(or whomever you see them to be) that is greater than the love we have in the need of things, people, negative thinking, etc……It’s a love that goes deep, and in that deepness you find there is still pain, but there is also God who is always right there with you and in that realization within your soul you find that no matter what life throws at you, you will always put your Higher Power or God first and He will take care of the things above…

 

A short story for you:

A man came to his counselor and said “My wife left me and the children and said she needed to get away and just left and I feel lost, overburdened, sad, lonely and unsure of where to go from here”….initially this counselor wanted to say “I will go find her and talk to her”(but that’s not the answer), the other part of him he said wanted to quote “bible verses” to him to comfort him(but that is not the answer)…..instead the counselor said “Did you know that you were not put on this earth to be married to that woman, but you were put on this earth to love that woman as long as she was your wife, and now all the love you had for her you can put into your children and into God”….He told this man, “find a place in your life where your love for God is greater than your love for others(including his wife) and God will take care of the rest” and that is Soul Care…..igniting a spark of love in others that goes beyond their situation…

 

I will continue to share with you as I go through Soul Care, because I will be counseling myself during it as well…Enjoy today’s message and Be Blessed!

 


 

God’s Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Upon Your Days

Lavonda`

Faery Blessings:

Today is short and sweet!  I woke up this morning to the Abide 3 minute meditation and I heard my wee ones and God and angels say, just share this!  Just Click it and Be Blessed!


A Simple And Small Meditation Link For You: Just Click It!



God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Days

Lavonda`

Faery Blessings:

Well it’s almost Fall…one more week…I don’t know about you but I am excited about this new and lighter energy coming through.  May through August was a difficult maneuver for all of but thank God we are almost there…

 

It’s kind of like when you have one of those stressful weeks at work and when the weekend comes we breathe a sigh of relief, except I love my work so much I even work on weekends…lol..

 

My grandchildren taught me so much during the summer months….even though the energy was stressful, I would watch them go outside and play their little hearts out…..you see I have two hammocks, one for me and one for my husband and we have a tree swing and it was always occupied by one of our grandchildren…they would swing on the tree swing, a couple of them swinging on the hammock, and one of them would be laying on the other hammock just looking up at the clouds….and they were so happy and didn’t even know there was a heavy energy around them….they just knew they were having fun and playing….we should play too and not forget what letting go and having fun feels like…

 

So I decided one day during one of those harsh energy days to by like one of my grandchildren….I went outside and laid on the hammock and just watched the clouds go by and to be honest it was hard for me to relax but once I surrendered up to the peace I felt just laying there, I realized that it was so simple to let go of the energy we were in instead of fighting the energy and becoming frustrated and all it took was 10 minutes on that hammock, with no technology, no distractions, just me and the hammock and God, and the sky…..I found myself refreshed…

 

In those 10 minutes of no interruptions I heard a tiny whisper that said….”I just need you to give Me at least 10 minutes a day”….and “in that 10 minutes with Me and you in that silence, I can heal you and refresh you”…..so every day now I take that 10 minutes just to be with God and myself…I suggest today that you try this as it really does work….remember, no phones, no people, no tv, no distraction and just be in God’s presence and let him soothe your soul…..Enjoy today’s message and Be Blessed!

 

 


 

Gods Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Upon Your Days

Lavonda`

Faery Blessings:

I used to tell my grandmother when I was waiting on something in my life that “I can’t wait”, and she would say “but you will”…

 

Patience is a virtue, and virtue is a positive thing to possess is another thing a friend used to tell her son a long time ago…with my grandchildren when it is close to school time, we go shopping to buy school clothes….about 2 weeks before it is time, the anxiousness sets in with them…they get on their phones and start saying “Nanny, this is what I want when you get ready to school shop”….and it is like a constant thing in my face with their phones….so this year God dropped a hint in my ear that said, “tell them the next time they show you on their phones what they want, to tell them they just added another day pushed out to when you go get clothes”…..I did and they didn’t believe me and kept with the phones in my face showing me pictures….they ended up pushing their shopping for clothes by almost a week which took them within a week of school starting….I stood my ground and they were not happy, but God whispered “we are teaching them patience”…..

 

I suggested that the pictures they find of what they want that they screenshot them and save them to their phones so that when the time comes we can order it….guess what? It worked and then I had no more phones in my face because they did not want to push it back any further….

 

God does the same thing with us teaching us patience…..we ask for something and instead of remaining patient we go to him, bugging him about “when Lord when” and sometimes when we continually keep asking “when”, he keeps pushing the time back to teach us that it will be on his time, not our time…an old saying which is true is “God is not always on our time, but he is always on time and never late”….so I used the story of my grandsons and their impatience to get a point across to you how God feels when we don’t trust that he is going to do what he says He will and it’s not God sometimes that causes the delay but our impatience instead of our trust and faith in Him to get it done on the time He says….so today ask God and your angels for “hope and peace” in the wait and the focus on other things while he works on what you ask for….enjoy today’s message and Be Blessed!

 


 

God’s Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Upon Your Days

Lavonda`

Faery Blessings:

I didn’t send out a message yesterday because we were in court yesterday in an order of protection hearing for 3 of my grandchildren….their dad had been abusing them physically, emotionally and mentally…..the only proof we had(because he did not leave marks that you could see) was my 14 year old grandson and his 9 year old sister….when we arrived at court the dad showed up and while waiting to be called into court the dad was verbally slandering and talking about us so we could hear….but in all of it I trusted God and Jesus to see us through….little did we know that the judge had cameras and speakers so he could also hear what was going on in the hall…he heard it all….then when my grandson went in to testify, he was so brave to tell all that had been done to him…the judge said I don’t need to hear the little one(9 year old) and sent them into another room so they did not have to see their dad…..we won and got the protection order and now their dad cannot contact or hurt them anymore…..so we were all celebrating yesterday instead of sending out a message….and we all felt like we have been put in a fire but kept trusting God…..so today I wanted to share with all the power of God because He showed out in court and for the first time He put their dad in his place and did not believe a word he said…so thank you all for your prayers through this….just like Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego came out of the fiery furnace, so did we and my grandkids untouched…..to God be the glory….enjoy today’s personal message we share with you and Be Blessed!

 

"Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego refused to worship the golden idol that King Nebuchadnezzar constructed, and as a result were thrown into the fiery furnace (see Dan. 3). These three young men had no idea what would happen to them, but they were willing to put their lives on the line instead of disobeying God. We need people today who will take a stand for righteousness, for what is right according to God’s Word. If this does not happen, our world will be in serious trouble. 

 

Many times, people fail to stand up for righteousness because they are afraid of what will happen when they do. Will they lose their jobs? Will they lose their friends? Will God abandon them? In situations such as these, when we do not know what the outcome or result of a situation will be, we need to trust God and press forward to do what we believe is right. Even if we are persecuted for the sake of righteousness, God’s Word says we are blessed (see Matt. 5:10). Those three Hebrew boys would’ve never experienced their incredible miracle if they weren’t willing to trust God as they stood in that fire. 

 

The world desperately needs men and women who will trust God even in the midst of the fires of persecution and outside pressure. God can put us in better places than people could ever put us if we trust in Him and if we are people of integrity and excellence. We need people who will put everything on the line and say, “Even if I lose what I want, I will not compromise and do what I know in my heart to be wrong.” We need to fear the Lord above all else, and to trust Him at all times, in every situation, every day of our lives. 

 

Trust in Him. Don’t be afraid to stand up for righteousness, because you know He’ll never leave you or forsake you. 

 

Prayer Starter: Father, when the “fire” is turned up in my life, help me to stand strong and be a good representative for You. Help me to walk in integrity and do what’s right, even when it’s not popular. In Jesus’ Name, Amen."

 


 

God’s Grace, Mercy, Love, Peace & Abundance Be Upon Your Days

Lavonda`

HONORING THOSE OF 9/11: WE REMEMBER YOU!

 

Faery Blessings:

I am sure most of us remember this day back in 2001 when most of us witnessed the devastation of 9/11...Today when I received this email from Our Daily Bread, I was reminded to pause and reflect and be thankful as well...to pause and reflect on not knowing if we have another day and to embrace this day and give it all we have and also to be thankful that He has given us another day to do so with....So today let's stop for a moment and honor those on the bronze panels who lost their lives that day and send out a wee prayer for those who lost someone or someones that day...send them love and light and pray as this is probably a very hard day for them....enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!

 

"During a visit to the National September 11 Memorial in New York City, I quickly photographed one of the twin reflecting pools. Around these two pools, the names of the nearly 3,000 people who died in the World Trade Center attacks are etched into bronze panels. Later, while looking more closely at the photo, my eyes were drawn to the hand of a woman resting on a name. Many people come to this place to touch a name and remember someone they loved.

The prophet Isaiah reminded God’s people of His unfailing love and concern for them, even though they had often turned away from Him. The Lord said, “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine” (Isaiah 43:1).

In the 23rd Psalm, David wrote, “Even though I walk through the darkest valley [the valley of the shadow of death], I will fear no evil, for you are with me . . . . Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever” (vv. 4, 6).

God never forgets us. No matter where we are or whatever our situation, He knows our names and holds us fast in His unfailing love.

By David C. McCasland"


 

God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance
Lavonda`

THE ART OF LEARNING HOW TO LOVE


Faery Blessings:

Coming off the New Moon in Virgo from yesterday where we were being pulled to eliminate and let go of that which no longer serves us...it was a gateway that opened up a sense of organization, peace and calm in the upcoming months of Fall...so when this came up in my email I thought about how much easier it will be to learn how to truly love now that some of us have released our past into the loving arms of God...so enjoy today's message from Joyce Meyer and Be Blessed!


"No matter how long you may live, you'll never stop learning. Every minute of every day brings new opportunities to learn something we've never known before. And as long as we're open to receive, God will continue to teach us every day.

I'm still learning, and I know I always will be. What God teaches me every day about love continues to change my life. I've come to the place where I can honestly say, "Lord, eliminate everything in my life that's holding me back. Please take away anything that's keeping me from walking in love and finding true fulfillment in my life."

In other words: "Lord, reduce me to love—bring me to a state or condition of walking in love completely!"
Love Adapts and Adjusts

One of the most important facets I've learned about love is unselfishness, which is characterized in the Bible as a willingness to sacrifice one's own wishes for those of others. I've learned that true love will always adapt and adjust to the needs and desires of other people.

It's impossible for people who've truly been reduced to love to be selfish. God has taught them how to be totally adaptable and adjustable to others. Selfish people, on the other hand, have hard hearts. It's very difficult for them to learn anything—especially if it involves self-sacrifice. Instead of adjusting to others, they expect everyone else to adjust to them and their needs.

Learning to adapt and adjust to the needs and desires of others was very difficult for me. To be honest, I wanted my way, and I got upset when I didn't get it. I was selfish! I wanted what I wanted, when I wanted it! I couldn't stand having to wait on someone else or bending my own wishes to accommodate someone else's timetable.

But God began to soften my heart, and gradually I learned to see the needs of others. Then God gave me compassion—the heartfelt desire to meet the needs of others first before my own.

Slowly, I became committed to walking in love. I learned to adapt my own needs and desires in order to help meet the needs of others. I learned how to show love in different ways to different people. Not all people need the same thing from us. One of our children, for example, may need more of our personal time than the others. One of our friends may need more encouragement on a regular basis than another.

Do I ever feel too needed? Of course! We all feel overwhelmed from time to time. But I remind myself that God gives me grace for whatever He places in my life, and I'm fortunate to be loved and needed by so many.
Saying It Isn't Enough

If I ever get weary of always trying to be available to meet the needs of others, I remind myself of all the years I lived in selfishness and how unhappy I was. Now I'm just making up for lost time! When I think on this, it doesn't take long for me to adjust my attitude. After all, just telling people "I love you" is not enough. We need to go beyond the words and actually do something to help meet their needs.

My husband, Dave, loves to play golf, so I try to make sure our schedule gives him opportunities to play. But there was a time when it angered me for him to play golf. I was miserable because I hadn't learned to adjust to his needs or desires. I wanted him to make all the adjustments.

I never acknowledged the many ways in which Dave adjusted to my needs. I never saw what he did do—only what he didn't—and it was ruining our relationship. However, I learned to adapt and adjust, and I'm glad I did. It was a little hard on me for a while, but it saved our marriage.

Once you've been reduced to love, you'll have no trouble establishing and maintaining good, healthy relationships with others. Your primary goal in life will be to put the wishes of others before your own. You'll learn that true love is all about sacrifice and selfishness will be a thing of the past."

The Art Of Learning How To Love



Gods Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Lives
Lavonda`

9/9 Gateway & Virgo New Moon: Creation Of An Archetype


Faery Blessings:

Two days in a row these have come up and again I wanted to share this with you today..today we shift if you allow it to permeate your soul and allow God to take you into this shift with a sense of confidence and faith...today I shift, how about you? Enjoy today's message from consciousreminder .com and Be Blessed!

 

"Falling on the ninth day of the ninth month, this Virgo New Moon of 2018 will be located at approximately 17 degrees in Virgo. At the same time, it will interact with its ruling planet Mercury as well as the Sun, both of which are also in Virgo.

Extra attention should be paid to cleansing in this period as no sign is purer than Virgo which is clean of heart, mind and spirit. The spark of divinity, called the Christ consciousness, that resides within all of us is represented by Virgo.

Particular and meticulous, a Virgo is always ready to help other people. But on the other hand, a Virgo can sometimes be overwhelmed as they are quick to criticise, judge and think too much.

By interacting with Pluto which is in retrograde and located in Capricorn, the Moon will help us find the divine spark within our material selves. With all its power, Pluto will guide us to rapid change.

It is essential that we let go of whatever is preventing that change and this would be made easier through the interaction of Pluto and the Moon. You can let go without feeling much pain and confusion. Pluto will teach you that your past is part of who you are, but sometimes it is necessary to cast it away that which holds you back if you wish to move forward.

In this period, Uranus is located in Taurus thereby creating a trine with the Earth which is in power during the New Moon. This signifies a time of staying grounded and yet manifesting dreams into reality. Paradise is coming to Earth.

Pluto is in sextile with Jupiter which is now located in Scorpio and this will enhance our abilities and help us master our skills. The New Moon has opened up a gateway to a world of new possibilities.

Squaring with Nepture, this interaction of the Moon can go either way based on whether you have entered a higher realm of spirituality. If that is the case, you will be rewarded with inspiration and creativeness. You can put your abilities to good use in rebuilding the planet. Even your intuition is enhanced.

For those who have not reached this stage, they will need some guidance and wisdom to understand the muddle in their minds. Due to the opening of the gateways, those who are unprepared will not be able to understand or utilize the powerful energy coming through.

At the same time as the New Moon, Venus will transition from light hearted Libra to profound Scorpio. Ruling our relationships, Venus when combined with Scorpio ensures that we cast aside whatever is false and disloyal. This is a time to think about what is truly important to us because artificial and false things do not actually help us with anything.

Lastly, the 9-9 gateway opens during this New Moon thereby completing all these interactions and connections. In numerological terms, 9 has great value and it brings the powers of all the other numbers within itself.

It is the end of all things which is why all of Mother’s numerology is filled with 9 as that is the beginning and end of all things. This gateway indicates that the time of hurt and struggle is at an end. The ego no longer controls us and slowly light is taking over the dark.
With the opening of this gateway, we will step into the light and into immense transformation. Life, as we know it, will change completely as there is no more going back. We are now stepping into the future."



God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Lives
Lavonda`

When The Twin Flames Already Have Spouses: The Answer To A Difficult Problem


Faery Blessings:

I also wanted to add my two cents here as well to this article from consciousreminder .com...

P.S. Also the wee ones say this can apply to some soul mates as well...you will know what is right and true in your heart and the issue lies within both people in how they were raised and if they allow society's rules to dictate what is right and wrong instead of allowing God and their heart to dictate their path....the path should always be the one of the heart. I get a lot of questions on this particular issues when you finally meet your true love in your lifetime....so I thought I would share this article and help some of my clients in the process...Enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!


"Probably the most serious of challenges twin flames will have to go through is having spouses. They could be married with kids and the situation can get very difficult if they chance upon each other during this period.

The war that will then rage between their hearts and their minds has no easy end. While it is hard to do so, they must accept that love happens when it is meant to happen and it doesn’t care about where you are in your life at the time.

Moreover, love does not care about social norms. To understand love, you have to move away from these constraints and trust that your heart will not lead you astray.

When you are sure beyond doubt that you’re wedded to someone who is not right for you, all your matrimonial promises are invalidated. You’ve chosen to tie yourself to a ship that will soon sink.

Remember that you have made vows to your twin flame in all of your previous lives. The universe itself oversaw the marriage of your souls even before these social norms came into existence.
When Twin Flames Are Already Married

The question that you might wish to ask is why the universe would put you in this position. If you were always intended to be with your twin flame then why must you go through the pain of breaking someone else’s heart?

Whether you like it or not, the answer is this – you need to attain a certain level of spiritual growth in order to be ready when the time comes for you to meet your twin flame.

You may not see the point of all your struggle and hardships but they do make you stronger and when life becomes a storm tossing and turning you every which way, you will be able to hold your ground.

All that you experience has a reason behind it. Be accepting of your destiny otherwise you will find yourself lost without guidance. Step in and take charge of your situation and gracefully deal with whatever is handed to you.

Don’t worry too much if your twin flame already has a spouse. Let them know your feelings but don’t try to forcefully pull them out of their situation. Wait for them to make their choice. If that person is truly your twin flame, nothing in this world will be able to prevent them from coming to you.
Fated To Be Together

As twin flames, destiny has already dictated that you are meant to be together and you will be able to feel the universe driving you to each other at the right time. Understand that there is no need to feel any shame because loving your twin flame is as natural as breathing, no matter where you are in life at the time.

Social norms are the real problem here. No matrimonial vow can bind you and you should never allow it to prevent you from reaching out to your true love. As members of society, we are forced to give in to societal beliefs. But love is a unique experience for each and every person. No two love stories are the same.

Allow your heart to show you the way to happiness. It knows the ways of the universe and will ensure that you are on the right path.
Therefore, when you are faced with this particular dilemma, take the path of true love because that is the choice that will lead you to eternal joy."





God's Grace, Mercy, Love, Peace & Abundance Be Upon Your Lives
Lavonda`

TRULY, HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS!

 

Faery Blessings:

I used to look for a home in the physical, as in a physical place, moved around a lot searching for just the right place until realizing about 10 years ago that I was always at home in my heart, because everything I loved was there with me! God, my hubby, my children, my grandchildren, my friends, etc....they were all in my heart and no matter where I went there I found home....today I hope you can see that as well, that no matter where you go "Home is where the Heart Is"!

 

"A turtle carries its home on its back, as humans we carry our home in our heart.

The word "home" has a wide variety of connotations. To some, home is merely a place where basic needs are addressed. To others, home is the foundation from which they draw their strength and tranquility. Still, others view home as a place inexorably linked to family. Yet all these definitions of home imply somewhere we can be ourselves and are totally accepted. There, we feel safe enough to let down our guard, peaceful enough to really relax, and loved enough to want to return day after day. However, these qualities need not be linked to a single space or any space at all. Home is where the heart is and can be the locale you live in, a community you once lived in, or the country where you plan to live someday. Or home can be a feeling you carry inside yourself, wherever you are.

The process of evolution can require you to undergo transformations that uproot you. Moving from place to place can seem to literally divide you from the foundations you have come to depend on. Since your home is so intimately tied to the memories that define you, you may feel that you are losing a vital part of yourself when you leave behind your previous house, city, state, or country. And as it may take some time before you fashion new memories, you may feel homeless even after settling into your new abode. To carry your home with you, you need only become your own foundation. Doing so is merely a matter of staying grounded and centered, and recognizing that the pleasures you enjoyed in one place will still touch your heart in another if you allow them.

Your home can be any space or state of being that fulfills you, provided you are at peace with yourself and your surroundings. A person can feel like home to you, as can seasons and activities. If you feel disconnected from what you once thought of as home, your detachment may be a signal that you are ready to move one. Simply put, you will know you have found your home when both your physical environment and energetic surroundings are in harmony with the individual you are within."


 

God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Lives
Lavonda`

COMING FULL CIRCLE


Faery Blessings:

Today I was going through my email and came across this one and I realized that in my life there have been many times where I have come full circle, only to find myself stronger after the cycles I had been through....it is true that "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger"...I am glad for the phases in my life that I have come full circle and today I celebrate another time of coming full circle, so I wanted to share this article by Madisyn Taylor of DailyOM and hopefully you can come full circle too...enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!


"When we come full circle, there is the feeling that we have come to a familiar place, but we are somehow different.

Life is a circular journey through our issues and processes, and this is why things that are technically new often seem very familiar. It is also why, whenever we work to release a habit, change a pattern, or overcome a fear, we often encounter that issue one last time, even after we thought we had conquered it. Often, when this happens, we feel defeated or frustrated that after all our hard work we are still dealing with the same problem. However, the reappearance of a pattern, habit, or fear, is often a sign that we have come full circle, and that if we can maintain our resolve through one last test, we will achieve a new level of mastery in our lives.

When we come full circle, there is often the feeling that we have arrived in a familiar place, but that we ourselves are somehow different. We know that we can handle challenges that seemed insurmountable when we began our journey, and there is the feeling that we might be ready to take on a new problem, or some new aspect of the old problem. We feel empowered and courageous to have taken on the challenge of stopping a pattern, releasing a habit, or overcoming a fear, and to have succeeded. At times like these, we deserve a moment of rest and self-congratulation before we move on to the next challenge.

Coming full circle is like stepping into a clearing where, for a moment, we can see where we came from and where we are standing at the same time. Remembering that we will be tested again is important, but it's also important to pause and take a look at the ground we've covered, honoring our courage, our persistence, and our achievement. Then we can begin the next leg of our circular journey with a fuller understanding of where we are coming from."

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God's Grace Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Upon Your Lives

Lavonda`

Faery Blessings:

I woke up this morning to get grandchildren ready and off to school.....they are 13, 9 and 8.....I'm learning what the term "winging it" means...lol....The girl is so funny....she is a primper(don't know if that is spelled right), and she spends the majority of her time fixing her hair and looking in the mirror(she's 9) so I can only imagine what the teenage years hold lol....the 13 year old has to have almost white in everything he wears...I guess that's his color and we have a melt down if we cannot find just the right clothes(teenagers lol) and the 8 year old well he worries about everything, like--"will I get in trouble for this shirt? It's gonna be a hard day! School is 9 hours long, too long!".....Even though the stress runs high getting everyone around, I would not change a thing....when the bus runs I am like "whew"......I want to climb back in bed but instead I ask God to wake me up to use this quiet time to reflect and get ready for my day......today was a good morning in spite of the chaos and they left with a smile on their faces and an "I love you nanny!" and that is enough for me....Enjoy today's prayer and Be Blessed!



"Good morning Lavonda, here is today's prayer...

This prayer is based upon Proverbs 29:22-27

Dear Father in Heaven,

Let me never be an angry person who stirs up strife nor a furious person who abounds in transgression.

I pray that I will NOT be so filled with pride that I think of myself above others.

Instead, let me be humble and honorable.

May I be led by You when I choose others to partner with.

May I not fear others, but place my trust in You for my safety and my guidance.

You are my God and my judge.

You are the one I seek to please and to honor.

May I remain upright in my ways.

May I turn away from anything wicked.

My strength is in You.

Thank You.

In the name of Jesus my Savior I pray,

Amen."

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God's Grace, Mercy, Love, Peace & Abundance Upon Your Lives!

Lavonda`

YOU’LL ALWAYS BE THE SAME

 

Faery Blessings:

I am late on the draw today and getting out my daily message/prayer is later than usual….but it was a long day and got a lot accomplished…..started a new course today on SoulCare  and Channeled Writing, so I had a day of signing up and prepping for my classes, got excited and wanted to pray and settle down before sending it out….so enjoy today’s prayer and Be Blessed!

 

“Thank You, Lord Jesus, that even though circumstances change and my own heart is often fickle, You are always the same.  Your endless, unconditional love for me never changes.  That’s incredible!  I don’t even like myself sometimes, but You forgive my foolish attitudes, my selfishness, and my faltering ways.  Than You, Lord.

 

You don’t wait until I prove my allegiance or show that I can overcome temptations.  Sometimes I’m so ashamed of the way I treat others, the things I say, and my lack of faith, but I don’t have to accomplish great feats for You to love me.  When I behave like a spoiled child, You love me.  When I say ugly things, You love me.  I can’t comprehend such love; I can only praise You.  You are amazing!

 

I give You every  bit of myself, Lord, knowing that only as I totally depend on Your unchanging love and grace will I begin to be more like You.  I open my life to You.  Fill me to the brim with Your Holy Spirit so others can see Your consistent love in me.

 

I might change my behavior temporarily, but I can’t remake myself.  Only You can create a new heart in me that is stable and unchanging in the midst of life’s issues.  You’re wonderful!  Amen.”

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God’s Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Lives

Lavonda`

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