Silver Faery Hawk

Daughter of Evalach And Half Fairy or Faery

What to Do If You're Tired of Toughing It Out



Faery Blessings:

I get this a lot from people I counsel...I'm tired, I don't want to do this anymore, I'm done, I give up...and the list goes on and on and it's understandable when they describe what they have been through and how it is still going on...been there done that, give up quite a few times in my life...."that was until I found a reason not to"....and that was God....Suddenly I began to take what was hurting me, slowing me down, wearing me out and simply give it to him....did I pick it back up when God wasn't moving fast enough for me? YES! Did I make it happen any faster doing that? NO! If anything, I slowed it down even more...my grandmother used to tell me and to this day I can remember her telling me like it was yesterday...she said, "Give it to God and then stand back and what the power of the Lord take care of it, he cannot do anything while you have your hands all up in it"....I believe that as I can look back over my life when God probably said "Wait for it, she is gonna make a mess of it and then call on Us"...and I did...so today, try instead of giving up to look up and say, "Lord I can't handle this one, you take it and make it what you need it to be"...Now I am the one calling out to Him in those kind of days...and when I used to say "I can't wait" and my grandmother would say "But you will"....it's a hard road getting to that place sometimes but if we let God and angels get us there, it is a solidly built road without all the bumps and potholes...enjoy the message from Joyce Meyer today and Be Blessed!

 


"Have you ever noticed how so many different thoughts run through our minds every day? Some are good, some bad. Unfortunately, our natural temptation is to focus on the bad; so accepting them doesn't take any effort. The effort comes when we're determined to cast down the negative thoughts, and take a firm grasp of the positive ones.



The Battle for Your Thoughts


Positive minds full of faith and hope produce positive lives. The opposite is also true: negative minds full of fear and doubt produce negative lives, which can ultimately destroy your life. Some people have been hurt so many times that they don't think they can face the pain of another letdown. Therefore, they refuse to hope so they won't be disappointed.


Battles are fought in our minds every day. When we begin to feel the battle is just too difficult and want to give up, we must choose to resist negative thoughts and be determined to rise above our problems. We must decide that we're not going to quit.


When we're bombarded with doubts and fears, we must take a stand and say: "I'll never give up! God's on my side. He loves me, and He's helping me! I'm going to make it!"



Don't Give Up!


No matter how bad the battle rages in your mind, don't give up! Step out and regain the territory that's been stolen from you. Even if it's only an inch at a time, make sure you're leaning on God's grace and not on your own ability.


In Galatians 6:9 the apostle Paul simply encourages us to keep on keeping on! Don't be a quitter! Don't have that old "give up" spirit. God's looking for people who will find the courage to rise above all the negative and pursue the positive.


Whatever you may be facing or experiencing in your life right now, I want to encourage you to stay positive and refuse to give up! God is with you. He'll help you make spiritual progress—strengthening and encouraging you to keep on keeping on during rough times. It's easy to quit, but it takes faith to press on to victory.



Reprogram Your Mind


When the battle seems endless and you think you'll never make it, remember that you're reprogramming a "worldly" mind to think as God thinks. In the same way that computers are programmed, our minds are also programmed.


From the time we're born, our minds are like computers that have had a lifetime of garbage programmed into them. But God—the best "computer programmer" around—is working on us every day to reprogram our minds as we cooperate with Him (see Romans 12:2).



When Progress is Slow


This process of reprogramming or renewing our minds will take place little by little, so don't be discouraged if progress seems slow. Don't get down when you have setbacks or bad days. Just get back up, dust yourself off and start again.


When a baby is learning to walk, he falls many, many times before he develops the ability to walk without falling; however, the baby is persistent. He may cry for a while after he falls down, but he always gets right back up and tries again.


Learning to change our thinking works the same way. There will be days when we don't do everything right—days when our thinking is negative. But never stop trying. God is gradually bringing us around to His way of thinking. Just don't give up!"





God's Grace, Peace, Mercy, Love & Abundance Be Upon All Your Days
Lavonda`

A Brand New Say



Faery Blessings:

I am keeping this short and sweet today but wanted to share this Joyce Meyer article, "A Brand New Say"....enjoy and Be Blessed!



"God wants you to be free from your worries.


Okay, be honest, did you read that last sentence and think, Joyce, I have so much to worry about…if you only knew what I was going through, you’d realize how hard it is.


Trust me, I know exactly where you’re coming from because I’ve been there multiple times before! But here’s what God always puts in my heart when I’m facing a trial that has me feeling down… “Cheer up! Cast your cares. Trust in My Word. I’m here for you. This too shall pass.”


It’s as true for you as it is for me! God loves you. He is looking and longing to be gracious to you…because all He sees is Christ in you!


But here’s a question to ask yourself: Do you agree with Him? I know we’re apt to think that we do, so I think the best way to find out for sure is to listen to the words we say.


Proverbs 18:21 (NIV) says, The tongue has the power of life and death.... So, I’m encouraging you to get serious about your words. Stop worrying. Stop complaining. And start making decisions to agree with God’s Word.


I believe that we can make a difference in the world just by speaking the truth. Here are a few areas where choosing the right words will make a tremendous difference in your life:



Agree with God About Yourself


God loves you, He chose you, and He has a good plan for your life—and He wants all of that to be cemented in your heart. So, if you have a hard time agreeing with Him in those areas, then start confessing the truth!


Say to yourself, I am the righteousness of God in Christ. I am made acceptable in the Beloved. God formed me with His own hand, He loves me, and God doesn’t make mistakes.


God doesn’t want you to feel “less than” other people. He wants you to seek and discover the good things He put inside you, and pursue the opportunities he sets before you.



Agree with God About Others


Did you know that you are a person of influence? God has set you in a place and gifted you to share the Gospel in your own special way. Just as the Holy Spirit encourages you to become all God has designed you to be, you can build up the people you encounter each day.


It’s very inexpensive to give a compliment. “I like your hair” or “God loves you” or “I appreciate you for what you do.” Just a few properly chosen words can change a person’s life for the better (see Proverbs 15:23)! Ask the Holy Spirit to help you form a habit of adding value to everyone you meet!



Agree with God About Your Future


God has a great future for you! First Corinthians 2:9 (NKJV) says, "...Eye has not seen, nor ear heard, nor have entered into the heart of man the things which God has prepared for those who love Him."


We need to live with an eternal mindset, remember what God has done for us, and trade our murmuring and complaining for praise and thanksgiving. We can even talk about our problems in a positive way.


For example, you might say, “This isn’t easy for me and it’s challenging, but I believe God is working—and He has a purpose in everything He does! I know that if I trust Him and keep a good attitude, He will work it all out for my good.”


Don’t complain and remain. Praise God, and make progress.


God wants us to enjoy our lives (see John 10:10). As you begin to speak in agreement with His Word, He will lift you up above the everyday frustrations you face, and cause you to be genuinely joyful, peaceful, and worry free."



God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Days
Lavonda`

7 Steps To Heal Your Inner Child



Faery Blessings:

For years my wounded inner child/mind ran the show called my life...I was jealous, insecure, and controlling(yes I was)*a wee bit ashamed of that now*....but with the assistance of God and angels and me nightly asking them to come in and heal that damaged little girl that wanted so badly to be ok without feeling so jealous, insecure and controlling...I was that person that needed the "answer" to everything that was happening in my life only for God and angels to reveal to me that not "all" would be revealed and that in that "not-knowing" I would grow stronger and develop more faith in God than in myself to handle the situation through my weaknesses...I am happy to say that now I have beaten the jealous monster, the insecure little girl and the controlling woman in my inner self/mind...so today when I saw this on consciousreminder .com I knew I had to share it....so with that being said, enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!



"According to John Bradshaw, author of “Home Coming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child,” the process of healing your wounded inner child is one of grief. And it involves these seven steps (in Bradshaw’s words):


1) Trust


For your wounded inner child to come out of hiding, he must be able to trust that you will be there for him. Your inner child also needs a supportive, nonshaming ally to validate his abandonment, neglect, abuse, and enmeshment. Those are the first essential elements in original pain work.



2. Validation


If you’re still inclined to minimize and/or rationalize the ways in which you were shamed, ignored, or used to nurture your parents, you need now to accept the fact that these things truly wounded your soul. Your parents weren’t bad, they were just wounded kids themselves.



3. Shock


If this is all shocking to you, that’s great, because shock is the beginning of grief. After shock comes depression and then denial.



4. Anger


It’s okay to be angry, even if what was done to you was unintentional. In fact, you HAVE to be angry if you want to heal your wounded inner child. I don’t mean you need to scream and holler (although you might). It’s just okay to be mad about a dirty deal.


I know [my parents] did the best that two wounded adult children could do. But I’m also aware that I was deeply wounded spiritually and that it has had life-damaging consequences for me. What that means is that I hold us all responsible to stop what we’re doing to ourselves and to others. I will not tolerate the outright dysfunction and abuse that dominated my family system.

 

5. Sadness


After anger comes hurt and sadness. If we were victimized, we must grieve that betrayal. We must also grieve what might have been–our dreams and aspirations. We must grieve our unfulfilled developmental needs.



6. Remorse


When we grieve for someone who has died, remorse is sometimes more relevant; for instance, perhaps we wish we had spent more time with the deceased person. But in grieving childhood abandonment, you must help your wounded inner child see that there was nothing he could have done differently. His pain is about what happened to him; it is not about him.



7. Loneliness


The deepest core feelings of grief are toxic shame and loneliness. We were shamed by [our parents’] abandoning us. We feel we are bad, as if we’re contaminated. And that shame leads to loneliness. Since our inner kid feels flawed and defective, he has to cover up his true self with his adapted false self. He then comes to identify himself by his false self. His true self remains alone and isolated.


Staying with this last layer of painful feelings is the hardest part of the grief process. “The only way out is through,” we say in therapy. It’s hard to stay at that level of shame and loneliness; but as we embrace these feelings, we come out the other side. We encounter the self that’s been in hiding. You see, because we hid it from others, we hid it from ourselves. In embracing our shame and loneliness, we begin to touch our truest self."





God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon All Your Day
Lavonda`

How Long, Please Tell Me How Long! :)

 

 

Faery Blessings:

I used to be the one asking God "How Long?"...I used to be the one who cried and cried, and raged and raged and sometimes even got mad at God and blamed him...when I realized that me being angry with God over some of the things he allowed me to go through so I could be stronger in his kingdom the tears and rage began to subside and although I have never used a timer to sit with my emotions, I used to go on a short walk down to the picnic area of the lake just to feel it all and cry when I needed to and even with the isolated location a couple of times screaming out why...but now those walks have become special to me not due to the release of emotions but because I have realized that is my one on one time with God and angels for me....Yes I used to be the angry/sad and bitter one...now I just walk and tell God and angels how I honestly feel and let them take it all on my walk...with each step I think "I release you anger, I release you sadness", "I let you go"....was it easy initially? NO! Was it worth learning how to do this? YES! So when I saw this DailyOM article I just had to share...enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!

 

And instead of a picture today, I was led to share a music video for this message!  It's an awesome song, must hear! At the end of this message, just click on the link and it will take you to a different page to view this video...enjoy!

 

 

"When we take the time to sit with our emotions fully, it will become apparent that the emotion was a catalyst for much needed healing.

 


Our emotions color our lives with varying palettes. Sometimes we feel a strong emotion in reaction to something that has happened, but emotions also visit us seemingly out of the blue, flooding us unexpectedly with joy or grief or melancholy. Like the weather, they come and go, influencing our mental state with their particular vibration. Sometimes a difficult emotion hangs around longer than we would like, and we begin to wonder when it will release its hold on us. This is often true of grief stemming from loss, for example, or lingering anger over a past event.

 

 

Usually, if we allow ourselves to feel our emotions fully when they come up, they recede naturally, giving way to another and another. When an emotion haunts us, it is often because we are afraid of really feeling it. Emotions like despair and rage are powerful, and it is natural to want to hold them at bay. Certainly, we don't want to let them take us over so that we say or do things we later regret. When we are facing this kind of situation, it can be helpful to ask the spirit, "How long do I need to sit with these emotions, how long do I need to feel these emotions before they can pass?" If you ask sincerely and wait, an answer will come. Setting a time limit on your engagement with that difficult emotion may be just the technique you need to face it fully.

 

 

When you have a sense of how much time you need to spend, set a timer. Sit down and make yourself available to the emotion that has been nagging you. All you have to do is feel it. Avoid getting attached to it or rejecting it. Simply let it ebb and flow within you. Emotions are by their nature cyclical, so you can trust that just as one reaches its apex it will pass. Each time you sit with its presence without either repressing or acting out, you will find that that difficult emotion was the catalyst for much needed emotional healing."

 


God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Days
Lavonda`

 

Awesome video by needtobreathe called "Hard Love"...just click the link and will open in a new window

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tE3Fp8C_ufg&feature=share

Apply Gentleness To Everything

 


Faery Blessings:

I used to be the stressed out one...I used to wake up worrying about my day and it had not fully begun, but out of the anxiety of my mind I created my whole day in under 30 minutes in my mind and my mind would accommodate me and create that reality....and I would say "see, I knew it was going to be bad"....lol....looking back now I see how utterly silly I was and when I realized that my mind was creating my reality I did an experiment for a week to start thinking different thoughts in the morning...and you know what? After telling my day and trusting God with those ideas of how my day would go, it would go way better than when I began my day in negativity....now that I see how well that works, it is something I do first thing when I wake up, thanking God, creating a full and good day within my mind and then embracing my day....So when I came across this article on DailyOM I thought, yeah I will share this....so enjoy this message and Be Blessed!

 


"Struggle can find no foothold when confronted with gentleness, because conflict can only exist when fed by two opposing forces.

 


Throughout life we must cope with blockages that impede our forward momentum. Whether these obstacles are of a personal, professional, or societal nature, our first instinct may be to push against the obstruction. But the simplest way to alleviate resistance is to approach it gently, with a soft manner and kind intentions. Struggle and strife can find no foothold when confronted with gentleness because conflict can only exist when fed by two opposing forces. So many areas of our lives can benefit from the application of gentleness. The beauty of gentleness lies in its multifaceted nature. It is part love, part compassion, part patience, part understanding, and part respect for others. When we move through life gently as a matter of course, we naturally attract these wonderful elements into our lives.

 


This does not mean that gentle people are by nature passive or meek. Rather, their copious inner power is manifested in their gentleness and their choice to move with the flow of the universe instead of against it. You can make use of gentleness in your own life by applying it in situations where you feel challenged by your circumstances or by people in your environment. As you move forward gently, the energy pervading your life will likely shift and, consequently, the blockages before you will vanish. Cooperation progresses smoothly when approached gently because all parties involved feel confident that their needs will be met. And quarrels are easily quelled with gentleness because the dualistic concepts of losing and winning are made moot by our willingness to exercise infinite patience with those whose values differ from our own.

 


Gentleness must be practiced, as we are inadvertently encouraged to act competitive in certain phases of our lives. At first, your established habits may make being truly gentle challenging. Yet after a time, if you commit to consciously applying gentleness to all areas of your life, whether by collaborating rather than competing or yielding graciously to the impassable roadblocks in your path in order to seek a new road, you will find that you begin to act gently habitually. Your patterns of thought and behavior become ever more peaceful, and you will discover that you encounter far less impassable resistance on your individual journey."



 


God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon All Your Days
Lavonda`

The calendar reads November 11th, 2018…


Faery Blessings:

Well it is here....11/11/11....I woke up feeling like my soul was on fire(in a good way)....like I went through a thorough cleansing while sleeping and welcoming in this day on midnight while sleeping....I feel like my subconscious was healed and released my past in a great and healthy way...I woke up this morning feeling like I had a clean slate upon which to write a whole new story within my inner world...and I got to welcome it in with 5 of my grandchildren that I woke up to this morning...what a lovely way to begin this new master day in my life and theirs as well...so with all that being said, enjoy today's message from numerologist .com and Be Blessed!



"The 11th day, of the 11th month of an 11 Universal Year (2+0+1+8=11).


Can you feel the enormous power of this momentous day? It’s been building for months, with reports coming in from all over the world of the 11:11 number code showing up everywhere.


In fact, as I’m sitting here typing this email to you, I just looked at my phone…


And, as luck (er, the Universe) would have it, it’s exactly 11:11, on 11/11/11.


Omg.


I’d be dumbfounded if this hadn’t already happened countless times in the past few weeks! Of course, I still had to take a picture to show you…


If you’ve been seeing it too, that is a very good sign.


It means you’re ready to receive the manifesting magic of this incredibly rare portal.


This will help you make the most of it...


So what exactly makes today the most powerful manifesting day of the decade?


In Numerology, 11 is the Master Number of heightened intuition, supernatural abilities and miraculous creation.


In sacred geometry, the Number 11 represents two pillars, a gateway, which opens a direct portal between divine inspiration and physical materialization.


Triple it (11:11:11) and we’re talking manifestation at light speed!



The word “light” even adds up to 11 in numerology, and thank heavens for that because we could all use a little light right now. The dark Scorpio energy we’ve been sitting in for the past week or so has been intense and uncomfortable...


Forcing you to confront what your soul truly needs to thrive as we close out the year.


You can finally breathe a sigh of relief, though.


Everything you’ve been through this year so far has been in preparation for something much, much bigger coming your way…


And, it’s finally here."




God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Lives Every Day
Lavonda`


Get Ready: Extremely Powerful 11:11:11 Portal Opens This Weekend


Faery Blessings:

Powerful, powerful, powerful day tomorrow...it is a 11/11/2018(11) day....3 master numbers in one suggests that it is truly a day of awakening if you still your mind and open up your heart...I look forward to you guys sharing with me what happened for you on that day tomorrow....it comes in at midnight tonight and I am truly looking forward to it coming in....so enjoy today's message from consciousreminder .com and Be Blessed!



"From a numerological point of view, 11 is a number which is considered the Master Number, in which ‘Master’ means that it is has a high and intense frequency of vibrations and it actually works with the magical, transcendental and aetherial realms of the creation.


In fact, Master Numbers are those numbers which possess huge potential for growth, as well as learning, and they can make huge transformations in one’s life.


11 is actually a number which is full of intuition, and it is also a clear path towards our subconscious. Leadership, spiritual, as well as power on a personal level, are some of its characteristics. Just the number 1 on its own represents initiative, leadership, as well as new starts, so two of them standing one by one will open the gateway of powers far more than when separated.



A symbolic genetic code 11:11


When actually two 11s appear in conjunction, like 11:11, which is actually the code that awakens within the DNA of a person. The code 11:11 stars within a person a profound cellular ability to remember, which is actually the most divine, as well as sacred awakening which will initiate the power of the person’s soul.


11:11 is a code called genetic, and it actually awakens the intuitive and psychic gifts within people, and it also helps them to recall the origins of their soul on a deeper level. Although this world all over us can seem fractured, disconnected and separate, the code will guide people towards their homes, so they could see further on the illusions of the unspiritual world of disconnection, in order to experience the love or humanity.


The code will also open people’s hearts to the permanent nature of their souls, and they will actually be forced to awaken their most profound truths, as well as the most significant vision of the purpose of their soul on this planet. They will merely recall that they are created of love, so even in the darkest moments of human love is going to find its way always.


The 11:11 double Master Number, is actually a sing which usually appears when you really have a necessity of it, or at some times when our Universe sends people some messages of the divine support and love. We can notice this genetic code in clocks, magazines, billboards, shop receipts, license plates, car CD player, or in nature too, like trees conjunct in order to make the 11:11 code.


The 11th day of November in every year actually gives people the chance to operate with the greatest potential of such sacred remembrance key of 11:11 and it also expands their collective and individual hearts into quite good and awakened state of aware evolution.


From a numerological point of view, the word angel actually vibrates the energy of 22. Then the Angels of Creation enlarge their divine nature through all those directions of space and time (11+11=22).
The spiritual significance of the 11:11:11 portal


In 2018, the 11th of November (11:11) resonance of love remembrance will be in the Universal Year number 11 too (2+0+1+8).


One word ‘Shambhala’ is actually connected to the number 11 which is a Master Number, and this is an excellent word which is going to help people get the biggest potential of this 11 Universal Year which is 2018. This word is actually a Sanskrit one, which refers to Shealla or dreaming, and it is translated as some area of happiness, tranquility, and peace. Every one of us is free in the mind and heart to decide to experience heaven on Earth, which is a place of Shambhala.


However, what this portal of potential means for every person? Actually, it supplies with an enormous catalyst of potentiality, collectively, as well as individually.


The energies of this portal enlarge upon the dual powers of 11:11 and the 11 Universal Year.


It is a compelling point, a chance to take a look on our past, as well as on the future too, or in our present. It will be a time to stop and think about our decisions or being aware of taking actions when it comes to the desires of the heart, as well as the soul’s calling."




God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Days
Lavonda`

Living A Day In Grace


Faery Blessings:

I was going to post another 11:11 article today but when going through my morning mail inbox like I always do first, this article popped up and couldn't get it off my mind so I took that as a sign from God and angels that someone/someones needed this article today...I always like to follow that tingle that God and angels give me because if it reaches and touches one person's soul then I have succeeded in accomplishing what God/Angels set out for me to do today...so enjoy this article from dailyom .com and Be Blessed!


"Grace exists in all situations and in every moment, yet all too often we may overlook its presence.


Grace is always with us. It flows like a river through our lives, artfully reminding us that there is magic and power beyond what our eyes can see. At times we catch its subtle beauty, like during chance meetings, near misses, and insights that seem to come from nowhere. Other times we experience grace in all its powerful surety such as when a job or relationship comes to an end. Though we may forget that this is grace at work too, it is indeed influencing our lives, helping us to move forward and take the next step. Grace exists in all situations, in every moment, yet all too often we may overlook its presence.


Imagine how it would feel to live an entire day in grace, to fully appreciate that your day is unfolding in absolute perfection. Whereas usually you might miss the magic in ordinary events and interactions, on this day you would recognize them all as little miracles. Perhaps you could begin with your first deep breaths in the morning, becoming aware that there is an abundant supply of air for you to breathe. Your lungs know just how to carry oxygen to your blood, and your blood knows where to carry it from there.



This is grace at work. You might appreciate the brilliant sunshine, the warm summertime rain, or the possibilities for learning that greet you at every turn. You might notice the ease with which you do your job or laugh with a close friend. These things are also grace. Even laying your head down at the end of this day and resting in the stillness of night is grace.


With each opportunity you give yourself to enjoy this current of benevolence, you may discover a deeper peace. Your faith may strengthen and your heart may open. You might begin to wonder if struggle is really all that necessary after all. By living this one day in grace, you might open the door to many more."





God's Grace, Mercy, Love, Peace & Abundance Be Upon All Your Days
Lavonda`

November 11th 2018 Is The Most Powerful Day In Over 100 Years



Faery Blessings:

The closer we get to the 11th day of this 11th month of our 11th(2018 added together equals 11) the more I will post on this date...it is important and it is a life changing day and it is going to change your life if you open up and embrace the energy of this day and ask God and angels to implant within you the energy of this day for the rest of your life.....I know I am...the night before I shall pray for an awakening as I sleep and gently move into the day in my sleep....may God open me up, fill me with this energy portal as I sleep and may I awaken to the day filled with all the power, energy, patience, hope, faith and wisdom that comes with it.....So after reading this article on mysticalraven .com I wanted to share with you the meaning of this particular day....Enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!



"November 11, 2018 is a vibrationally powerful day due to the fact that it is the 11th day of the 11 month of the 11th year. And we are in an 11 year as well, making it one of the most powerful days in over 100 years.


111111 or 11/11/2018 holds special spiritual significance as it is believed to be the number of spiritual awakenings and powerful new beginnings.


When you frequently see 11:11 on the clock or when you are drawn to the number 1111, it often indicates an upcoming change or awakening that is on the horizon for you.


Angels, spirit guides and the Universe also use numbers as a way to connect and communicate with you. 1111 is commonly used by Divine beings to help point you in the right direction and to illuminate the path ahead for you.


In numerology, the number one indicates new beginnings but when there is a series of ones, like on November 11 (11/11) it creates a powerful energy for the day that allows us to all awaken to a new potential.


November 11 is therefore a powerful time to make changes in your life, set intentions or to dig deeper in order to uncover the truth. New awakenings, new information and new levels of enlightenment are all possible on this day due to this energy.


The Significance Of 2018:


The last time we experienced a Universal 11 Year was in 2009, and then before that the last Universal 11 year was in 1910… thus well over 99% of the worlds population have only ever experienced one or two Universal Year 11 vibrations in their lifetime.


In numerology the number 11 is a Master Number – ‘Master’ meaning it is of intense/high vibrational frequency and works within the aetherial, magical and transcendental realms of creation. Master numbers possess great potential for learning and growth, and can bring major transformations in your life.


The number 11 is the most intuitive number and is a clear channel to the subconscious. It is the number of leadership, personal power and spiritual truths.


Shambhala


The word ‘Shambhala’ resonates to the Master Number 11 in numerology… and is the perfect word to help us embrace the greater potential of our Universal 11 Year.


Shambhala is a sanskrit word that roughly translates to a place of peace, tranquility & happiness. Each of us has the freedom in our hearts/minds to choose to experience Heaven here on Earth, a place of Shambhala. We have the choice to live our lives being kind to one another, to live in harmony with the Earth and in service to something greater than us.


Our Universal 11 Year is our wakeup call to remember Shambhala, to remember how beautiful the world feels when we experience our lives through our hearts and how when we choose to create Shambhala in everything we do we awaken the best in ourselves and inspire others to do the same.



Final Thoughts On This Important Day:


If life has been feeling sluggish for you, if you have been feeling sick and tired of the same old thing, November 11 is definitely going to bring a breath of fresh air.


In order to use the energy of November 11 to your advantage, you have to activate it. You have to open your heart to the energy and welcome in the vibration of new beginnings."




God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon All Your Days
Lavonda`


Holding Space for Others


Faery Blessings:

Sometimes when I have a client and their partners/children/co-workers/etc are going through things and seem to be agitated, confused, frustrated or go silent on us, we do one of two things....we either hold this space for them(give them room to just be what they need to be to learn the lesson) or we get upset, frustrated and confused right along with them and complain and grumble that they are being unfair to us...Lately there seems to be a lot of people healing within their mind and I advise my clients to just give them space while they heal but after reading this article in DailyOM it made me realize that not only are we giving them space to heal but we are also "holding that space" for them while they go through it with unconditionaly love, forgiveness, peace and hope in that wait/weight of holding that space for them....so today I issue a challenge(even myself) that as we do hold this space for someone while they heal that we do not judge, we do not become impatient, we do not complain and talk about them, we just simply let them be while God and angels work on them....so with that being said, Enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!


"When we hold space for someone, we offer to be a container for the overwhelming feelings they may be encountering.


We have all been called upon at one time or another to help a loved one through a difficult time. When the help required consists of concrete actions such as running errands or making phone calls, we know what to do. But sometimes we are called to hold space for the person as they go through their journey. They may need to express anger or grief; they may need to talk or simply be silent. They may need us to hold their hand; they may need us to give them time alone. Whatever the case, when we hold space for someone, we offer ourselves to be a container for the overwhelming feelings they may be encountering due to their circumstances.


When we offer ourselves in this way, the more centered and grounded we are, the better. Our steadiness allows our companion to lean into us for support, and our presence provides an environment in which they can be free to move. We can also help by being responsive, allowing them to dictate the flow of action from talking to not talking, from anger to grief, and back again. By being aware and open, we can help them confront their feelings when that feels right, and back off from them when they need a break. Holding space requires humility, conscientiousness, the ability to step out of the way, and us to honestly understand that this is not about us.


When we love someone in this way, we provide a space in which they can simply be, and feel what they need to feel without worrying about how they are being perceived. We can provide this offering in person, over the phone, or even from a distance through meditation. However we do it, when we hold space for someone in need, we are offering a gift of the highest nature.


To truly support people in their own growth, transformation, grief, etc., we can’t do it by taking their power away (ie. trying to fix their problems), shaming them (ie. implying that they should know more than they do), or overwhelming them (ie. giving them more information than they’re ready for). We have to be prepared to step to the side so that they can make their own choices, offer them unconditional love and support, give gentle guidance when it’s needed, and make them feel safe even when they make mistakes.


It means that we are willing to walk alongside another person in whatever journey they’re on without judging them, making them feel inadequate, trying to fix them, or trying to impact the outcome. When we hold space for other people, we open our hearts, offer unconditional support, and let go of judgement and control."




God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon All Your Days!
Lavonda`

11:11 And Its Meaning In Love



Faery Blessings:

11:11 is fast approaching this month and this month 11/11/2018 when all put together is 3 11's in a row...this is a super powerful day so I wanted to share this artice with you guys from consciousreminder .com so that you would be prepared when that day arrives in 5 days....I already feel the powerful energy pulling on me but it feels good and healthy and I am excited to greet that day with open arms, spirit, body, mind and soul....so keeping it short and sweet and embrace this all master number day with anticipation of what God is bringing into your lives...Enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!

 

"11:11 has a lot of significance in the Universe. Having different meanings depending on context; its basic underlying concept is of synchronicity. Synchronicity signifies that the Universe is showing us the way.

For example, when we think about calling someone but they call first, that’s synchronicity. We generally experience synchronicity when we are at or approaching a forked road in our spiritual journey. It means we should pay more attention to our spirituality in the following few weeks.
Synchronicity and 11:11

Although there are several spiritual and numerological reasons behind the significance of 11:11, but there are also some practical reasons. It appears on clocks, number plates and so on. It is unknown whether 11:11 is common because the Universe willed it or something else.
Love and 11:11

The sequence 11:11 is a message from the Universe and frequent occurrence of it means that you should prepare yourself for a spiritual event and arrange your house. It’s important to focus on other synchronicities. They may all point to – love.

By analyzing the synchronicities you might discover a pattern which shows that it isn’t a coincidence but a message that you’ll meet your partner soon.
Twin Flames and 11:11

11:11 is related to the twin flame relationship. It signifies meeting someone extremely special. The number sequence holds the characteristics of a twin flame relationship like loyalty, honesty, love, unity and openness.

11 mirrored, represent the souls of the twin flames which are also mirrored. All these characteristics are unique and attributed to the twin flame relationship.

Therefore, when we see synchronicity around us with the number sequence 11:11 we should really slow down and pay attention to the details around us to understand what message the Universe is trying to convey to us.

Most importantly, it helps you prepare yourself for the most important spiritual event; that of meeting your twin flame."





God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon All Your Days
Lavonda`

Everything To Everybody....Learning To Say No!



Faery Blessings:

Most days there is a lot going on in peoples lives..I am no exception here...most of my life I have been or tried to be "everything to everyone"...I have learned that by being this I have created situations in my life that people have come to depend on me way too much and the first few times I started saying "No" to them they got(as my grandchildren put it) "butt hurt"....sorry if that word offends anyone lol...



As I grow older I am beginning to realize that truly life is short and that if I want to do things as I get older that I neglected to do in my life that I have to learn to say "no" and I have also learned that the more you do for some people, the more they expect you to keep doing it....and in the process I have learned that I have enabled them and not truly helped them...and after learning to say "no" and actually applying it that I am beginning to lose people in my life and a realization that the only reason they wanted me in their lives was for what I could give them...you could say God has used my new "no" position to weed out what is no longer needed in my life...


When you begin to say "no" to others in your life, you will find that they talk behind your back, thinking you will never find out what they said, yet somehow you do...it used to be hurtful what they said but now I look to heaven and say "Me and you are good God and I am good with knowing that" and remember that what other people say about you is none of your business(that was a biggie for me) as I was super sensitive, but now I realize there is nothing I can do to change their "opinions" of me and that is all they are(their opinions) not God's true view of me..


So today I challenge you to find the "no" in your voice and allow God to keep in your life or weed out those no longer needed...and no matter how much you give someone that does not obligate them to be there for you, to be nice to you, to not say things about you....learn to control what you can, give to God what you can't and allow God to handle all the naysayers, backbiters and haters in your life, while you focus on you and move forward...enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!





God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon All Your Days
Lavonda`


Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway

 


Faery Blessings:

Today I will share a lesson I learned from my 13 year old granddaughter...a wee background on her...she is super shy, sweet and loving...she is a momma's(my daughter) girl...she does not stray far from home and she absolutely loves God...she has a little prayer corner in her room with sticky notes all around and a divider to separate it from her bedroom(it's in her bedroom the prayer corner)...she serves at her local youth group at the church she attends...she is the opposite of what most 13 year old girls are...and she has this beautiful voice like an angel and she thinks that praying is the most awesome thing in the world...now to what she taught me yesterday at her regionals choir performance.

 


She had tried out for the regional choir team about a month ago...out of 900 students they only chose 25 girls....she was terrified to try out as she had to perform a solo in front of judges from all over the state...you could tell she was shaking but she prayed she said and closed her eyes and sang from her heart...out of 900 students she got in the 25 chosen...now to yesterday at regionals.

 


Yesterday(11/3/18) in Russellville, AR...she performed with the group of other talented young women to perform 3 songs that they only had 6 hours to learn..these were girls that had never met but were chosen from all over the state...when they all stepped on that stage there was a sense of awww and a strong presence of God...they sounded like angels singing...she said she was so terrified even after making regionals to get in front of the audience but again she said "she prayed" and stepped out in confidence that God would have her back and she sang her heart out...I cried as I thought about with all the hormones raging in a 13 year old shy girl that she could "face her fear and do it anyway" that I should be able to do the same....she is shining example of what that means...so today let's challenge ourselves to open up to our fear and "face it" and tell that fear "you don't own me" and just "do it anyway"....my granddaughter did and now she is in a position to make it to state and even nationals...so if she can do it, I know I can face the fears and giants in my life...

 

So if a 13 year old hormonal teenager can quiet her inner fears and hormones, then surely us older and seasoned adults can....enjoy today's inspirational, yet challenging message and "Just do it"...Be Blessed!



 


God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon All Your Days
Lavonda`

7 Guidelines You Should Follow To Stop Worrying About Things You Can’t Control


Faery Blessings:

This one had to be for me today...I have a lot on my plate and although it is easy to tell others how to release the worry, sometimes it is not so easy to practice what you preach, so today I was reminded again by God and angels to do the following guidelines in my own life as well...I found these on consciousreminder .com....I hope this helps someone today....Enjoy the message and Be Blessed!



"It was said that most of our stress comes directly from the way we think and respond.


So, that’s why today, we will present you the seven tips which will stop you from thinking and worrying about things which you cannot control.


Seven tips to prevent you from worrying about things that you are not able to manage.


1.You cannot control everything which goes around you, but you can, in fact, control the way you respond to it. The most significant power is in your response. Yes, it is true that most of your stress comes directly from the way you think, as well as respond, and not the way life is. You should adjust your attitude, and all that extra stress will be gone.


2. You should not worry about whether they are going to be some problems. There are going to be plenty of them for sure, and you will succeed in solving all of them.


3. If you are worried too much about what may happen, as well as winder too long about what might have been, you are going to ignore and entirely miss what is. You should realize that worrying is a misuse of your incredible creative energy. Instead of imagining the best, and how you can bring it about.


4. Today is just your own choice. So, today you should choose grace over impatience, beauty over negativity, as well as presence over panic and so on.


5. There is absolutely nothing about the present situation you are in to – even the aspects which you cannot control – which will prevent you from making progress, step by step.


6. You are still alive, and you are still breathing, so you should act like that. You should let go of what is wrong and grab hold of what is right. Also, make things happen, and then let them happen. You should learn, accept, explore, as well as create and experience every single day, one tiny step at a time.


7. Most importantly, keep being mindful. Keep breathing profoundly, as things ultimately turn out best for people that make the best out of the way things turn out.



Read these things carefully and once again, think twice before you start worrying about something that is not in your hands."




God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon All Your Days
Lavonda`

November Astrology: Soft Energies Heralding The End Of 2018! :)

 

Faery Blessings:

We've all felt this year, including me...retrograde after retrograde we plowed our way somehow through this year...and as we stepped into the Fall we felt a slight shift, but still a retrograde or two was still holding us back a wee bit...so when I saw this article on consciousreminder .com I thought everyone could welcome some positive energy coming in during this month, so I wanted to share this article in hopes that someone would find hope as we begin closing out this year...and this November 11th is 11/11/11.....very powerful indeed!...Enjoy today's message and Be Blessed!

 

 

"This year was really a period of retrogrades. Influenced by their energy, we had to stop and evaluate our lives’ paths. We also need to decelerate and take a look on our past for directions, wisdom, so that we can heal ourselves.

 

In the month that comes, two planets will be in retrograde – the planet Venus and the planet Mercury. Though there is going to be easing, and people will feel more relieved, as they are getting ready to enclose this year.

 

Finishing this month, people were in contact with the elevation of the retrograde of the planet Venus, and during the first 10 to 15 days of November, Venus will also get ready to start a new round. The planet is going to finish the retrograde on the 16th of November, and during this period her obligation will be ended too.

 

But, on the day when she turns direct, the planet Mercury will go retrograde and is also going to stay in such a position until the 6th of December.

 

Once more, it looks like the Universe desires people to decelerate and mirror before they continue. Still, the good thing is that following this there is not going to be another retrograde planet until next year in March.

 

Although people will be working with the energy of the retrograde during November too, a sparkling occurrence which will be on the top and which carries positive energy in the lives of those people will also be present.

 

The event will occur on the 8th of November – the shift of Jupiter out of the sign of Scorpio into the sign of Sagittarius, which is its home constellation. These are excellent, beneficial news, and it is considered the most significant aspect of the following 12-month period.

 

During the period when the planet Jupiter moves in the sign of Sagittarius, people will feel communicative, plentiful, as well as enthusiastic and brilliant, and they will also feel optimistic.

 

A lot of tragedy existed worldwide, and there was also a lot of rigidity in politics; however, the planet Jupiter, being in the sign of Sagittarius, will be helpful in brightening the mood, as well as permitting people to notice some different ways of working together, instead of working against one another.

 

One day prior to shifting in the sign of Sagittarius, on the 7th of November, people can also see the New Moon, happening in Scorpio.

 

There is no intensity surrounding it, but, it will bring with itself more understanding, as well as more aspiration to everything that has been distributed on the Full Moon in the sign of Taurus of this month.

 

The New Moon will also call attention to and aid to enclose the problems which have been brought ahead at the time when the planet Jupiter has been in the sign of Scorpio.

 

Even though the things can reach a turning point during this period, there is a probability that this high point is going to lead the way to an aspiration, as well as to go ahead and discover forgiveness.

 

As a result of that, people will have the imposing alignment of the 11th of November. The numerological code of that day is going to be 111111. It is an exceptionally strong code which is going to be helpful in advancing spiritual awakenings, as well as unlocking the portals of the world of spirits.

 

On the 1st of November, people are also going to obtain a taste of the energy; however, on the November 11th, people will be in a state of intensified sensitivity, as well as consciousness, and innovation.

 

It is going to be an excellent time of manifesting, meditating, as well as connecting with the spirit mentors.

 

On the 23rd of November, we will also see the Full Moon in the sign of Gemini and on the 25th the Sun will meet the planet Jupiter.

 

Although there will be high cosmic energies and retrograde activity, the planet Jupiter is the real star of November, and people are going to feel the abundant, warm-hearted energy soothing their wounds, pains, as well as raising them higher.



 


God's Grace, Mercy, Peace, Love & Abundance Be Upon Your Lives
Lavonda`

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