The Feng Shui Gypsy

An Adult Picture Story Book by Sister Othelia on helpful tips for Dating, Intuition, Tarot and Life.
There has never been a better time to rename Valentines, “Self-Love Day”. It is a reminder to honor your journey, friendships, family members, and accomplishments, big and small. Whether alone with a favorite book or pet, or arranging a Self-Love Valentines Dinner, do it for you and to give meaning to your friend's lives. What Does Self-Love look like in Practice? @ Do your best to eliminate your inner critic. If you are always beating yourself up about smoking, dieting or exercising, reduce the internal nag and take action on your goals. @ Keep yourself flexible to change. Don’t alienate yourself and live in a bubble. @ Let go of failures. Hold your head high. Self-Love Attitude opens doors in love, friendship, and career. @ Take on your next personal goal as if rebooting a computer @ Follow your Intuition and embrace the people, places, and jobs you enjoy. You deserve to be happy! How will you Accomplish staying True to Yourself? @ Stop analyzing and procrastinating your opportunities for happiness. @ Stay true to your personal growth for joy @ On your terms first, live your life in the best way you are capable. @ See a professional Counselor if you sabotage your journey and want more for yourself. {Please, remember! Psychics can help you to define your next conversation with your Counselor} @ Say “Good Job!” to yourself without scoring your value by others compliments.
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In a world of gun violence, coldness and back stabbing there is something spiritual about going home to a botanical garden of Eden.  Ever since first on my own, I became mesmerized on entering the door of an artistic BoHo with windows of cascading house plants.  It was as if the person that resided within had a sort of magical power.  Like Harry Potter in which inanimate objects can communicate, I intuitively tuned in to a vibrational language going on among the plants. Imitation is the best flattery.  I wanted to learn and become a house plant alchemist. 

Soon I realized I had what it took.  Plant people like to give away cuttings from their plants to other plant people. Its like sharing home-baked bread.  In one town, from one plant, can thrive in apartments and houses many plant off spring. 

  I could pour all my Co Dependent nurturing in to my family of plants.  While my partner was hitting the bars, I was misting gigantic Coleas, tending long veils of Strawberry Begonia  with trails of piggy backing fuzzy little babies, directing long emerald-green heart-shaped vines of leaves called Philodendron, around my windows. 

The key to creating magic for the visitor of such a place, is balance.  Whether you add an occasional prism that casts rainbows on to the walls, between the plants, or a favorite glass trinket on a window ledge, peeking through in a brilliant sun-lit splash of color, putting an equal number of plants in equal heights, on both sides of a window, gives Zen.  Suddenly surrounding your environment is a sumptuous forest of Feng Shui plant order that will help you to think and strategize your own life. 

As one gets older, and becomes accustomed to the vibrational communication between house plants, it's fulfilling to see the look on the faces of visitors, who will walk slowly from window to window in my studio, observing in the same way I did, the "essence" and "alchemy" of mixing Art and Houseplants together.

Picture: My Sister Kate waving through my Studio Arch 2017

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As Psychics, most of us try very hard to give our clients the most meaningful, clear and honest perception of what comes through on their questions.  Whether we use a tool to reach our inner voice, or wing it alone, it's about reaching that special place of inner voice. How we deliver our message, is where you decide to return or not.

Two kinds of message styles, direct, or sugar coated. 

A Direct Reading tells you in a clear and direct way what comes through on your life, questions, and preferably, your direct reader knows how to say harsh truths in a soft way. Compare this to the friend who will tell you when you have sleep in your eye, or a dryer towel clinging to the butt of your jeans.

A Sugar Coated Reading is like visiting a Motivation Speaker.  Their emphasis is making you feel good about yourself.  This is a beautiful thing, until the promises do not come true.  When your down, they will pick you up. Compare this to the friend who always tells you what you want to hear.

No Reader can Promise Instant Gratification

The problem with Psychic Readings, is that some people see a reader as having a sort of Fairy God Mom ability to make things happen.  They can not make a hire happen quickly, they can not make someone love you or heal a dysfunctional family.  But they can calm you down, clear your head, give details and aid in making a plan to better your circumstance.  Of course you always have free will.

About time frames

Though time frames do come through in a reading, please remember, as in Einstein's theory of relativity, the past, present and future are all happening at the same time.  In other words, because time is an illusion, it is always approximate.

What else can a reading do?

A Reading can point you in the right direction, give you the pros and cons of your journey, relationship, career and in most cases, you will know immediately if what you are hearing is truth.  How? Because you know truth when you hear it, as it's based on things that have happened.  Truth is what you have experienced, and know to be accurate.  If you come back again, you had a great connection.  If you come back three times you have made a friend.

Sometimes readers make you mad!

When a reader becomes like a trusted friend, there will be times their honesty makes you mad.   When you call in a bad mood, knowing your trusted readers honesty is correct, chances are you would rather not hear it.  Remember! You are the one that came for a reading. Just like lashing out at a friend, patience is needed.  Before you write out a long revengeful review, wait at least a day and see how you feel.  Waiting one day before lashing out can bring an entirely different way of looking at things.


No two Psychics read exactly alike.  This is because each of us tunes in to spirit differently.  Add to this the many "niche" readers.  What is the same?  Message delivery: Sugar Coated or Direct Honesty.  Which do you prefer?
 photo chatdreamstime_m_63594012_zpsxkarj78c.jpg  Psychic Phone Reading, or Chat Reading, which is best for you?  The answer is easy.  If you have lots of questions, but limited time, choose a Phone Reading. Why?  The ability to hear and ask questions, quickly, does not rely on typing. Madly typing more questions, at the same time your Psychic is reading on the question you just asked, will not give you a good reading. Relax. Slow down. Here are tips for getting the very best chat reading possible.


  • Everything you ask me, and every question I read on, is in your history page for as long as you are a member of Keen. 
  • After Every Chat Reading, I send a copy of our exchange to your Keen mail.
  • And wait! If there is a question we are reading on, and time runs out, check your Keen mail.  Chances are I will have sent you the answer with your chat.


1} Start by just giving me your first name, and the first name of anyone you want your reading on. 

2} Keep your text chat questions direct and simple. 

3} Do not type while I am reading.  I will not see you as I am looking down at my cards. 

4}Instead of cramming as many questions as you can in a short time, go with the flow. 

5}Are you used to Computer Tarot Readings? The biggest difference between a flesh and blood psychic, and a cold, unfeeling computer download program, is speed. Give your living human psychic time to show you how we feel your energy better then a machine. Treat us with respect, and we will love you.


A phone reading shares breath, voice, energy and unlike a chat reading, you can hear "how" someone speaks to you.  Often in Chat Readings, CAPITALS can be interpreted as yelling, and humor can be interpreted as disrespect.  Not so a Phone Reading.

1} When getting a Phone Reading, it is often best to have a list of questions that you want to ask your reader.  This will prevent you from going in to "brain freeze" and forgetting.

2 Like a Chat Reading, give me as little information as possible.  I will always ask you to start a reading by giving me just your first name.

3} Please know if using a modern iPhone, by typing into your browser "call recorder"  a list of apps will come up with one perfect just for you.  You can now record your Keen phone readings. 

4} Choose a Phone Reading when you have many questions but limited amount of time.

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The purpose of asking a direct question is to receive a direct answer. Whether in love, life or a Psychic Reading, cut to the chase and get to the REAL issue bothering you. Remember! No one is judging you as much as you are of yourself. Hiding your true intentions, behind the image you want others to see, is false advertising. In a Psychic reading, it's a waste of your money. Spit it out! You have nothing to hide with us. We take your faults and imperfections as a breath of fresh air.


When a client is afraid to expose who they are, energetically, they create an iron bar fortress around themselves.  Most of the time these are the people who believe they are too difficult for psychics to read.  In truth, they don't want to be "read," any more than they want others to know who they are in daily life.


  • The single mom or dad in a new relationship, afraid to expose the fact they have children.  {When the new lover  realizes there are kids involved, they run.} THE REASON:  False Advertising
  • The new car owner in hopes others will see them as successful, can't pay their rent or pay for a date. {Their car gets towed away on a credit card cruise} VICTIM?  False Advertising
  • The person who hides their intentions of romance, by "acting" like a supportive friend. {When they expose their true feelings, and other distances, they feel misunderstood and used.}  REASON:  False Advertising.
  • The iron clad masterful macho man, who flirts with women, but wants a boyfriend. {Can't find love and confuses every one}REASON:   False Advertising

Ever notice how popular people get attention by telling it like it is?  People love people who talk about the bad things THEY themselves go through.  It gives license to not be perfect.  Body image, finances, embarrassing moments are refreshing.


It is frustrating when a client is hesitant to be truthful, and their aura of iron bars comes up.  A reading can take a confusing essence as mixed messages and two images come through at once.  To cut through the "stuff," it may take longer for an iron bar aura client.  As long as Client is patient, a great reading can still happen as their authentic self is tuned in to.  Here are some questions to make the reading easier.

1} Will one of the job applications I have applied for, hire me?  I am especially interested in the company _______.  What was their perception of me?

2}The inheritance my father left the family in his death, is creating disputes with my bothers and sisters.  Will this be resolved?

3} How does _______ feel about me?  What are his intentions for me?

4} The number address of the house I want to buy is "529".  Will the seller and I agree on a price? What is the house energy like?

5} How does my boss feel about me as an employee?  What does he need more from me to get a raise or promotion?

6} Will my dog, "Soldier" be alright as I go on vacation?

7} Will the move to the state of ___________,  bring positive change in to my life? In what ways?

8}My name is_______. I need an emotional tune up.  Just tell me what comes through around me.

Whether in daily living or with a Psychic Adviser, being honest and up front takes courage, but saves on time, grief, money and yes, you will be loved even more for your imperfections.

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She remembered the year she cultivated a family of Psychic Sisters and Brothers.  With a warm cup of coffee in hand, she began to seek a kind faceless voice who would not recognize her on the streets.  She liked the safe boundaries of these Psychic friendships. Sometimes she would talk about her career, other days her love life, family and frustrations.  On occasion, with a glass of wine, she would just chit-chat and ask questions.  In time her Psychic Friends knew her story well.


She grew up with the people that she loved and trusted most, turning evil and hurting her.  She cried a lot. Inner despair attracted cruel lovers.  When the first nice man came in to her life, instead of seeing him as a blessing, her personality changed.  She raged, she criticized, she screamed, and saw his sensitivity as weakness.  All of her life she had wanted a man just like him.  From the day he ran out the door, hating her, she hit the psychic lines.  She made many psychic friends.  As long as she did not call the same one too often, they remained accuratly correct.


When psychics become coffee brothers and sisters, it's a beautiful thing.  The danger of calling a psychic too often is knowing too much about a clients personal day-to-day life, a reader becomes saturated with "too much information."   In most cases, a client hires a psychic to get an unbiased reading on their romance, life or career, to explain the  "whys" and "what nows" without bias.  This way a client gets the "real picture" despite their emotional attachment to the subject.  The risk of calling the same psychic too often in one week, like your family and friends, is they don't want to hurt you. It's natural for friends to not want to hurt friends.  This may actually change the accuracy of a reading.


Therefore having two or three favorite psychic friends, is a good way for consistent accuracy by not visiting the same one too often.  Boundaries of distance keep things fresh.  Give as little information as possible before the reading.  Save your story details for afterwards.  This allows an Intuitive Worker to shine their best.


It is important for clients to know that calling a psychic is not like having a fairy god-  mother. They can not make a lover return, create a job offer or make depression disappear. No percentage of accuracy is going to change a clients life or financial situation. Your Psychic, along with reading on your questions, should be able to offer suggestions and, if allowed to be honest. it is important a reader be compassionately firm that they are not a replacement for mental health therapy or counseling.

When a Psychic gives a sugar-coated reading during a clients despair, it may feel good for them at the time, but cause a good person to hang on to a bad situation.  The client always has free will.  In the long run, the psychic who gives flowery readings too good to be true, will be the Psychic who is condemned if the seeker makes a fool of themselves, self-destructs, begins to stalk or commits suicide.

A Favorite Honest Reader, and a Favorite Professional Counselor, is a Beautiful Thing!  A reader can bring forth "topics" they see in their client, to take with them to their next professional counseling session.  Professional Talk Therapy may take months and even years to bring forth information seen in a reading. From a pivotal moment of truth, a professional mental health counselor can begin the process of true healing.
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From this day on, the Total Eclipse of 2017 will be a book-marker in your life.  In itself, there will not be apocalypse. Choose this event as a "before" and "after."  Use it as a book marker to change your life path for the better. The choice is yours.  What is your greatest vision for yourself?  Let the Great Solar Eclipse of 2017 be a transition point for personal change.

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For all the blessings I have in my life, I have come to find my worst disasters helped me to stay cool in the face of tragedy.  The time alone and abandoned in a bad marriage, years I worked in a packing house as a single Mom to raise a child, and I won't lie, being with bad boys with all the same first name, {who even looked alike!} Times I sat on a bar stool beneath an oven vent, smoking in despair, until I realized no love was better then bad love; or at least until I learned to move on from my own cookie cutter addictions.

Through the Desire for Change

Its through the desire for change, and to believe that I must survive, one day something popped.  And I mean this.  It was as if the bubble of self inflicted alone, disappeared, and blessings poured in.  I was free, my fear of getting too close to other women friends, became relaxed, and I no longer analyzed everything to death.  I no longer looked for the cracks in life.  I embraced less is more.  And more actually began to happen on its own!  More analyzing, more self protection, more over pleasing had become so ingrained in me, I forgot to catch my breath. 

Gardens, three published books, my studio, Intuitive work, a new marriage, and becoming an Animal Rescuer, I redeem my past slaughter house work. Blessings flowed in. I never saw them coming!  But I will not forget how to embrace disaster.

Tough Times Enrich Our Lives

I feel enriched with the tough times I have seen in my life, knowing that eventually, the tide changes.  Disaster has enriched my ability to read without judgment, as I have seen just about every up and down that life has to give.  There will always be Ass Holes, and there will always be Angels.  Challenges are like little karma points.  In the process how we adapt, is our choice alone.

We Are All On a Life Path

As an Intuitive Light Worker, I realize that my life path came in tides of struggle. Every rough time was a lesson to learn from, to share as a life teacher, to give insight with compassion.  I have learned when to take my bitch pill. For all of us this is true.  May you learn from your pain, embrace the struggle, move on, and grow personally.  May you be free.



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Have you noticed in the depths of the blank Smart TV screen, a reflection?
Depending on how you avert your eyes, or gaze in to the screen, much like a 3-D Computer poster, you will see different angles of your surroundings, especially if a window is close by.  You will see the neighbors next door gardening, observe the wind in the trees and who is walking down the street.  Creatively, these reflections are the fuel of Tarot Channeling, Artists, Writers, and when the world of vision opens.


In the children's book "Alice in Wonderland," a little girl watching the world of reflections,  jumps through her mirror, and runs down a path chasing a rabbit.  Seeing ones own world reflected in the blank TV screen, like a mirror, has caused some to run to the store for paint cans or move furniture around. The screen will not lie and reflects back what you have been ignoring or were not aware of.  It happens when you are in a relaxed state of mind.


The minute the 36" +  Smart Screen snaps on, you are no longer in charge of your own emotions.  Everything you watch on the live screen, is created from anothers perspective, projected as your own.  The stereophonic audio, so much a source of  companionship, can become the source of fears and tears.  This can be especially dangerous for those in advisory or counseling jobs. 

The Blank Screen is your source for neutrality, self realization and rest from a hectic day.  It is also the way most Tarot Channels read their cards, as they tell what they see on the emotions, actions and events concerning their clients.   Neutrality, like the blank TV screen, is the catalyst for inspiration, truth and inner purity. Choose the art on your cards, wisely, as you would choose a show on the live screen.

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If you have ever watched a good psychic read, there is a sort of head tilt, where the readers eyes close, or look up to the side, as they listen to their clients question.  This is "Psychic listening," where the reader is processing what they hear within, as well as in the voice tone, words and energy of the seeker. Rarely does a good psychic blurt with out processing first.  A Psychiatry session is much different then a Psychic Reading although both depend on listening.  A Therapist, listens, more than speaks, and asks questions of the client. It is part of the traditional patient/Dr method for emotional healing.  A private Psychic session, usually, is when the client asks questions of the Psychic reader, who gives their intuitive "feel" on the subject.   In most cases, it is the reader that does the majority of the talking and the client listens.

5 Basic Rules For Psychic Listening

1} Value the Client Relationship.  Truly want to Listen. In the vocal tone lives an entire story.  You will not hear it, or feel any energy but your own, if illness, worry or a bad day obsess you.  Discipline yourself to listen.  Your seeker chose you over other readers.  Honor this. Schedule times to read when you are at your best with the world.

2} When the reading session begins, don't try to respond until the client has finished talking. Don't blurt or hurry them.  Refrain from pushing them to ask their question.  When they ask a question, repeat it by asking,  "Is the question you are asking ________? "   If need be, help your client to word their question. Repeating the question they ask you, confirms you have listened, and understand what they want from you.

3} Each client, and reader, has their own unique style.  By truly listening, and not judging an unfamiliar culture, style  or accent, you are free to communicate effectively in a rewarding and friendly conversation and reading. 

4} It is easy to get lost in one's professionalism, and forget how to be  human and friendly.  Your client will return if you learn to relax with them.  On the other hand, it is  important with some professional career clients, seeking a reading, to allow them to point out your flaws and tell you that you are wrong. Just listen. Don't get angry. It is likely this is their way to save their ego.  They seek "upper hand".

5} Really listen to the tone of your clients voice.  In it lies the energy of their spiritual life story.  Acknowledge you are hearing them with small responses.  Don't analyze.  Just listen.  You will be able to read better, know the emotional flow of your client, and when to wind your reading down.  All of these suggestions can be used by both client and reader, as well as in our every day lives with loved ones.

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  In the garden, alone, like Rosary Beads in the hands, we can offer prayer one weed-pull at a time, manifesting our intent for world change.  If  a congregation gives strength, garden with others.  If physical acts of humanity validate one's presence before God, offer to care for the gardens of the elderly or hospitalized.

There is no better place to teach children of compassion then the garden. The importance of right conditions, through sunshine, rain, planting seeds, watering and nurturing gives meaning to our own life journey.   Casual, inspirational conversation on life and death is as instructive as a Sunday School class.

 And what of drought, flood or tornadoes? We learn to let go.  We see the ancient spiritual journey of man and his intellectual ability to choose alternative methods to grow and mature seeds.  Through solar and incandescent lighting, green houses, we can start new food, flowers, trees and herbs. We learn that less is not always bad and how the importance of good timing, can bring a harvest in the future.

Through future planet exploration, Spiritual Gardening will endure.

GARDEN UNITY = A thread of one color, that playfully winds through the width and length of your property, yard or garden, gives rest and a focal point for the eyes.  Go crazy with color if you wish. This one thread of color, be it "white," "orange" "dark maroon", will unite the vegetables, flowers, herbs, and play space.  Your Spiritual Garden will have unity in this thin vein of same color, which acts as a prayer or intent of calm for your Spiritual Garden. 

Blessed with all shade? Hostas add unity, peeking from behind stones, mixed with other shade plants, popped by statuary.  Let Hostas give your shade garden calm and unity.

ARCHWAYS & GATES - If you were to read the energy of each part of your land, you would find wonderful stories being told by many voices.  In earth magic these voices of stones, water, air and land are called"Elementals".  All history resonates and vibrates in the land beneath our feet. Placing an Archway or gate between the areas of energy change, psychologically "introduces" us to a mind shift when we go from "Food"to "Flowers", to "Relaxing."   Feel the balance and unity of each energy change of your garden by consciously stepping into a new "Portal" through an Archway or gate..

PATHWAYS - Like life, our days are filled with intention and having a path that leads us from point A to B, and a place to sit down or rest after our journey, are what garden paths represent.  Pathways that drop off into a limbo of weeds, or stop at a border fence, frustrates and creates unsettled sadness.  Put a chair, bench or table  at the end of your path which gives a feeling of completion.

Whether you have a tiny garden, an acre plus, a church yard or apartment balcony, through Spiritual Gardening your mind will rest after a hectic day for contemplation, conversation, healing and contentment. Be one in the vibration of a new beginning and Spiritual Growth through your Garden.


Our Delta plane rises into the air. Two classy women strapped in seats beside me, smile, and we settle in with books and iPads for a two hour flight to Atlanta. Before this trip my husband said "Your going to yak up a storm with someone next to you the whole way, just like you do everywhere." "No...people don't seem to do that in Mid Air like old days." I answer. "Plane flight is different now." But here I am, two young grandmas with sweet smiles beside me, politely interested as our stewardess explains how to adjust the O2 masks, points to exits, requesting we check our pamphlets on how to hold our seat cushions next to our chest in case of a crash.

"Please give our three new stewardess aboard a nice round of applause" the pilot on the intercom says. "In other words, its every man for himself if we go down." I whisper to the middle woman next to me. She giggles then calls out to a passing attendant with a refreshment cart, "I'll take a Vodka!" and hands over her credit card. Outside seat gal says "And I'll take a Bloody Mary!" Introductions are made. We laugh. The middle woman explains she is visiting friends after the death of her husband. "Just what I would do if my husband died" I tell her. "WHAT?!" End seat grandma laughs, sipping on her Bloody Mary drink.

"And what do you do?" middle grandma asks the passenger next to her. "Well I am a Travel Consultant." We say "Ohhhhhhh...what a cool job." I giggle and say "And I'm a Psychic Consultant" The stewardess passing with a cart stops dead in her tracks and says over the engine drone, "WHAT?" Did you say your a Psychic Consultant?" "Yes," I laugh, and the women and stewardess say "" Next thing I know I am giving palm readings, then Tarot guidance, and stewardess are taking turns kneeling next to our seats to have quick readings.

Tarot in the sky is a new experience for me. During the next two hours I give love readings, career readings, and a spirit reading for the widow from her husband recently passed. Middle woman cries happy tears. End seat passenger hugs her. Romance readings for the pretty stewardesses make them happy and they nod over my accuracy. Watchful, over head, passing with a stern face, a blond with bright red lipstick brings order and discipline, overseeing the plane with hawk like alertness. Time flies by.

"I will never forget this as long as I live!" middle grandma says, hugs me and runs out of the plane as it lands and comes to a halt. "Thank You" the flight attendants call to me with poised calm. Delta Hawk woman with bright red lipstick stops me and says, "I'm a paranormal investigator. Look for me in the new TV Ghost investigator series coming out! Great to have you on board." "Wow," I call did so many of us end up in one flight?" "There are no accidents" middle grandma calls back, as she runs towards her gate in the Atlanta airport.
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When stuck, frustrated, bored or lonely, watch out for Impulse Choices.  They hit you with a sudden panic in the form of irrational behavior, binge eating, internet shopping, too much marketing or settling for less.  The result is the same.  You hate yourself in the end.  Especially when the weight piles on, the monthly credit card bill comes in, or realize trying to keep a business alive,  your marketing cost is far more than you have earned. Impulse choice is when you go back to an old dysfunctional relationship, simply because you were lonely.


Probably the most difficult task in life to learn is discipline.  Knowing the "Pause" is at times a life saver in making an impulsive choice that will lead to a huge regret, and is a powerful tool.

@ The pause means taking a walk, waiting until the next day to decide, refusing a high pressure sale until you have checked your finances, or learning how to say "No."

@ The Pause is thinking before blurting emotional words, refusing to embarass yourself or make an enemy with an angry reaction in a family, marriage or work setting.  As the great Mya Angelou said, "At times when expected to voice an opinion, I simply smile and look wisely into the eyes of the crowd.  It is amazing how everyone believes you are on their side.  Before I would have said the first thing that came to mind and made enemies."

@ The pause is learning to wait and see what tomorrow brings, before assuming that nothing will ever get better.


  There is a huge difference between procrastination, and the pause.  The pause works for those likely doers, that jump the gun, and often refuse to sit back.  A Procrastinator makes a life long ambition of putting things off.  For the procrastinator the pause is a way of life.

@ The Procrastinator puts off all things that become pressuring to them.  The closet that needs cleaning, the health that needs improvement, the dog that needs walking, the job that needs changing, the abusive relationship that needs leaving, are all unbearably pressuring choices to make. So they do nothing. Learning to just do, instead of avoid, creates miracles.

@ The Pause is for those that can not bear stagnation or emotional stress, and sabotage themselves by doing anything, other than nothing, making their situation even worse.  Learning to Pause saves the embarrassment of bad choices.

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Ready to be the life of the Party or with Co Workers? Begin with Palm Reading  on the way a person loves and leads. Get laughs and a chorus of amazement, {and yes some may get mad at what you see in their hand.} Remember! Palmistry is an ancient science thousands of years old based on specific hand characteristics.

 Cleopatra and Mark Anthony - Ancient Palm Readers

I love to think of Cleopatra reclining on her settee, gazing in to the palm of her suitors. What did she look for? Probably sensuality, vitality and passion. Its rumored Mark Anthony had the hands of his leaders analyzed for logic, intelligence and loyalty. Palm Reading, in itself, is not a Psychic Skill. It began as a science, like Hand Writing Analysis. The modern term for Palm Reading is “Hand Analysis”.


Analyze the chart above as you read your own palm. The following traits are basics of Palm Reading.  We will look for the four hand traits of a good lover.  When reading palms for a group of people, please remember diaper wipes, sanitation lotion or a nice pair of gloves will keep you from catching every cold in the room.


 The full pad beneath the thumb, {see diagram above} shows the amount of passion and romantic drive a person has. The rule goes that the more fleshy and full this part of the hand is, the more sensuality, passion and stamina they have. In the hand of a Co Worker this could also be the amount of stamina and drive they have on the job.


Spread the thumb as far apart from the other fingers as possible. The wider the thumb angles from the pointer finger, the more likely this person may "kiss and tell". A wide-angle between thumb and pointer finger shows this is usually a person that bares their soul, is easy to talk to, and loves to gossip. Unfortunately, this could also include someone who boasts about their bedroom adventures. After time, they learn from experience they need to keep their mouth shut. In the hand of a coworker the wide-angle thumb says NOT ONLY ARE THEY EASY TO TALK TO, but be cautious about what you say around them.


When the radius of the thumb/pointer finger is close to the pointer finger this shows hows a person that can keep secrets, is more private, and is better at listening to others then talking about themselves. For those that honor privacy in their relationship, especially in the dating stage, your secrets are likely safer with the owner of this hand trait. For Co Workers the closely held thumb friend is someone who can keep your private details to themselves.


This is the bump of good timing. Often a person with a large protruding thumb knuckle is very coordinated, an amazing dancer, actor or musician, as well as flows in the bed room. The warning about the large thumb knuckle person is they may have the characteristic of being a boaster, skilled at saying the right thing, at the right time, to get exactly what they want. In the hand of a lover who possesses the large thumb knuckle, {along with a wide angled thumb/pointer finger radius} …. you may risk dating a possible smooth talking player. In a Co Worker, you will be highly entertained and would do well to have them on your task force team promoting ideas!


Does the very top line, starting beneath the Pinkie, going across the palm, curve up towards the fingers? This is the mark of a sensitive lover, someone who enjoys cuddling and communicating about their feelings. In a co-worker's hand, a loyal friend.

THE STRAIGHT LOVE LINE: Does the top love line shoot straight across the hand without curving upwards at the end? This is someone who needs their independence, without being overly romantic or sentimental. In the hands of a coworker this may belong to a friend who has plans and goals, may love you but distances without reason. Their allegiance is to their independence and growth.


1}THE TALL THUMB: Hold your thumb next to your pointer finger. The rule of thumb is if it reaches the middle knuckle of your pointer finger, you are Presidential material. In a Co Worker this person is likely looked up to from others and finds themselves sliding into a manager or presidential positions.

THE MEDIUM THUMB: If the thumb reaches half way, between the bottom knuckle and middle knuckle, of your pointer finger, you are Vice President material. In a Co Worker this person makes a natural “connection person” between the boss and workers as assistant manager.

THE SHORT THUMB: If the thumb hits only the bottom base of the pointer finger, you are probably looking at a future entrepreneur who hates politics and work hierarchy. They do not want to get caught in the middle of cross fire, or take blame for others. They risk becoming invisible at work. However, based on their marketable skills, they may find more happiness, joy and success working for themselves.


These qualities are major personality traits of a leader. Check the fleshy mound above the “Venus Mound,” thumb side of hand. {See Diagram above} The more developed this mound is, the more “fight” they have. A less developed, or hollow in this area, shows a person who does not stand up for themselves enough.

{See Diagram Above] The more developed and full this area is, the more loyalty, strength and moral courage one has. Both the leader, and warriors, need these qualities if a smooth, well-functioning team is to exist.

 Please remember that the small details in the hand can add infinite detail, depth and reasoning to these main characteristics of the hand. Much like Tarot, palm reading for beginners, is just basics. With study and experience, you will amaze even skeptics.

 ABOUT ME Since a little girl hands have intrigued me. I loved to watch the long graceful hands of movie stars, the way artists touched their environment for inspiration, arching their fingers into a frame as they composed the next creative project. Wisdom and a rich story shimmer in every wrinkle and arthritic finger of the old, sometimes enhanced with aged silver bracelets and rings. Carpenters and gardeners, stained with varnish oils and berries, moved their hands with purpose, grasping on to their tools of trade as if an extra appendage of their body. In my twenties, I began palm reading in a tie-dyed wedding dress. As a grandmother now, with gardener hands, I love to amaze people with the in-depth personality detail I see in their hands.

When a skilled Actor or Writer creates without feeling stilted or forced, and goes within to calm, the critical voice disappears and flow of performance begins.  The audience becomes enraptured.  No one is aware of "self" as they share the artist's experience. When the channeling ends, it is like shaking oneself out of a time warp. 

What is Paranormal?  Paranormal is a phenomenon with unpredictable characteristics that may not  be explainable but is on the edge of being scientifically proven.

Are skilled artist’s one with Paranormal energy?  Can they become a vessel for a spirit to walk in to as they empty themselves of thought? Many artists believe so, and in the creation experience of becoming one with the full spectrum of their subject's emotions, are in a state of "channeling".  The Creative Process becomes addictive, profound, and at times, manic. Time and self disappear, as ones hands and body follow in the birthing of a painting, musical score, book or theater accomplishment.    

We can't understand why in a meditative calm the process of relaxing and letting go creates a feeling of tapping in to a higher source of knowledge.  "Letting go", emptying the mind of critical analyzing, going internally to a deep calm, creates amazing performance, spiritual highs, and audience oneness. Science can graph and diagram and measure this process, but can't explain what it is.

"Trying too hard" is equal to being amateur and impedes the process of excellence.  To become a Master, from a President to Artist to Intuitive Reader, one learns how to stop the self-critique voice of doubt.  The flow begins. True skill is an art of channeling the Paranormal Energy of "non thinking."...the point when spirit and wisdom step in.


Let it go.  To worry about how others percieve one's performance, creates self-doubt, a stumbling of words and actions, which sabotages creativity.  Many a gifted artist have self-destroyed for fear of being critiqued by the public..or their own fear of failure.  For others, as long as there is criticism they are still in the spot light and not invisible.  Like the weather, opinions change.  Relax, tap in to the Paranormal calm and go with the spiritual energy flow.
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