The Truth with SOUL

I hope you enjoy reading my blogs. I believe in keeping every real. I use Numerology The Tarot and my Psychic Insight to read for you and execute all readings with compassion and understanding
Why is it we often think things should all be to plan...We may have our days set to doing certain chores on certain days...Certain nights we eat certain dishes...Like Fish on Friday's or a roast for Sunday Lunch....This I feel is fine for everyday things to keep things in order...but when it comes to loving workable relationships do we necessarily have to put rules and regulations on each other to make something work...If you were to put a rule on someone that unless you can see me on a certain day that suits me then I don't want to see you...What does that reflect about you?...Don't you think it cool when you have nothing to do and then someone out of the blue picks you up and takes you somewhere...If you put all these conditions on people like...you didnt call by five o'clock so now I can't come...Or...II haven't heard from you most of the week so how dare you think I will drop everything today and go on a date....then chances are those special surprises that can create the best memories will likely be missed...Break the rules you have made for yourself...be spontaneous...I am not saying be wreckless...but learn how to live in the moment...Maybe you would like to do something for the weekend...but he hasn't suggested anything...Do you say to him if he hasn't contacted you to organise by mid week that you don't want to go...if he contacts you on Friday...More the fool you if you do...cos I know what I would do...I would give up and ask someone else.
In my almost 55 years of living almost 30 of them reading for people all over the globe on these type sites and face to face. I have asked this very question of fellow psychics as I have accumulated (XXXX) myself two of which i got back with 3x. Why I ask myself now would I put myself through a situation again that clearly didn't work out the first time. i believe the reason was...just like I feel it is with most of you...to grow and learn who I am...It really has little to do with the other person and your love for them...One question I ask my clients when they ask this question is to think about why you broke up, how major was that reason or all the little ones put together and most of all what is the likelihood of the same thing happening again. I am not saying getting back with an X will never work. I have known many that have returned and succeeded and been happier than the were the first or second....times, but there is usually a valid reason why they are your X. However much you think you still love them; they are still the person that for a moment in time, you did not want to be with... look at...fight with...share with... forgive... stop nagging... and if you are still the same person chances are of you being successful are not hopeful... A lot I have found; and hey I'm human too and have even said this myself... they expect that the relationship will work if the other person changes...Or if the other person apologizes for whatever we believe they should apologize for...Think about this for one moment...Have they always been a bit like the problem that split you up...Maybe it is in their nature and your nurture of the issue.. You talk about it...Think about it... Go to counselling about it...write in your diary about it...Even discussing it with your friends...I know...I have done the very same thing in the past, and all that happens is you keep whatever you want to change or fix very much the energy of your life. Don't expect an X has to change to make you feel better, when you get back together; and if he doesn't well you will say and do whatever you think may hurt him...like he's hurting you...try to get him to change his mind and see things your way...and conform to what you want...I know... Cos I too have been guilty of these things in my life time...I am human first and foremost....What I am saying here is change thyself...become the best you you can be... and love that person you have loved before unconditionally...that does not mean you will love what they do or that you will put up with them and be their doormat...If there are conditions put on a relationship then clearly you are not a match...No one else is responsible for our happiness but ourselves....and what another thinks about us us clearly not our business... And as I always say, often they aren't wanting to think about us because if we are their X...Why would they want to...That may be a bit of an Ouch!... but it is so true. Our thoughts are the only sacred and uninhibited senses, if we can call them that...that we have. Believe me often you may think it is your X coming back that will make everything in your world so much better...It won't unless you can accept everything about them...and they can accept everything about you.... Love yourself first...Put yourself first...Look after yourself first... and that way you will be the best you, you can be and more attractive to others and understand the X or the current should also be doing the same. From a fellow X pert on being an X and succeeding and making one of those relationships work...heal...and be totally happy in.
So many times I get calls from woman asking when their ex will return or at least give them a call...I am talking about the woman that breaks it off with the ex usually because he isn't quite doing what she wants him to.
Weeks or months later when he hasn't contacted you...Or he has and you have ignored him, or argued with him, about how disrespectful he is for not calling for so long. Then you start regretting what you did...He wasn't a bad guy, just a bit slow at giving you what you wanted in the timeframe that you had put on things....Guys often have a totally different schedule to when things of a romantic and commitment decision should be made... So if you want him to be into you and go through the motions from dating to marriage...which he won't usually comply to your schedule....then sit back and enjoy him in the moment...To pressure will always get you nowhere...If you really want to work on a relationship that you believe deserves saving....I can help you. I can't necessarily get your ex back or can I make your man do something that he doesn't want or is he ready to do...However I have found that the techniques used have reunited over 75 percent of my clients so far and the best thing is over 70% have actually stayed together...Usually because they choose not to make the same demands again.
Honestly if you want your ex to commit to you again...you owe it to yourself to give this a try....

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At the moment I have noticed that readings come at the end of many peoples budget allowance. I have taken this into account so I am offering an email reading for you for $15 saving you $20...Please contact me with your name DOB and questions and if asking about someone their name and DOB as well...I will also give free minutes if you are a 5-star rating. Our rating system has changed and now we are rated on the last year's ratings. I have noticed many of you don't rate so this means our ratings ratio drops and you may have noticed a lot of your favorite readers who are accurate look like their expertise have dropped this is not the case. So I do ask calls with me are rated. If you are not happy with what I have said I would rather you email me with your concerns before you rate of course... You rating also enables me to keep prices lower a i will show in the advertising pages more easily...Love and Light Jocelyn
My  sister  passed  away  back  in   June   2014 from  cancer  which  she  had  been  fighting for  4  years. A  couple  of  days  before  she  past  I  said  to  her  if  there  is  any  way  you  can  contact  me  from  the  other  side  please  do  so...She  had  laughed  at  the  time ( a  non  believing  laugh) like  I  was  just  fooling  around.  I  was  deadly  serious!
A month  after  her  passing  I  had  copied  and  pasted  all  of our  last  conversations  into  my  notes  on  my  iPhone and  emailed  them to myself  so  as   not  to  lose  these  precious  last  moments  we  had  chatted.  I  was  tempted  to  delete  her  number  but  I  didn't  and  I  phoned  it  a  couple  of  times  just  to  hear  her  voice.
It  was  September  before  anything  happened  at  the  time  another  issue  was  happening  in  my  life  and  I  was  not  in  the  happiest  of  spaces.  On  this  particular  day  I  had  just  ended  a  conversation  with  one  of  my  sons  and  I  went  to  my  messages  to  re-read  a  message  I  had  been  reading  before  the  phone  had  rang, interrupting me.  When  i  closed  out  of  the  message  there  it  was...My  sisters  name  a  message  in  my  inbox. I opened it and it was  empty and  I  wondered if  perhaps  someone  had  her phone  and  had  accidentally sent  it  to  me.
These  messages with nothing  in  them  have  continued  to  come  into  my  inbox  regularly...no words  but  certainly  at  a  time  when  I  am  either  talking  about  her...having  a  down  moment  or  needing  some  answers. Being  a  little  skeptical  myself  even  though  I  do  what  I  do (skepticism is healthy) I  phoned  telecom  to  check  my  sisters  number  and see when  it  had  been used  last...I  was told  that  it  had  not  been  used  since the  end of  May  2014  and the  person  I  spoke  to  said that  he  had  had  a  similar  incident  after  his  mother  passed. Her phone had been  disconnected  but  on  occasion  his  home  phone  would  ring  and on  his  caller  ID  it  would  say  Mum calling.
If  you  have  lost  someone  please  know  that  they  aren't  gone...they  are  just  on  another  vibration...Life  is  eternal.

You  can  contact  me  for  all  Numerology  readings ( the best way to have a reading on yourself or someone else) Your birth date is the bar-code to the soul after all  and  tells everything about you, including  your  karmic  lessons,  soul  connections  and  past  life  influences.
I  also  help  you  with  anxiety, understanding  self  and  getting  forward  in  life  using  EFT Tapping...A  great  technique  which  is  like  having  a  hypnotherapy  and  acupuncture  session  in  one.

Be  good  to  self...Smile  everyday and  remember  your  thoughts  create  your  future.  Without  thought actions aren't possible.




My expertise...and knowledge of the cards with a sample reading for free. Please email or post your question here and give me 36 hours to answer. It is important you give your first name and your question is clear. Just remember when asking what someone thinks of you, you are asking me to interfere in a very private matter....This may bite a little but I find if someone is thinking of you and are genuine you will know...It is really none of our business what a person thinks of us nor is it theirs what we think of them. Thoughts are the only things that can remain private and confidential so please don't ask me to pry. I have done this for people before and I don't like it. I also find unless they are thinking of you at the time...I am not going to get anything.
Is this you? You really do like him/her but you feel that they may not feel the same. You ask questions but don't ask the one that could well give you a definite answer. Or maybe this is you? You feel he has changed...Maybe he is venturing out more by himself/herself, instead of asking him/her in the most unaccusing way you could? You accuse him to find out you were wrong...The what happens?...Or you take the opportunity to check his/her phone...Or you scan his social media profile to see if he/she has added others that could be the issue, or how much of others posts is he/she liking or commenting on. Maybe this is you? He/She hasn't answered your text or call...You instantly go to the thought that you have upset them and when you see them you react...Or you text them and say something that shows you are not happy with them and still they do not reply or say something that is not what you want to hear? This could be you as well. You've been online chatting with them for awhile now...everything is going well. You are making plans to meet them and they either don't turn up or make an excuse...Your reaction could be one that keeps this going for another few months, trusting that they were genuinely busy. Come on really!... Make sure you don't let emotions take over before you have physically met...The thing is words can tinker with the heartstrings no matter who is writing them or speaking them. I have done some of these things myself in the past until I started to observe the other sex closely and learn in conjunction with my reading abilities to find ways to build a relationship in the best way I could. If you want me to take a look at your relationship I can tell you if any of your fears are warranted....Maybe they are having that affair you are believing them to be having...I can tell you either way. Or maybe they are just not that into you and don't know how to tell you I can look at that for you as well...So give me a call
EFT engages a process like super learning and can make one feel in balance with life after performing its technique. EFT helps re write your thought patterns whether it is to stop an addiction, attract money , stop anxiety or change the way you think about life . Eft works by clearing away the disturbances in your subconscious and conscious mind by adjusting 10 of the 14 meridian points that acupuncturists work on to balance whatever is going on to cause the affliction or way of thinking you have. The words used are those that a hypnotherapist would use to change a clients thinking. So think of EFT as a session with an acupuncturist and hypnotherapist combined. Over the next few weeks I will be recording some sessions for you to listen to. These recordings will cover a lot of the issues we encounter in life and will help balance your energy so that you can then attract what it is you want from life. The technique for EFT is to tap on 10 different points of the head hands and body while saying a statement or affirmation. This repetitive activity works on the meridians in the brain re programming thought patterns that you may have that maybe holding you back in life or keeping you hostage. Before I start posting these recordings for you I would like to ask you what type of things are happening in your life right now that you would like to get sorted. Maybe you have anxiety about an interview or an exam. Maybe you are trying to give up smoking and are suffering from withdrawal Or maybe you feel abandoned, disrespected or unloved. No matter what the issue there is a Tapping Session available for you I just would like to know which ones would be the most beneficial to you by listening to your needs. Email me or post here. I will send free minutes to you for your participation and International callers will get one free question
I don't know whether you have read my other Nature versus Nurture blog this explains what this is all about. Briefly I just really want to know if our star sign and day born numbers which is our physical and spiritual part influence have more influence on us and how we react to things than how we are raised or our life experience puts on us. In my last blog I mentioned that in all my years of reading as a Numerologist Tarot reader Astrologer or a Medium I still see the first three stronger than the last in the way of accuracy. I believe our nature that is us and is influenced by DNA where the planets were at the time of our birth has way more influence than if we were born to princes or paupers had all the privileges in the world or no education or opportunity at all ...My moon is in Scorpio which makes me emotionally secretive...I have a very volatile emotional side... and being a Gemini my talkative side can get very stingy if emotional lol...Coming from a middle class family did nothing to how I reacted. Thank goodness we have choice to how we react. Is it true though...Can we help how we see our world and react to it or is it just who we are. I know that something I have experienced with another can very often be relayed quite differently from our own subjective reality. Have you ever stopped to think what the other person is observing when you are acting the way you are? If you would be so kind to answer the below question either here or email it to me...I will send you some free minutes...All I want is the letter that represents your answer,(B) your star sign eg: Aries and day born number eg: 17th and if you like a write brief message to why you chose that answer. Oh and if you are Male or Female I will send you some free minutes so if you do put your blog answer here please email me and let me know you have done so I can send your minutes. All this information is for fun mainly and research for my book. It is also helpful to others that read how you would react in comparison to their own reactions. No answer is wrong or right. You have been dating and finally made it exclusive....The other person has been very attentive and you feel great!...Then not far along the exploration of this relationship communication slows down. Replies to texts are delayed for hours...They don't pick up the phone...What do you do? A: Keep trying and when they do answer give them an earful. B: Keep trying and when they answer say nothing about it. C: Ignore the fact and start talking to someone else. (If they don't want too talk they aren't worth your time D: Start assuming a whole lot of things that may or may not be true E: Send numerous amount of texts or emails and get more anxious F: Say nothing and just wait till they decide to talk again and still say nothing. or maybe you have a G write that down and please remember your Star Sign and day born number they are very important. Just remember there are o right or wrong answers there are only YOUR answers and they all matter....Blessings
I have always wondered since we are all unique how much of how we react to certain experiences comes from our nature and how much comes from our DNA bloodline, how we are raised and other influences. Nature being physical and Nurture being more soul or spiritual. As a numerologist and from what I have learned it is a belief that we choose this life and as law of attraction would say create our own reality. Numerologists also believe that things like the day we are born and our name vibration is also chosen prior to us entering our physical self. We are after all spiritual bodies having a physical experience. So i would like your help.... Below is a scenario I would like you to tell me how you would personally deal with this. You can either write it personally to me in an email and I will send you some free minutes...Or you can write it here which will be public for others to see and email me to say you have done that and you too will get free minutes...I ask that you start your answer with I am a eg: Gemini and my day born number is the 22nd and then put how you would react. Maybe what you say...What you would do...What you would hide...And what effect it would have on you. If I have an A.B. or C. scenario to choose from please choose eg: A and then put your birth star sign eg: February and day born number eg: 15th. And also in you are a male or a female...that does make a difference lol. The information you give me is strictly confidential it is to help all those that read it understand that although we may be in a relationship with another their view of the same experience can be so very different. How much of who we are is influenced by our sun sign...Physical self...Our day born number which is a part of the bar code to our soul and other aspects of our name...I will ask questions at some stage using the vibration of your name if you would like to participate please look out for new blogs but for now here is a scenario You have been in a relationship for 7 years and everything all of a sudden changes. is the dreaded seven year itch starting or is it something one r both of you have done, You are in love with the person but right now you are not liking them very much for how they have started to treat you. Your reactions at times make it better but at other times make it worse that you end up saying and doing all the wrong things....Hey just a minute!..... maybe you are the silent type that bottles it up and says nothing. I shouldnt assume you are like me lol....Or just maybe what I am saying prmpts a different remembrance...(anagram can remember) Maybe you are the one that are putting out the bad vibes...and maybe that is what you need to do...Whatever this sharing of self may just help someone understand something about themselves who knows. I want you to think about if this was you and your partner. maybe this actually happened. Write down you star sign and your day born number as explained above along with i am a woman or a man and then write about what you might have said that made it worse and how that affected the situation...Did you say some things contemplating a certain reaction and got the total opposite...and then of course what other feelings you had or actions you took. Also write something in regards to how your partner reacted as well. This will be interesting too because even though I am psychic and can talk to your grandma or husband whoever you have lost....I believe that in the time I have been reading for others and my knowledge of numerology and astrology that your birth numbers and that of the person you ask about in your reading tell more about you and why life is how it is for you than any loved one that has croaked...Source energy of who they have become is within all of everything including yourself....Its all in the stars and the numbers Start writing already.......
Universally after last year being one of change and endings we will find many things around the world will transition into the new...New ideas, New government policy, A new President, new inventions but we have to remember New does not necessarily mean positive and ideal for us. Where personally are you in your numerological vibration? How can you make 2017 work for you in the best way. You too like the vibration of the Universe may be in a number 1 vibration of new beginnings or maybe you are in a 5 year of challenge and change that having a reading would help you avoid those difficult patches a long the journey and could well prompt a different choice or decision...Or maybe you are in a 3 year the year where things are clearer to you...Relationships usually thrive and what you have been working hard to create often comes to fruition or has increased value and creative ideas flowing around it....Come have a reading with me and find out where you are on the scale of number vibration...I will also give you an email reading if you prefer..My special is $40 for a years worth of info that personally applies to you which you can print out.
Universally after last year being one of change and endings we will find many things around the world will transition into the new...New ideas, New government policy, A new President, new inventions but we have to remember New does not necessarily mean positive and ideal for us. Where personally are you in your numerological vibration? How can you make 2017 work for you in the best way. You too like the vibration of the Universe may be in a number 1 vibration of new beginnings or maybe you are in a 5 year of challenge and change that having a reading would help you avoid those difficult patches a long the journey and could well prompt a different choice or decision...Or maybe you are in a 3 year the year where things are clearer to you...Relationships usually thrive and what you have been working hard to create often comes to fruition or has increased value and creative ideas flowing around it....Come have a reading with me and find out where you are on the scale of number vibration...I will also give you an email reading if you prefer..My special is $40 for a years worth of info that personally applies to you which you can print out.
So many times I get calls from woman asking when their ex will return or at least give them a call...I am talking about the woman that breaks it off with the ex usually because he isn't quite doing what she wants him to.
Weeks or months later when he hasn't contacted you...Or he has and you have ignored him or argued with him about disrespect and how unloving he is...He stops trying and you wonder why this is...Does he still love you? You ask. You start regretting what you did...He wasn't a bad guy just a bit slow at giving you what you believed should be happening...Just not running on the same time frame where a lot of you believe that it should be dating then GF BF and then you get engaged with in so many months bla bla....Guys often have other schedules in regards to this....If this is you and you have these regrets or things are not going the way you would like in your relationship...I can help you. I can't necessarily get your ex back or can I make your man do something that he doesn't want or is he ready to do...However I have found that the techniques used have reunited over 75 percent of my clients so far and the best thing is they have actually stayed together never to make the same mistake again.
Honestly if you want your ex to commit to you again...or even if you want your current guy to commit to you you really need to speak to me and get the tips along with a reading that will give you better odds of this happening.

Give me a call you wont regret it

This would be the most asked question I get from woman that have recently met someone and maybe they have started dating...The next would be...Do you see us together in the future?
Regardless of what I see and what shows in regards to feelings and future for you and another, do you actually know what attracts the right man to you? And do you have the formula of how to keep him interested in you so that you have a chance of having a future.
I read a little differently to others because I don't just give you timing and what I see for you I also see where the hurdles could happen, what they are and how to overcome them and win...I am here for you a lot of the time and you can always email me. Email readings are just as good as phone and chat ones, sometimes you will find they give you more because you haven't the time factor interrupting.
Learn how to keep your man interested in you...and whether the one you are with is the one you could do that with...Or understand your breakup to the point that it may reoccur in the future better than ever...Always remember you always have choice...Make yours worth it
This would be the most asked question I get from woman that have recently met someone and maybe they have started dating...The next would be...Do you see us together in the future?
Regardless of what I see and what shows in regards to feelings and future for you and another, do you actually know what attracts the right man to you? And do you have the formula of how to keep him interested in you so that you have a chance of having a future.
I read a little differently to others because I don't just give you timing and what I see for you I also see where the hurdles could happen, what they are and how to overcome them and win...I am here for you a lot of the time and you can always email me. Email readings are just as good as phone and chat ones, sometimes you will find they give you more because you haven't the time factor interrupting.
Learn how to keep your man interested in you...and whether the one you are with is the one you could do that with...Or understand your breakup to the point that it may reoccur in the future better than ever...Always remember you always have choice...Make yours worth it
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