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The number one way to stay authentic to yourself is to slow down and don't be pushed beyond your peace of mind.
Keep moving throughout the relationship in a slower motion.
One problem at a time. One feeling at a time and One pleasure at a time.
You are not a caretaker in the relationship but ONE of the participants. You can be loving and kind without allowing yourself to be abused and used up by someone else. As I learned myself the other day, Not all the things people ask of us are legitimate.
We have to know there is no rush to force our insights. Do not be angry if you are bamboozled. You were probably looking out for them more than you. That is when you should use tenderness towards yourself.
It is your right and in your ability to put value on yourself above the others you love who surround you. It does not discount your love for them whatsoever. It shows you trust them more.
You need not feel guilty about not being responsible for others either. That is the trap.
There is a time for limits and boundaries. If we have no limits we are in trouble and it is important we value ourselves and stop discounting the red flags.
Claim your needs. You know when you need a hug. Don't act as you don't need nurtured by your partner or your family. Allowing the love in lets your highest self come out to play. You can tell because you lose track of time and you feel calm and genuine.
Stop tolerating too much from others. This makes you feel you need to stop tolerating anything and you end up lashing out and get into that guilt loop again. You need not wait around forever so they meet your needs.
Do not demand people to change. If they don't work for you the way they are, let them be. You do not even have the ability to change anyone but you in the first place. This is the biggest waste of energy in relationships. Being alone is not as bad as being strung along in an indefinite question of "when".
CLEAR THINKING~
Accept that you have the ability to problem solve. You know if the relationship feels authentic and good. You know when the love is returned. If denial sneaks in or doubt... take some time to listen to your feelings. They are your internal thermometer. They are your highest self telling you if you are going with yourself or against yourself. Everyone of our feelings are okay and we don't need to subdue them. Sometimes to survive a situation of heartbreak we turn our feelings off. Do not forget to turn them back on again and LIVE!
Health issues come from forgetting to turn things back on. If you find yourself here then give SELF LOVE first and foremost. This empowerment allows us to have the strength to deal with everyone. You will find that you are the key to love...not a partner. If you love you, then others will follow suit. Be good to yourself! Self CARE is authentic! When you are authentic you leave room for others to show up authentic as well!
VELVET HARMONY
Love is the frequency that emanates.

You do not lose by loving.

It heals. It grows another heart. It shares.

It doesn't take away from you to love.

When you feel like it has, look again.

Some things just fill you.

We feel either good or bad.

When we feel good, we say "I love this!"

If you want people to love you,

send your love to them.

If you want a job you love, love your job.

If you want it, DO IT NOW!

Do not wait or delay.

That sends the message that you are NOT

wanting it at all. The universe will

align you with those who love you as soon as

you love yourself. How do you love yourself?

Appreciation and Recognition of your worth...

You are at this minute worthy of love.

You need not wait for an event to occur.

You must only send your doubtless love.

You must have faith in you heart that others

are worthy as well. Even if they present to you

that it is a waste of your time.

People crave love, and go where the love is.

People do not gravitate towards anything that

feels bad. They will come to you if you send

them that wonderful feeling..even if you do or

say something they don't like...love wins.

Love yourself and then love others..see how it

changes your world immediately!
 
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There is something growing in your life!

This is the time for honoring your true spirit!

We feel gratitude, then we Share. We Reconnect.

We Honor each others Spirits. We spread Joy.

We feel Love Sparkling around each other.

It is Warm and Electric. We spread it through touch.

We spread it through tone, and soothing words.

This is the Energy that Manifests our Desires.

These are the things to think of to Gain Abundance.

Reach out with your heart and mind,

 and order your true hearts Desires.

Feel now, How you want that relationship to feel...

Relish in that feeling. Let it emanate from Your Self

Dive in to where it takes you. Own the Dream.

Then Believe.

That's a must.

 Your "ya, but's" have been great so far

in driving away your dreams

Give your Self a gift this holiday.

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

This gift of Self- Empowerment.

Self-Love, Self- Assurance,

Aligns Your Self

.....and see what happens next

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Crystal Grids are an amazing way to feel uplifted.
You start with a center stone.
You surround it with either battery stones(amplify)
 like the quartz shown here,
or stones that help direct your intent(compliment)
Start in the center and then you make a pattern
 surrounding it going outward.
(found in a nature or geometry)
You can also do a grid to bring something towards you...
A good center stone for love is Rose Quartz..
There are stones for repelling something
 from your center stone as well like Tigers eye..
You can make and change these patterns to suit your needs.
Any questions on Crystal Grids feel free to ask.
I also am fond of adding flowers, shells and feathers
 into my grids because I feel they also amplify!
If you feel you don't have enough stones for a grid
...using a cluster of stones is effective as well.
Blessings And Enjoy!


To see clearly, you need to step away from judgment.
You must disallow muddy thoughts to float into your mind.
You have to release yourself into the collective consciousness.
Observe what goes on around you, without interacting.
Notice what you are drawn to.
Go down the staircase of your body..
As you move down the spiral stairs,
At each level in the middle you notice a crystal.
The first crystal is RED, like fire.
You reach out and push it making it spin, and hum.
You keep going,
The next crystal you come to is bright ORANGE.
You reach out and spin this one,
Matching the RED crystal's speed.
Further down the staircase is a glowing YELLOW crystal.
You smile, knowing just what to do.
With the YELLOW spinning now you descend and see
A GREEN radiant crystal, and give it a push.
Moving downward Is an ice BLUE crystal..
And finally you get to the Violet one,
Which you set in motion to match
the hum and speed of all the others.
You get to the bottom of the staircase.
You gaze up the center, captivated by the rainbow.
Your body sways and hums along.
You feel past your body...
You step into the center of the Violet glow,
and are pulled quickly through to the top.
You sit down and put your hands on the ground for balance.
The euphoria starts to wear off.
You have aligned yourself.
You look around with a deeper sense of connectedness.
You are calmer, yet more awake.
Certain things begin to stand out.
You are able to see more clearly.
You notice the colors of the energy others wear.
You notice how certain colors blend.
And the people act nicely.
You see how some, that look great alone, clash.
And these people push away from each other.
You begin to see what color you wear.
You now have the ability to change your color,
to compliment who you are around.
Or the ability to keep someone away...
You find yourself in a bubble of color.
Change the colors.
Feel each ones purpose.
Be clear and receptive to the changes around you.
Notice the true energies around you.
Energy is Life. To change your life change your energy.
Velvet
We are all. intricate souls. We bloom and ebb away.

We are all different colors, with different patterns.

We all grow when the sun shines on us,

 and need protection from the elements.

We become torn through time, and through others who pass by.

When picked, we are the center of attention.

If our beautiful petals wither and fall, sometimes we are thrown away.

We leave seeds behind us growing new flowers, our legacy.

Beautiful flowers cover the Earth.

Our roots intertwining, weaving on through the obstacles.

We make a pulsing energy web of life.

It is smooth and yet bright.

We are connected to everyone and everything.

No type of flower is more beautiful or important than another.

Flowers do not think of such things.

Flowers live, sometimes thanklessly.

Flowers thrive on energy from the sun, as we do on our parents.

Flowers seed when pollinated, and become parents

Flowers are as inspiring as each person you know.

Look for the flower inside everyone. Really see what is there.

Enjoy their true energy as you share your own.

This doubtless sharing is called perfect love and perfect trust.

Allow this good energy to infect your cells and grow in your being.

Share it and make your legacy!

CHAT

WITH

Velvet Harmony 
                      
What you are feeling right now,
 
 is what you are attracting more of in the future.

Your emotions are a guidance system of what is to come.

If you feel bad. STOP and shift your energies.

Decide to see whatever it is that you want in you life already there!

How does it feel to have that relationship right now?

That job that you wanted, how does it feel to work there?

Really see it and think about it all day.

Do not allow in any negative thoughts.

Do not think about the ex.

Do not allow yourself to have DOUBTS.

If you find yourself thinking about that..simply skip past it.

Refocus on feeling good.  If you feel good, you will attract the good.

Ask, Answer, Receive.

Feel Gratitude for what is coming.

The way you feel is everything. You are one with your thoughts.

What will help you have the feelings of having it now?

This will attract it. Then focus on your impulses, follow them.

Don't delay, Don't second guess....ACT NOW
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I am Velvet Harmony. A far seeing Energy Empath and Dream Reader. I am also have the ability to see auras, and sense other world entities around you and your home.


I have always had the ability to walk into a room and see and feel how each persons energy is relating to everyone around them. I can see aura colors and disturbance patterns from afar. I can read from voice tones and verbage what energies are being drawn in or sent out. I also have the ability to teach you how to change your colors and center your chakras. I can tap in to those around you and show you how they really feel, and how that guides what they are going to do. I can feel your energies from across the planet because we are all connected.


Another passion of mine is DREAM INTERPRETATION. I can explain why certain symbols come up. I can help with Astral Traveling Dreams and aid in how to do it yourself, so you can fix your current life. I can explain your nightmares and why the ex lover keeps returning to your dreams.


Other World Entities: Are they in your home? Do they need released or are they guarding your property? Do you or your children speak to them. Have you found dropped change? Have your keys been moved? What can you do to clean your home or self?


I am quick and to the point, no nonsense. I listen to my guides and follow my intuition. Some tools I have used: pendulum, crystals, crystal balls, mirrors, dream, catchers, tarot, palmistry, and hands on energy work.




Out of this universe,
 Our nine planets,
 Our two hundred and four countries,
Our eight hundred and nine islands,
And our seven seas,
Love is what connects our lives.
When you catch yourself smiling for no reason,
When you cuddle to sleep in their arms,
and wake up in their dreams,
You feel it.
Love is the feeling that causes your soul,
to crawl out of it's hiding place.
It makes you feel like you belong.
It makes your heart race,
and your stomach feel like butterflies.
Sometimes who we fall in love with,
Is beyond our control.
We cherish loyalty and honesty,
from our lover above most others.
We feel we can let go and act silly.
And even when our lover breaks our heart,
We find ourselves loving them still,
With all the little pieces .
We still feel the connection.
It is seen in Our eyes.
Even when we move past our love,
We don't forget.
That feeling is searched for again.
Sometimes, It is like remembering someone,
That we never really knew.
You cannot start a new love,
If you keep reliving the last one.
It is a hard picture to take down off our wall.
We desire the feeling of love, above all else.
It is out there for every soul on this planet.
Everyone is desiring of it.
Everyone is deserving of it.
Everyone will find it as well.
Please Chat with me today,
So I can help you on your way,
To finding the one,
Who you Belong with!


When you meet someone they present a persona to

you, based on their evaluation of you and what

similarities you have. They do not do this on purpose

to be deceitful. Yet, everyone..yes everyone does it.

We show what is the same to gain acceptance.

Have you ever been with someone, or a friend to

someone, and they "change"...or their TRUE

COLORS come out and you feel you are finally seeing

who they are? This is enlightenment..you have moved

past the mask...they actually have accepted you in

reality at this point. They feel that you will accept

their differences instead of loving yourself in them. 

At this point in a relationship/friendship...we

sometimes feel deceived. Quite the opposite has in

fact taken place. We do not feel the need to look

perfect, and feel on our best behavior anymore.

6 months is the magic number for this situation.

It takes that long for someone to be at ease and get

really REAL. Some will deny this. That's fine. Watch

and believe your own truths. I have seen this again

and again myself, so it is one of mine.

Once the masks come off, we reevaluate the

relationship..not all marshmallows and roses. These

habits that are annoying us now, will stand out.

The aloofness that shows at this point, we don't

understand where it came from. We find ourselves

chasing down the same attention that use to be

lavished on us without us having to ask. We ask

WHY? Where did this nice person we know go?  The

answer to that is..nowhere. They are still around and

they feel comfortable in the relationship to be real

and let go. They are not trying to walk on eggshells

forever. We are not perfect ourselves. Why would we

deny someone just because they didn't act

"perfect"(or a certain way to us..that we like) towards

us anymore?...Ah, but we do, and we will. We use this

6 months to put in the time. We establish ourselves,

so once we are KNOWN, we will be remembered as

being good enough to be still accepted.

To love is to be free to BE. If we restrict ourselves to

fit in someone elses ideals of us, we deny love to a

part of ourselves. When we realize we have been

doing this...We throw that restriction off of ourselves,

or drop our mask.... We carry layers of them. One for

an interview...One for family occasions...ect

We even develop tones that are not aligned with our

regular speech. Ever hear someones voice get higher

and more bubbly? How about a new accent? You

even hear it in yourself..when you start repeating

"cool slang" that you decided to repeat within certain

groups. Teenagers are a great magpie example.

Adults will adopt this as well.  This is all our

subconscious aligning us with the people around us

to fit in. We NEED others. We have seen humans

who have not been accepted, and how it has

absolutely wrecked their lives. Before you go saying

where did the man I know go, this isn't the guy I

married..or My friend is a two-faced...Remember..."If

you knew your potential to feel good, you would ask

no one to be different so that you can feel good."

Some of the best times to clean out~  rejuvenate and feel refreshed
Is to go outside.
Be in the bright light.
Play in the sun.
Let that joy take over the way you are feeling!
Don't get tied down to what is expected of you.
If you push against the flow of it you may find yourself getting turned around...
Lost on some backwards unexpected journey that will lead back around...
To somewhere familiar again...but time wasted..
Instead RELEASE yourself to the flow and LET IT BE.
Let things unfold and enjoy the small things.
Reflect
Renew
Recharge your energy!!!

carnelian palm stones
Carnelian is Crystal Caffeine.
Right now this week is WORK time.
New beginnings are happening today :)
Carnelian is a stone I chose to talk about now because it has the properties to be an Energy Muse.
It can pull your thoughts out of the same old routine and bring a new invigorating ideas to you!
You will find yourself ready for work mode.
Ready to get to the meat of things.
It is a BOOSTER stone.
They are not expensive.They are so beautiful too!

 It puts you into overdrive, giving you the push you need to get things done and manifest your dreams.
 It is the Sacral Chakra Stone.
 It activates your sexual passion
 and your creative force.
It drives your courage and enthusiasm!
This week is the week to get the work done.
We will be needing to give this hard push
for the best harvest coming to Us To Become.
So We Just need to DO IT right now.
Don't be too much in your head right now.
You will see the beauty of your hard work soon...
In about two weeks from now actually...
Things are starting to fall away that won't serve us too right now. Sometimes it is hard to let go
 of the beauty it once gave us...but
 It is time to take it all in and relax in knowing nothing is lost but only changed forms in our lives.
The effort we feel inspired to put in now is for the greater good of our higher selves!
It is WORTH IT right now to remain invigorated....inspired to keep chugging along because WE are worth improving and elevating.
 Each of us!
BRIGHT BLESSINGS~VELVET
COME TOGETHER AND USE YOUR HIGHER UNDERSTANDING TODAY.....STAY EMPOWERED! A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE EMPOWERED RIGHT NOW~ ~ Stay COOLED OFF today~and LOOK at the NATURE..BREATHE IN THE CRISP AIR... DO NOT LET FEAR RUN YOUR LIFE~ FEAR= FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL~USE YOUR PASSION TODAY TO MOVE FORWARD~ WE ARE ALL HEALING http://66.media.tumblr.com/2ac4c9073a0b8d27c00cc01898ccdf54/tumblr_o7u7u9Hwjg1tylr0uo1_1280.gif~VELVET HARMONY~ HERE WHEN YOU NEED THE TRUTH
When We travel down our many paths,
We run into different souls.
We look all around for the "right ones"
We notice all of the different roads available.
Some say they take the high road.
Some say they have fallen to the low road.
There are decisions to make,
when we reach a fork in the road.
There are bridges across obstacles
to guide us along on our road.
WE ARE THE ROAD
We leave behind our footprints.
Be they fruit in a garden or trash along the stream
We have decisions to make and feelings to feel.
We drink in nature and lovers the same.
They nourish us and we become pieces of them.
What a great marvel we are.
Hold yourself up to your path..reflected is YOU.
Enjoy sitting in the garden of your thoughts
and be at peace.


It feels so amazing at first
They love on you and spend lots of time doting on you
They are invigorated with passion
They always are communicating
Always thinking of you

Then everything stops
Communication, Laughter, Time together
They are "busy" and have other things instead
They don't seem to care anymore
They decide that you are no longer relevant
They have the heart of a cold fish.
REMEMBER YOUR WORTH AT THIS TIME
Remember they are showing you their true self.
Believe them that they indeed are cold.
When they decide the grass is not greener
REMEMBER THE COLD...
You fell in love with the fire in them.
That season has passed and they
are reflecting how they truly feel.
REMEMBER YOUR WORTH
Hold your head up and move back towards another fire
You don't have to stand under their icicles
Until you get stabbed by their falling words
Don't be hurt because that's all they can be
YOU CAN BE AND HAVE MORE
THAN THEY EVER CAN!

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