{"id":6173,"date":"2020-02-13T23:29:15","date_gmt":"2020-02-13T23:29:15","guid":{"rendered":"\/articles\/?p=6173"},"modified":"2021-05-24T19:58:21","modified_gmt":"2021-05-24T19:58:21","slug":"looking-for-love-pat58","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordpress.keen.com\/articles\/love\/looking-for-love-pat58","title":{"rendered":"Looking for Love? (Column: Create Your Fate with Pat58)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.keen.com\/psychic-mediums\/pat58\/11349731?category=0&amp;gid=0&amp;pmode=0&amp;flmode=call&amp;pageid=26\">by Pat58 (Psychic Medium on Keen)<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is there anyone out there who is looking for love?&nbsp; If you\u2019re wondering how you can find love, I have a possible answer.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;Love begins with you and having the mindset that love is within your grasp.&nbsp; In other words, you can manifest love through your own behavior and attitude.&nbsp; Love is in our relationships with others, with God and within ourselves.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Setting Goals<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We must make our quest for love a goal.&nbsp; Goals give us direction in our lives.&nbsp; The first goal is we have to start by loving ourselves.&nbsp; Self-love comes from self-acceptance.&nbsp; We cannot love someone else if we do not love ourselves first. I am not saying to be selfish and not think about others.&nbsp; I am talking about loving yourself just as you are.&nbsp; If we can accept ourselves where we are at we can allow ourselves to feel loved for who we truly are than we can love another person.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>It\u2019s in Our Relationships<\/strong><br><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Next, finding love comes from having relationships with others.&nbsp; Having a relationship with another person is a learning experience.&nbsp; Boundaries are a good tool for relationships.&nbsp; Setting boundaries is a way we can teach ourselves and the other person what is acceptable and what is not.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Boundaries\nAre Necessary<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When we boundaries we can learn what is healthy and good for ourselves. The other person will also know how to treat us.&nbsp; We can learn to say yes or no and not feel guilty.&nbsp; Thus, with boundaries, others will learn to respect us and love us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>A Higher Power<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Cultivating love means to have a relationship with a higher power. &nbsp;My higher power is God. It is important to align our lives with what a higher power wants us to have. Doing this means we trust our Higher Power will give us the best life possible.&nbsp; Then in believing in Higher Power, it is knowing they have the best life possible planned out for us.&nbsp; After trusting in a Higher Power we learn self-love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Invitation\nOf The Highest Good<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Self-love aligns with our Higher Power, inviting the highest good in our lives.&nbsp; Accepting ourselves for who we are and others for right where they are at.&nbsp; If we are following God\u2018s path for our lives and we are loving him, in turn, we are loving others. God is all about love.&nbsp; &nbsp;Loving others and God means we have to surrender.&nbsp; Surrendering and trusting God will assist us in loving others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Three Ways of Discovery<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Hence, love can be cultivated in three different ways.&nbsp; It can be sought through a relationship with a Higher Power or God by giving Him our lives.&nbsp; Then it can also be found through self-love and accepting we are good enough just as we are.&nbsp; Finally, love can be displayed through setting boundaries within our relationships, teaching others love and self-respect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>About the Author:<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"175\" height=\"175\" src=\"http:\/\/www.keen.com\/articles\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2019\/07\/pat-icon.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3752\" srcset=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2019\/07\/pat-icon.png 175w, \/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2019\/07\/pat-icon-150x150.png 150w, \/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2019\/07\/pat-icon-65x65.png 65w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 175px) 100vw, 175px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Patricia, known as Pat58 on Keen, has known of her psychic gifts since the age of four and began mastering her skills as a tarot reader and medium in her teenage years. Patricia has been a psychic on Keen since 2012.  She has a heart for the people and loves to serve others by providing honest guidance on their life problems. She has hosted Keen Radio and appeared as a guest on \u201cFocus On The Bay\u201d for CBS television.&nbsp; Her advice has been published in Cosmopolitan, Women\u2019s Health Magazine, Bustle, and Elephant Journal.&nbsp; Patricia has also been an educator for 25 years.&nbsp; She has a Master\u2019s degree in Special Education, a Bachelor&#8217;s in Psychology, and two certifications in Psychosynthesis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.keen.com\/psychic-mediums\/pat58\/11349731?category=0&amp;gid=0&amp;pmode=0&amp;flmode=call&amp;pageid=26\">Get a reading with Pat58 today! Click here to get started.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Pat58 (Psychic Medium on Keen) Is there anyone out there who is looking for love?&nbsp; If you\u2019re wondering how you can find love, I have a possible answer.&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;Love begins with you and having the mindset that love is within your grasp.&nbsp; In other words, you can manifest love through your own behavior and &hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more\"> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/wordpress.keen.com\/articles\/love\/looking-for-love-pat58\"> <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Looking for Love? 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