I ask a few questions to get focsed in on the person your asking about, or issues. Hair color and age? are my frist questions. Sometimes to get better timing I may ask questions like, last contact, last seen or how long have you been together? sometime I will mix past and furture up so if I see a brake up i will ask if you broke up or have you in the past. In a job question I might ask if you have work for this company before? I dont use cards or any tools in my readings. The photo at the left is of Me and my husband 30 yrs later. 6yrs ago.