I have been doing this for a very long time and I have found that the very best way to be is 100% honest and direct. I realize that at times this approach can come across as callous and uncaring so I have found a way to make it more balanced. I give you my word to always be honest with you but in a way that is still compassionate and caring as well. Not every answer you receive will be a pleasant answer but I will do everything in my power to deliver it in such a way that it is easier to accept. I am here to help, not harm.