There is nothing more scary then when an illness, a horrible accusation, death or divorce come into our lives. Its as if we are on a run away train of fear. Here are some tools to reach acceptance and calm. And no, your angels have not deserted you.
With calm and acceptance, what seemed like demons, turns back into the faces of our angels.There
is probably no better time to walk our talk, to trust our guides, and
to have faith in our angels, then when a 9-11 happens to our personal
lives. Maybe its a slam against our reputation, an unpredictable health
crisis, a death of someone we love, or a loss of a job. The truth is
that every so often a crisis will happen to each and every one of us.
Are we ready?
{Breathe deeply}
We have our lives neatly packaged in predictable
insurance policies, 401 K, a ready made plan for the end of the world,
and spiritual quotations that seem wise and right to say at all the
appropriate times. But when the crisis happens to US.....RARELY is there
a warning, and seldom is the crisis what we thought it was going to be.
{breathe.....fill your self with light...accept the fear}
Amazingly
if we have not been walking our own talk, hearing someone say the
spiritual cliches we ourselves said, {before the veil of
predictability was so rudely ripped away}, may even anger us. This is
fear talking. We want answers! Now! We are overwhelmed and on a run away
train. Just yesterday everything was fine.
{breathe...fill your self, the area of pain, with light}
The whole world
takes on a different "texture", smell and feel. Fear is like this. Once
it sets in, what we have been preaching as spiritualists, is tested to
the core. At times, it feels like our angels have left us. But they
haven't.
{breathe...visualize wings of protection around you.}
Fear can even make our friends and angels look like
demons against us. Acceptance of our situation, brings calm, sleep and
healing. With calm and acceptance, what seemed like demons, turns back
into the faces of our angels and our dear friends again.
{breathe...you are loved.}
Once our
calm has returned, we realize no matter what has happened, spiritual hands
of warmth and guidance reach to help all around us. Our "inner voice"
says kinder things, and is less fear based. Even if one does not believe
in angels, calm and acceptance are angelic and powerful "tools" that
help us to cope with fear.
It is my mission to aid you in finding calm and acceptance during your 40 days and nights of the wilderness.
Dear Ann Marie, My X husband says he still loves me, but does not meet his responsibilities. I allow his impulsive visits with the children to be within my home. He won't change, but claims he wants to be the husband I need. It makes no sense. I would like to move on and find new love. There he is again as if nothing happened. I can't shake him off! Am I on the right path?
RESPONSEDear Jessie, It is important if you want new love and a good
life, to remember you must understand this "enigma" man feels no
remorse about leading you on with self pity; and most likely uses
the children as a tool to get his way. The following is seen:
- He will not change. He will not give you the relationship you seek. Just more games.
- Every
time you bring him in your home, you lead him on to believe "this is
good enough". What more could he want then a 2 hour family within old
turf?
- At this point you must remember that as SWEET as his "mask" may be, he will use your kindness to his benefit....{and probably everyone else he knows as well.}
- Do
the new man {seen in January} a favor and establish BOUNDARIES with your X NOW.
- Do not allow your home to be the meeting place.
- Find
a park, or mall or visiting place outside your home to exchange the
children for visits. Leave for 2 hours and do some shopping. Come back
at the established time and pick them up. Millions of women do this
successfully. So can you. This places the power in your hands.
- Understand that some sociopaths use crocodile tears, to establish that mom is mean to daddy.
- DON'T FALL FOR IT.
- Not
only are you setting boundaries for the new man in your future,
......but if your X is only using the children as a tool to be with you,
he will suddenly want to be with them Less.
- So for
now, this is your homework, and sounds like you are well on your path to finding happiness. I applaud you.
NOTE: Sociopaths are simply people that seem to have no conscious about leading people on to get their way. They have no remorse about what their actions create, yet understand how to fit in to society and be accepted, loved and entrance others with great charm. They have normal faces, and use compassionate people to get what they need. Seldom are they killers or molesters. They can be the people that live next door, may be in your family or even one of your friends. There are 3 main points to look for when dealing with a Sociopath.
- They are chronic liars
- They use self pity to get what they want
- They feel no remorse for their actions, and simply walk away when you get wise to them.
Jesus did not ask "
Am I the son of God?" Buddha didn't ask "
Am I the Enlightened One?"
Maybe we can take lessons on the effect that quiet confidence has on others. When one assumes they should be given respect amazingly others will do so. When giving advice, also, showing
confidence in ones voice tone is the same as saying "
I know what I am talking about." This has nothing to do with loudness or bragging.
The Doormat Asks ...The Princess Assumes
The doormat asks, "
Do you love me?" "Should I take full responsibility? Should I pay the bill again?" Inside they sizzle with self pity and resentment. In abusive relationships the doormat believes being
patient for bad behavior is the way one is loved
more. Those that hear the doormat's insecure voice think, "
Should we like you? Should we let you do it all? Why not let you pay the bill again?" "Why should we change for you?" The Princess never asks "
Do you love me?" but assumes she is loved. The princess never asks if she should do it all, but assumes the task at hand will be shared by all. The Princess speaks with assurance and composure, thereby commanding silently others treat her with respect. When the Princess assumes too much she becomes a rude Deva. The road to being overthrown will follow shortly.
Spiritual LeadersSpiritual leaders show kindness through their eyes, smile and works. Most are capable of throwing a tantrum if disrespected. An example would be Jesus throwing the chicken crates of the merchants selling for profit in the temple. A leader never asks of others if they believe them to be a leader. They assume leadership and are treated as one. This will change if they cause harm to their followers. The best of spiritual leaders respect that leadership must be earned through good works in order to stay in favor.
A FEW TIPS ON BEING A PRINCESS
- No matter whether at work or in a relationship, assume that your opinion should be respected.
- On a date if you are tired of getting stuck with the bill don't assume its your turn again. Smile kindly, fetch your wrap, look at the bill and say, "meet you at the entrance after you've paid."
- Remember, an insecure voice says "I probably am wrong and don't know what I'm talking about."
- Confidence and a lowered voice tone says "I deserve respect, thank you."
- Show gratitude, compliments and recognize a job well done in others.
- Reward with a hand squeeze, shoulder touch or a smile of confident respect for those that honor you. Respect their boundaries.
- Remember common sense must be used at all times.
LIKE ALPHA WOLVES, "ASSUMING" LEADERSHIP IS GIVEN LEADERSHIPOddly, those that assume they are leaders, are given leadership. This attitude is one that seems to be born into people, wolf packs and all animals from the start. BUT a few very simple behaviors can turn us from doormats to queens in our own rite.
You can see them secretly slipping into the chimes section, ringing them one by one…listening for just the right sound. Once you have found one, they are like potato chips. It's hard to stop after experiencing the effect chimes have on energy. Walk down any neighborhood on a beautiful breezy day and you will hear every ones chimes ringing one by one as you pass by. I have a theory. You can match the kind of Spirit a house contains by the type of wind chimes they own.
The bills may come and go, sickness or accidents, laughter or depression but the one thing one can count on is the sound of their beloved wind chimes. They never change their song. Like trumpets announcing your entrance they play just for you. To sit outside on a summer evening watching a storm in the distance, lightening flashing, the sound of wind chimes fluttering in the back ground is a religious experience.
PEOPLE WHO CHOOSE WIND CHIMES FOR SOUND
Connoisseurs of wind chimes demand harmony and are music loving people who get emotional by voice
tone. Meet the audio-feeling person. Spirit is defined by vibration, tone and rhythm. They hear messages beneath the "feeling' of the sound they experience. Some spend years
shopping for their "Totem chimes", listening intently for what they can't explain. . What they hear must speak to their soul and be inspiring. They are not impressed by grandiose size and a pretty display unless the sound matches. If they can’t close their eyes and soar with the sound of the chimes they're spirit wings feel clipped. You may very well find a Tibetan singing bowl somewhere in their domain.
PEOPLE WHO CHOOSE WIND CHIMES FOR BEAUTY
Dramatic sculptural chimes or stained glass
twinkling in the sun makes visual beauty a religious experience. The sound of their
wind chimes often is minor. For these people wind chimes must be a
sensory "package." Give them a stage and drama!
A Spiritual experience must delight with visual dramatic impact.
If a spiritual place of worship has a stage they will be there.
A person in white encircled with roses, a Church or Synagogue with powerful visual display inspires them with searing emotion.
PEOPLE MARRIED TO JUST ONE SET OF WIND CHIMES
Single chime lovers are careful not to be too noisy about spirit. They don’t question a need to believe in more then one way but they are firm in their spiritual view point.. These people are not ones to intrude. They worship, believe or pray quietly.
THE NEIGHBOR WITH MANY WIND CHIMES
Spirit is a banquet! These folks will listen and read on many ideas, beliefs and faiths. Many multi layers of chimes hang in their environment. Each chime has a voice and when all are heard in unison it can be a beautiful experience to the “multi-chime” person. Hands holding hands! The more the merrier! It is wise to remember when hanging chimes closely together it is important they all harmonize. The audio effect of many chimes ringing out of harmony together is like wearing colors and patterns that don't match. Choose your symphony carefully. Remember YOU are the conductor.
REMEMBER! YOUR NEIGHBOR MUST LISTEN TOO!
As hard as it is to believe, there are people who wince at the sound of children laughing. This will also be the person that wants to shoot your wind chimes down. To them the thought of you infringing your sound beliefs on them is as welcome as a Jehovah Witness preaching at their door. To the wind chime hater, you might as well be placing 10 ft stereo speakers in front of their house. Silence is golden and this too must be honored. This person believes in silence. And what you do for faith, chimes and spirituality they would rather not know about. Please sing your praise elsewhere. It
isn’t that they do not have spirit. Hearing about a neighbors view point
on ANYTHING is a personal choice and an assault to them if forced to
listen to someone babble . And that goes for people with intrusive chimes too!
OBSERVE THE WIND CHIMES As you walk within the neighborhood next time observe the wind chimes. Remember. They speak about the person within. They're not just a come and go fad. They are an audio spirit message.
Tarot can help you create the theme for a painting or sculpture, a topic for debate or build an essay. Create the outline plot of a book, a blog or start a school room discussion using Tarot Cards. There's nothing magical about it. Like ink blot tests, Tarot brings out the issues, dramas and spiritual questions within you, through symbol association. Tarot is the best tool for ending writers block or a creative dry spell there is! The possibilities in using Tarot as a teaching aid for creativity in class are wonderfully New Age. Here are some examples:
First of all, when using Tarot for stimulating Writers Block or a Creative Dry Spell, it does not matter whether you read Tarot Cards professionally or not. Find a deck of cards at Barnes & Nobles or order a deck of Tarot Cards through the Internet. Be sure and research the art work. If the style and colors of the pictures do not speak to you personally...keep on looking. Maybe you like Native Art, or perhaps you love happy pastel colors. Then again maybe you are totally into dark mysterious colors of the Renaissance. This will be your tool for creative development.
Your Deck of Tarot is your very special tool for creativity.
Use them like ink blot tests.
Use the pictures to stimulate your ideas, or look up their meanings in the book that comes with them.
Hold the cards in your hand. Get familiar with them.
Let your mind go numb. Try not to think. Just flow.
What thoughts come to you as you gaze into the pictures?
Shake hands with your creativity. Your ready to start making an outline or theme for your writing project or art work. Now shuffle your cards, or spread them out on a table. Choose 3 to 5 cards.LAY DOWN 3 TO 5 CARDS. GAZE IN TO THEM IN THE SAME DIRECTION AND ORDER YOU WOULD READ A BOOK. {LEFT TO RIGHT} 
IN THIS EXAMPLE YOU ARE CREATING AN OUT LINE FOR A BOOKWe will use the middle card as your theme. In this case it is about "choices. " This could be about choosing between life styles, spiritual beliefs, careers or even lovers. In this chapter we will focus on: What is it my character is trying to make a choice about in life? {What speaks to me?}
Example for creating a Book, Essay or Blog with Tarot
THEME {Middle Card}JANE IS IN LIMBO. SHE WAS DOING ALL SHE COULD TO PLEASE HER PARENTS EXPECTATIONS OF HER. HER TRUE PASSION WAS TO FOLLOW CRIMINAL LAW.
CARD ON FAR LEFT - Chapter 1
When Jane was little her parents taught her the importance of excelling in school and becoming a Dr. They constantly impressed on her what she needed. But to Jane it wasn't the surgery that intrigued her as much as how the accidents happened in the first place.
CARD ON FAR RIGHT - Theme of story
Jane decides to go against her parents and follow her passion. As the story blossoms she follows her own goal to become a great criminal investigator.
FOR EACH CHAPTER ANOTHER GROUP OF CARDS CAN BE LAID TO DEVELOP THE PLOT/ CHAPTER/ BLOG
Each row of cards can be a dynamic to develop your story.
Remember the lay out will be your own.
The symbolism will speak to YOU in your own creative way.
No more writers block.
Let your special cards speak to you like ink blot tests or look up the meanings.
Go with the flow and before long you will be in a creative tunnel vision.
HOW CAN THIS BE USED IN PAINTINGS OR SCULPTURES?
To develop a theme or essence for a painting lay one or more cards down and go within. Trust your emotions. Develop the essence within and create your painting or sculpture. For example only, we'll say this artist lay down the following lay out to come up with the theme of this painting.
Far Left - The Past - The artist sees the turmoil of his past
Middle Card - Present - Love, Sexuality, Bonding
Far Right - Freedom! A new beginning and transformation. Enlightenment!
This painting is used as an example only to show what the painters final creative expression, through Tarot, led them to.
Using Tarot in the Class Room for Creative Idea Stimulation
It would take a innovative and adventurous teacher, but even in the school room tarot could be passed out, one card per student. The creative art, writing or even debate project takes on a "mystical journey within" essence; not for fortune telling, but to create.
- Here the instructor can explain the impact of symbols and ink blots to the creative mind.
- Instructor {or a chosen student} can walk from student to student with a fanned deck of Tarot Cards.
- Each student picks 3 cards of their very own
- From each students 3 chosen cards, they are asked to build a story or art subject.
- Instructors choosing Tarot as a tool for story or art development in class will be guarantied a spot of New Age awe and popularity in the hearts of their class.
- Remember! Using Tarot for Creativity in Class should be emphasized on the same level as ink blot tests, symbolic mind association.
Ann Marie {ak Sister Othelia} is a Certified Master Tarot Channeler and proprietor of a Metaphysical Tea House. She has been effectively counseling clients since 1970 and hosts a weekly Achieve Radio internet program called "Tarot Joy". Ann Marie's belief is that hard times build strong character and the ability to dance thorough life storms.
He Searches for someone to be complete, the perfect powerful equal to himself in finances, career, attitude and style. Be sure to wear your cape, tights and Tierra when meeting this man. You will be tested.
EVERY CROWD HAS ONE
Whether from the highest of echelon, or the red neck trailer park scene, each crowd has a Power Couple. Gay or straight they stride into a room and everyone melts. They are fully aware of their impact and power. The perfect party would not be complete with out their appearance. They probably own the equivalent of a castle and moat….even if its equivalent is the best trailer in the county. Together they overcome all the odds and are the theme of Harlequin romance novels, films and Valentines Day specials.
HOW DO POWER COUPLES MAKE IT LAST?
For all the fairy tale couples that have fallen apart, there are those that believe together they are a fortress and team. One mate is usually NOT weaker then the other. Here are rules that powerful couples that last share in common:
- Power couples know, that to maintain their status they have to be super achievers together. They are constantly building on their appeal together… not living off it.
- Power Couples that marry their equal challenge them and helps them evolve,
- The combined force of a Power Couple makes their individual personalities even greater as one, paying off commercially and publicity for what they stand for.
- Power couples that last understand each other’s needs and pressures much better than someone who isn’t in the same league.
- Power Couples tend to be calm in the eye of the storm, growing together from there similar ability to handle crisis smoothly.
- Power Couples that stay together usually come from the same back ground, whether rich or poor, and understand each others values and needs. Stories such as Princess Dianna would have us believe that marrying into wealth was easy, when in fact she felt as if she were on her own and never completely accepted.
HUMOR - WHO IS NOT A POWER COUPLE
{URBAN DICTIONARY}
A couple who has been together less then a week, acts as if they have been married for twenty years, to wit they never leave each other's side and have changed their Face book profile pictures to a photo of the other person.
CAN THE CINDERELLA FANTASY POWER COUPLE WORK?
As an Intuitive Psychic Counselor, one of my most common questions is from women searching for a rich powerful man. I found this exert from a book written in 2004 by Angela Wilder, “Powerful Mate Syndrome”
“For years I clung to the fantasy of being a helpless princess who would be taken care of by my omnipotent prince. That fantasy kept me from realizing that there is a world of difference between being cared for and being taken care of. A healthy marriage is all about being cared for, allowing each other room for independence, intellectual growth, and emotional expansion. Being taken care of, on the other hand, fosters dependency, intellectual atrophy, limited life experiences, and stifled creativity; it certainly does not cultivate self reliance. When we make our mates our gods we end up worshiping them and lose sight and sense of ourselves. In my marriage to James, I sacrificed my own career ambitions. I came to rely on my husband to validate me as a person. I stopped voicing my own opinions on things that mattered to both of us, and I did not believe that I had the right to "complain." In short, I became a glamorous appendage to a powerful man.”
Yes, Powerful couples can make it last! But before you don your super man cape, tights and Tierra for your first power man date, search carefully into your expectations, common interests and pit falls.
DEAR GOD WHY CAN'T HE GET OUT OF MY HEAD? You say no to
drugs; no to cigarettes. But no one ever says "Say No to someone in your
Head". It's as if you can feel their emotions. Maybe days pass, even
years, and there they are stuck in your dreams. Honey its time to say NO to
telepathic love.
What is Telepathic
Love?
Let’s say you wake up in the morning and all you can think
about is “them.” You go through your entire day feeling, smelling and
even hearing them whisper to you. You have now opened the portal to your
heart soul and mind for someone to live in a safe, relationship of telepathic
properties with no action.
One Day You Get Sick of It
You may wake up some mornings unexplainably rejuvenated, as
if you have had a great romp in bed. You have soul traveled with your
telepathic love. But where are they when you NEED them.. One day
you get tired and frustrated and decide you have had enough. No more.
Like magic, there they are on your phone or computer wishing
you well. Maybe even promising you they will be more consistent, and
spend time with you. “Lets go out one of these days” they say. You
are so excited. The portal to your heart soul and mind opens once
again. They slip in. And there you are cruising on Spirit Love for
another month or two.
CLOSE THE
PORTAL! LOCK IT! EVERY TIME YOU THINK ABOUT THEM
YOU ARE OPENING THE DOOR TO AN EASY WAY OUT OF AGGRESSIVE ACTION.
- I`m
not telling you stop thinking about the other because its good for you.
- I am
telling you every time you think about them you send vibrations and
signals for them to take the easy way out and have a relationship in
dreams and telepathic love instead of real action
AT NIGHT TIME IMAGINE A
LOCKED PORTAL DOOR TO YOUR HEART, SOUL AND MIND.
- You
may actually be exhausted when you wake up in the morning.
- The
reason you feel exhausted is because your spoiled telepathic lover has
been banging at your telepathic door to get in all night!
- Don’t
do it! Remember you are training your telepathic lover that
it’s the REAL
WAY or no way.
- Remember……..every
time you refuse to have a telepathic relationship with the “other” you are
training them to come to you in person if they truly need you in their
life.
REMEMBER LOCKING THE DOOR
TO A TELEPATHIC RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE "TOUGH LOVE." TAKE AWAY
WHAT IS MOST VALUED TO GET RESPONSIVE ACTION IN THE HERE AND NOW.
DOES THE
“OTHER” KNOW THEY ARE HAVING A TELEPATHIC RELATIONSHIP?
Often the “other” does not know they are dream traveling or
connecting spiritually. But they become unusually sure of
themselves that you are there, waiting patiently for them.
Consequently they will be in no hurry at all to take action.
When you answer their telepathic frequency call, {and
no, chances are they do not recognize they are doing this} a strange soul
merge happens. Night dreaming, the whispers of conversation, as
well as the feeling they have merged around you and you carry them where ever
you go is the sign that you have left your portal wide open!
THEY ONLY FEEL THE
DIFFERENCE WHEN YOU CLOSE THE PORTAL
They will only feel a difference when you close the portal
to your heart, soul and mind. A kind of panic will set in the
“other”. They will feel unexplainably they are losing
you. There will be no explanation why, and often they do not
understand why suddenly they aggressively need to reach you by phone, email or
a visit. You have closed off your heart. They feel
abandoned. And then…they take action.
“SEXUAL OBCESSION”
AND TELEPATHIC LOVE ARE VASTLY DIFFERENT.
"Obsessive Sexual Dreams", are
purely of the physical realm. There is little Spiritual Soaring in a
sexual fantasy other then an orgasm. It’s purely concentrated on physical
gratification.
"Telepathic love" is gentle
soaring, and entails heart, soul and mind. It is a Spiritual merge in
which you can see, feel and hear the “other” as one spiritual merge.
WARNING: If
the telepathic lover does not come in to your life in real action after
shutting your spiritual portal, trust they never will. This is your
proof of a quality love, or someone who is a waste of your time and effort
As an Intuitive Reader for over 40 yrs in the process of receiving my Master Tarot Certification, I suggest the following tips for finding a quality psychic adviser...
- What is your readers client feedback
like?
- How much private information
does your reader ask for BEFORE your reading? {it is hoped as little as
possible}
- Do they have only good
feedback? {watch out for sugar coated readings}
- Are they certified? How long have they been reading?
- It is wise to start with a request for a reading on your NOW ...before believing unproven facts right away. If the information you are hearing rings true, it is more likely your adviser will be accurate on your other questions as well.
- Remember your greatest tool
for judging accuracy is asking for a reading in the “Now” first. Only you
know your life. Right?
- Remember a Psychic is not the
same as a motivation speaker....whose job is to make you FEEL GOOD. If what you are hearing is too good to be true... it probably is.
- An intuitive worker's job is
to tell you what they see, good and bad, and pick up patterns they observe that may be disrupting your life.
- It is your right to receive a
professional polite reading at all times.
- It is vital you never be
hounded or have your privacy interrupted by psychics demanding you make
more appointments with them.
- Price is not an indication of quality; Client testimony is.
ALL PROFESSIONAL WORKERS HAVE THEIR OWN STYLE
Like all professional workers each reader has their own
style of reading.
- It is not expected that each Psychic be a carbon copy
of the other in a reading answer.
- It is hoped that each reader offer
various viewpoints to solve your problem, but
with the common denominator being, your better good.
Tarot Cards, a tool to access intuitive inner
voice, work much in the same way an Ink Blot test does. Each picture and
number wakes up an image or thought. Combining several cards together,
in what is called a "lay out," creates a living story about ones
personal journey. Tarot should never control ones actions, but allow a
reference point, or suggested strategy through which overwhelming
confusion can reach clarity. Always an Ali and never the boss, Tarot is a
means for Intuitive exercise and growth.
PAPER,CLAY,FABRIC, STONE..SymbolismThough
the history of Tarot is ancient, in them selves, Tarot cards whether
created on paper, stone, clay or fabric are all about Symbolism. Tarot
Cards are a Tool to wake up "INTUITION," which is a gift that all
mammals own to aid in survival through nature and war. Used with skill,
Tarot gives strategy, emotional explanation and a plan. All final action
must come from the attitude of free will and common sense. A psychic
reader is only a guide.
TAROT FOR WRITING, COUNSELING, STRATEGYAuthors
such as Steven King and John Steinbeck have used Tarot to create story
plots for writing an out line of their books. Counselors have utilized
Tarot cards through client hands on use, as picture symbolism to
represent feelings. Many Psychic readers are like marathon runners that
excel in heightened intuition. Tarot cards aid in cutting to the chase
quickly and allow detailed sessions to get to the heart of the emotional
matter so that healing strategy can begin.
WHY CERTIFY?For those that have been readers for a long time, it becomes clear that one must have something to offer that stands out amongst the multitude of intuitive workers in the field now.
- There is no denying experience and a portfolio of client testimony is valuable.
- Accuracy and people skills shine even brighter.
- Perhaps you are longing for a stronger upscale educated clientele and the love readings are getting a bit much. You would like more variety.
- Often more then not a more educated client goes hand in hand with a wider variety of subject matter to read on. {Although we all cry for love, rich or poor.}
- Spirituality is widely accepted by everyone now. More educated clients are seeking reputable and ethical readers.
- Drs, Lawyers, Bankers and Wall Street workers want proof that their reader is as certifiable as they have taken the time to be.
- We too choose licensed professionals for our medical, judicial and and tax problems because it makes us feel more CONFIDENT.
- Certifying proves that a reader "cares" about the ethics and procedure of reading and follows a code as a licensed light worker to be respected by all.
CERTIFICATION PROCESS A LIST OF TAROT CERTIFICATION RULES http://www.tarotcertification.org/exam-cptr.htmlLEVELS OF TAROT CERTIFICATION {non profit .orgs} http://www.tarotcertification.org/levels.htmlTAROT CERTIFICATION BOARDSEuropean Tarot Certification Board {2001}http://www.tarotcertification.org/europe/about.htmlAmerican Tarot Certification Board {2002}http://www.tarotcertification.org/whycertify.html
A news flash reads "Bones found on island might be Amelia Earnhart's." A psychic reading confirms Yes and that her cast away time on the island may have been her greatest true adventure of survival, and what her flying exploits had been intuitively preparing her for from the start.
Was Nikumaroro Island, about 1,800 miles south of Hawaii, where Amelia died a cast away?
Yes. Amelia’s addiction to sacrifice to the public eye is what killed her. She did not mind, at first, the islands test of her endurance. She was a tom boy, fire maker and a "Survival Island" contestant before it's time. In the early days of the wreck, she is seen fantasizing herself in a "Swiss Family Robinson" story plot. She believed she would be saved just as all great adventure story characters do. She did a lot of Zen contemplation on the island and had she lived, the island would have been Amelia’s 40 days and 40 nights of the wilderness. She would have come back a completely changed person.
Did Amelia die alone with the sand crabs?
Yes. The crabs at first were her audience and she would even speak to them. The crabs were relentless and always around her watching. She had a love hate for them. When her spirits were completely down, the crabs were her only companionship. In the end, as if sentenced to die at the inquisition, the crabs quietly and efficiently were Amelia’s pall bearers as they took her body parts to the sea and their homes.
Did the man she was with survive the crash? No. Unhappily and unfairly, the man died right away. His dream was Amelia’s fame and the coat tails he hung on to. She could not commit to him in the end. In the name of survival, Amelia abandoned him an unhappy man.
"What were her last moments like? What was she doing? What happened?"
Amelia sat peacefully watching the water, completely balanced, as if she had come upon a great big realization.
The scales were balanced now. The power she held before the plane wreck on the island was the price she paid for sacrifice to fame, fortune and worship of the public eye. The TRUE ADVENTURE was survival on the island. She died living an adventure. Her captive audience, the crabs, never left her side. They consumed her in the end.
What was she doing?
Every moment was a struggle for Amelia. To eat and catch drinking water took strategy and patience. She had neither. She learned how to catch and eat what consumed her in the end. It was a balanced existence of daily mundane struggle and inner contemplation as she realized the irony of her final adventure. Her brilliant mind kept her from going crazy.
She was a gentle soul. Delicate and small boned she adapted well to the tasks of catching fish, building fires, and in her mind imagined the Goddess she hoped to be for the public eye, was who she actually was for the true grit of survival on the island.. She did a lot of thinking. Her small body became pathetically thin. But this was not what killed her. She did not die of starvation.
In all actuality Amelia was happy with her simple tried adventure to death. It was what she was running from, flying from and in escape from to begin with. She realized the island always had been her final test, the adventure she had been working up to. She lay remnants of broken make up jars and shells in positions she hoped would be found later for a mysterious and intriguing archeology find, a tribute to her once civil life.
When I was little I had a magical jewelry box. The lid was encrusted with small sea shells and coral. In the center, a tiny sea horse was inlaid in a bed of delicate dew drop rhinestones. I kept my most precious treasures in the box and only showed it to special people. When I was lonely, the box transported me to a far away world of mermaids and beautiful pirates in flowing white shirts.
Later, when sophistication became a part of maturity, rhinestones were considered cheap and sea horses endangered. I wanted real diamonds, authentic rubies. I saw my box as tacky. Instead of loving the sea shell encrusted box of wonder, I wanted to be swooped off my feet by passion.. To my disappointment, I found human relationships were never as consistent as my beloved sea horse box. I had a marriage, a wonderful child and divorced. I felt my innocence sail away in rock and roll relationships that became tainted. I had a mysterious carved box for my Tarot Cards. To my surprise I found that in helping others come back to earth, I did too. The teacher truly does learn through her students; So does the reader.
I forgot about my jeweled sea horse box entirely. As a single mom I worked in a Packing House for 22 years, reading in coffee houses and boutiques on weekends. In a world far removed from little girl sweetness I embraced my inner warrior to get through each day and afford to live. I was blessed in that Tarot Channeling offered me escape to elegance and velvet dresses. Come Monday, the jeans, chain gloves, knives and blood, ruled my life. My rough work hands were my badge of strength. {Thank God for lacy long gloves.}
Oh beautiful Angels! What ever happened? It was as if at 50 my life suddenly changed. I believed with all my heart that the day would come I would be free and it happened. I quit the Plant and became a full time Psychic and certified Hypnotherapist. A small home across the lane from me went for sale for $9000.00, less then a used car! This I gutted out and turned into a Tarot Studio for private recorded sessions. I landscaped the land with the sculptures of area artists, and planted path ways of flowers.
On cold Midwest winter mornings, I sit on the couch under a warm fuzzy blanket, a cup of steaming coffee in my hands, and watch the snow fly. I thank God and my Angels over and over for the life so unexpected, after years of misery and hardship.{And now, a stable husband.}
My jeweled seahorse box has come back into my life. Now it holds a small layer of crystals and a deck of retired beloved tarot cards. All good things do come back to us in time. Our priorities find new meaning as the past touches the present, in the lift of a jewelry box lid.
In the old days I grew up believing the President had full power. I now realize no matter WHO's president, it is the Congress who REALLY runs the show. As time goes by and we vote prettier people into the presidential office, it is clear to me that the President is becoming a cosmetic Barbie "blame" figure {
whose brilliance is used merely as an "idea person."}
- Have
you noticed how our presidents are looking more like movie stars?
- Have you noticed how Presidents become basically the "blame machine" for the
countries radio announcers, complainers and instant gratification demands?
- Have you noticed how no matter how many brilliant ideas a President has,..it's the congress and senate who give permission?
- Have you noticed how quickly presidents lose their magical influence?
- Have you noticed how the President of the US has become much like Queen
Elizabeth…a “beautiful symbol” of democracy…diplomacy…paper signer…and
idea man, { imprisoned and straight jacketed to inside rules.}
- I NEVER REALIZED its the Congress who has real presidential status!
I USED TO NOT CARE WHO WAS IN CONGRESS. I SAW THEM AS WANNA BES FOR POWER OFFICES
- NOW I realize that the Congress passes or flunks
the president’s ideas...and THEY are the real power.
- NOW I realize the President is made to look good ONLY by who’s in the Senate.
- It is the Congress that gives the president permission to shine or drowned.
FOR THAT REASON THIS YEAR I WILL VOTE FOR CONGRESS MEN
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Without compatible players in the Senate, the
President, NO MATTER WHO, just becomes a pretty Barbie Doll of diplomacy and
intrigue…an "Idea person."
- The Gov’t has too much power? Certainly this is not true in the Presidents
hands. Blame the Senators in Congress who approve or block his ideas. Blame
your self if you don’t vote who goes in Congress. And that's the truth
- Yes! The future is changeable,... according to Our wise actions.
SisterOthelia
They broke up a year ago, and though she could not bug his phone to see who he was calling, she could read his Face Book page. Cyber gifts and flowers sprinkled with flirty messages were all over it! Every day she checked his Face Book and cried. It was so easy to keep up on him! She was absolutely convinced each and every woman connecting with him was a blooming relationship. God it hurt! So why did she keep going back there?
HIS CYBER HAREM
He sensed that things were broken and
unhappy in her. The most important thing she could
do is go out with other men, move on. She needed to stop worrying if he was doing the same thing. The women she saw on his Face
book were not real relationships. The majority were all part of the pretend world of pretend gifts and pretend sensuality. {The more women there were on his page, the more studly his friends thought he was. They believed his cyber harem ...just like she did.}
FACE BOOK, BREAK UPS AND STALKING
- If
you are going out with other men, and this relationship has reached
that open stage, stop watching his Face
Book page to see if he is going out like you are.
- If you are NOT going out with other men....you NEED to.
- If it makes you cry, stop going to his Face Book Page.. Its like biting on a canker sore in your mouth that "hurts so good." Pull your foot out of the wasp nest!
- Spying
on his contact list just to see who their cyber friends are...is
really no different then bugging his phone to see who hes talking to.
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You will get your chance to reconnect in a relationship, {a real one}.
But not when you are sending out needy vibrations of sadness.
- Scare
him a little. Be unavailable. Friends or more....confusion is tool to make him persistent. Don't be a slave to your painful neediness to spy.
- Most of all, no matter how available someones information is, respect Boundaries.
Many women blow out their 40th birthday cake candles with a sinking feeling of defeat. But to their amazement they find younger men are looking back more. Why?
PHEROMONES! You are wafting out a silent sexual odor as intoxicating as an 18 year old boy’s. Its nature’s way of signaling to the opposite sex you are prime and ready for pregnancy. For many women in their early 40’s this is their last chance at safe child birth. With reasonable body fitness and a good hair day, a woman in her early 40’s has pheromones and looks that scream like a bare naked mermaid singing to a ship wrecked sailor.
OTHER REASONS WHY OLDER WOMEN/YOUNGER MEN WORK OUT
But this is not the only reason the phenomena of older women and younger men are hitching up these days. Women in their middle years are looking much younger. Body, skin and hair are more natural and fit. Add “polish” and “confidence” to this artillery and you are a very interesting person. The New Age man looks for the “person” inside the body. And just like that well toned body machine, confidence sometimes takes a long time to develop……..say, 40 years or more.
True. There are women executives in their 20’s and 30’s with raging confidence. They are the living walking Barbie dolls of this earth. Youth means growth. Men are often aware that with a young beautiful woman comes high maintenance. An older woman’s toxic beauty is satisfaction with where she is in the present. Often she is completely satisfied not to have children, a huge wedding, or to have the life of a Barbie doll.
And how do I know all this? I have been married for twelve years to a man 14+ years younger then my self. Kevin is into body building and healthy eating. Because he is younger and of the more liberated male era, he washes the clothes with out question. {He says I leave clumps of Tide in his underwear.} He is a neat freak. I am free form. He worries and watches over me. I am very independent. He is a Republican. I am an Independent. He is a racing fanatic. I am into sculpture gardening. He lives for wide green grass to golf on. I live for artistic gardening of wide green grass.
HERE IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU ARE FIRST WITH A YOUNGER MAN
1} You may often stare deeply into the store clerks eyes as you check out your groceries wondering “if they can see” the age gulf between you and your partner. This too will pass within a year or two, as you and your partner stay together.
2} As you cement your bond together, the insurance man/ bank loan officer will ask your ages on a combined policy. As you bravely announce your individual wide spread date of births you will see your attendant take a small gulp, and a quick glance back and forth at your faces. They will then act like its nothing unusual. Get used to it. Be proud.
3} Some of your girlfriends will make macho guttural sounds of satisfaction, similar to the sounds middle age men make when an amigo dates a young Barbie Doll. Ignore them. Act very casual. I tell you this because no relationship is written in blood. In the case of an older woman – younger man union break up, the first conclusion made by others will be that it was the age difference. So do not gloat now. They will use it against you later.
4} Some stead fast true friends may not know how to act. Once they know there is an age difference, especially one over 10 years, they may choose to distance you from their couple get togethers. This may hurt.
These people don’t know how to relate. Especially when an older woman amigo brings a younger lover to the tribal circle, men seem especially uncomfortable when their wives treat the younger man guest like a celebrity.
5} DEFEATING SELF SABOTAGE may occur in some women when dating younger men. They search the eyes of their lover for shame, when inviting them in the company of a pretty young woman. Insecurity of breaking the “Age-Norm” unconsciously makes the older partner jealous and ACT ugly. Don’t question and compare yourself. Your own insecurity may ruin a perfect union with a man that finds you beautiful and fascinating.
MY CONCLUSION ON OLDER WOMEN / YOUNGER MEN
My mother always told me that women age slower then men in interests and passion. Sadly she would sit next to her older husband who stared at the TV completely set in his ways. She would say to me at coffee, “Honey, if a woman marries a man at least 10 years younger then herself, she should be about equal in life span and energy level to him. Add to that a desire to stay fit and trim, 10 years equals 1 year in male/female age difference.
One of the greatest rules that Nurturers can remember is that its OK to heal and guide broken winged birds, wounded animals and needy acquaintances. Its not OK to allow personal space to lose its boundaries so that one has nothing left to give, emotionally or financially .
Becoming a slave to the addiction to "helping" lost souls, may secretly be a way to silence a personal cry for empowerment. One day the worst possible scenario can happen. Waking up and realizing there is nothing left to give..no more money to loan, or food to spare puts the hoarder in the position of being labeled "the abuser."
Often the homeless or broken just go to the next emotional hoarder and reap the benefits of stroking their ego. For over packed helpless animals or adapted children, the "hoarder of the wounded" risks being hauled away to court, headlined in the papers and radio as the worst possible villain. Better to guide with boundaries, and avoid the pang of being mislabeled. The purpose of healing is for the wounded ones to recover and fly free, inspired and healthy. It is important to announce when you have reached over load. It is not healthy to stay in relationships with the wounded and lost simply because one desperately needs to be needed.
SIGNS YOU ARE A HOARDER OF THE WOUNDED
- You go out of your way to help, asking for nothing back in return ever.
- Every room and corner is filled with lost people or animals. Space and privacy are completely gone.
- Crates, trailers, garages and kennels are filled to the max with animals lost and purchased.
- You go out of your way to be friends with lost souls, mostly to become their leader and guide.
- You go out of your way to avoid strong healthy people, as they make you uncomfortable.
- Your life begins to look like a crash pad for the homeless
- You begin to lend money for the thrill of being “owed to”. The rules are all on your terms.
- Your relationships consist of lost souls that never get it together.
- You only feel comfortable around rejected people. {They never feel you are really one of them and even check you for wires, using your strength as a cover up.}
- Your so busy catching everyone else when they fall, you forget what its like to have people catch YOU when you fall.
Please know I am not advocating turning a blind eye to the helpless....but keeping your boundaries.
HEAL THYSELF FIRST, TO HEAL OTHERS
- Understand that people will see you as who you are...regardless of who and what you "save".
- Set boundaries to curb your self from loaning money out knowing full well you won't be paid back..
- Reach out to someone you feel is as strong as you are. Balance your circle of friends with strong and the wounded.
- Take in only enough animals that you can afford to feed and take to the Vet comfortably. One sick animal can kill all your pets. Over crowding is inhumane....not compassionate.
- When you hear the inner voice of insecurity beat you up around strong people, hold your head high, lower your voice pitch and speak slowly.You need strong people too!
- Allow others to heal you when you’re sad. You will be cherished more.
- A good rule of thumb is to help selflessly away from home at shelters, but not to let your home become a YCA or Animal Shelter. Reason with your self.
- Everyone needs boundaries. Nurture with love unconditionally, help out in shelters and avoid being mislabeled when your compassionate heart takes on too much .
Remember even Jesus and Buddha healed the broken, but went home to their equal minded Tribe for support, love and honor.