A man and his dog were walking
along a road. The man was enjoying the scenery, when it suddenly
occurred to him that he was dead. He remembered dying, and that the dog
walking beside him had been dead for years. He wondered where the road
was leading them.
This story was in my email when I woke up this morning.
{con't from above}
After a while, they came to a high, white stone wall along one side of the road. It looked like fine marble... At the top of a long hill, it was broken by a tall arch that glowed in the sunlight.
When he was standing before it he saw a magnificent gate in the arch that looked like mother-of-pearl, and the street that led to the gate looked like pure gold. He and the dog walked toward the gate, and as he got closer, he saw a man at a desk to one side.
When he was close enough, he called out, 'Excuse me, where are we?'
'This is Heaven, sir,' the man answered.. 'Wow! Would you happen to have some water?' the man asked.
Of course, sir. Come right in, and I'll have some ice water brought right up. 'The man gestured, and the gate began to open.
'Can my friend,' gesturing toward his dog , 'come in, too?' the traveler asked.
'I'm sorry, sir, but we don't accept pets.'
The man thought a moment and then turned back toward the road and continued the way he had been going with his dog.
After another long walk, and at the top of another long hill, he came to a dirt road leading through a farm gate that looked as if it had never been closed. There was no fence.
As he approached the gate, he saw a man inside, leaning against a tree and reading a book.
'Excuse me!' he called to the man. 'Do you have any water?'
'Yeah, sure, there's a pump over there, come on in.'
'How about my friend here?' the traveler gestured to the dog.
'There should be a bowl by the pump.'
They went through the gate, and sure enough, there was an old-fashioned hand pump with a bowl beside it.
The traveler filled the water bowl and took a long drink himself, then he gave some to the dog.
When they were full, he and the dog walked back toward the man who was standing by the tree.
'What do you call this place?' the traveler asked.
'This is Heaven,' he answered.
'Well, that's confusing,' the traveler said. 'The man down the road said that was Heaven, too.'
'Oh, you mean the place with the gold street and pearly gates? Nope. That's hell.'
'Doesn't it make you mad for them to use your name like that?'
'No, we're just happy that they screen out the folks who would leave their best friends behind.'
PSYCHIC PET READINGS * Whats it all about anyway?
Have a beloved pet? I would be honored to read on it's emotions, feelings towards you, warnings and give advice. Like Heaven, Pets are spirit energy as readable as people, relationships or career. If you are an animal lover, you know the bond between you and your pet is a true "marriage" until death do you part. Here is what I can read on for you:
- At this time, how does your pet perceive you?
- What would your pet tell you if it could speak?
- Will the move for your pet be ok?
- Why is your pets behavior so strange lately?
- What does your pet need most from you?
- Like "people readings" .....please don't ask me to give directions if your pet is lost. I can barely read a map. Directions are not my gift driving a car or in my 38 yrs reading experience.
- See my 15,000 client accuracy feed backs
Have you ever been at work and watched a circle of women
point and criticize someone for the way they dress, speak or walk?
Have you ever noticed how it isn’t so much
the “underdog” that is their victim, but someone that is getting more attention
then they? What is it they fear most?
This high school mentality plays in adults as well as children.
Treat the critic with the same critical behavior
they throw out and watch them turn in to seething spitting she-cats.
Stand up and defend the object of their
disdain, they become overwhelmed.
SO WHY DO THEY DO IT?
There is an old poem that
goes like this:
Tough tough tough
tough….insecure,
Tough tough tough
tough….insecure,
Tough tough tough
tough.....insecure.
Behind every insult addict, gossip-circle and abuser is an
attention craving child who has been treated badly at some point and wants to
get back. Often they have downloaded
from parents that winning is everything, and to be beautiful, popular and have many admirers is
all that really matters.
BEST COURSE OF ACTION FOR DIVA ATTACK
- Do nothing. What critiques
hate most is being ignored. Without the reaction of anger, tears or shame, their abusive comments have no power.
- Wear an imaginary mini fan, a billowing scarf,
and walk like a Harlequin Novel Goddess.
Consider this. If the diva women and men were not so jealous of anothers' success, they would not have any fun tearing someone apart. Strength is in numbers. Alone they cry like a
child. Your confidence and refusal to play their game means they will find another soon to tear apart. React and play the game with them and the dynamics of abuse go on and on and on.
The Earth is a very old lady going through constant body reconstruction. Even the tiniest of changes going on within
her, or on the outside of her surface-body, create major cataclysmic events. She listens not to the claim she is
destroying evil doers, any more then we punish our hair by cutting it off. The Universe is of unconditional love.
- Old
Lady Earth has gas, and major volcanoes erupt.
- With
one self healing session to redistribute her Tectonic Platelets, horrific
earth quakes transpire.
- One
great sneeze creates Tsunamis to crash on land and destroy cities.
Great or small; plant or animal, we are but beautiful hosts renting space in liquid time as we complete our Karmic missions of light on the crystal
blue marble.
Earth Sister Readings * Psychic Channeling
Jan 24, 2010
I am your Earth Sister, Ann Marie. With 30+ yrs channeling and 15,000+
National client feed backs I connect my Angels with yours to tell you
the best path in 2010 I see for you. A short Harmony Meditation and
Sunday Coffee Matinee begin the show. Just give your first name. Be it
Love, Career or Spirit lets focus on the energy that comes forth and
illuminates your path. Rise like the Phoenix from the flames. What do
your guides need you to know?
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Topics On Show Today- Harmony Meditation
- Lord of the Rings Music
- Psychic Advice
Today's Coffee Matinee:Lily the Ghost joins the spirit of Mother Teresa to perform miracles in Haiti. Who would have thought an iPod could be a vehicle for spirit travel? Only at Angel Bling Psychic Theater!
C
lients are very tuned in to what feels REAL. They want their Light Worker to be ACCURATE, RELAXED and
CALMING. This is the hub of mind and body alignment. In the Psychic
Field many Spiritualists feel driven to spend thousands of dollars on classes, retreats and books
to know the latest reading style, body work and New Age “lingo." But above all is the need to center within, numb the inner chatter and embrace the "Calm."
MASSAGE THERAPY COMPETITION
I was talking today to a beautiful massage therapist. She pointed out what many body workers have been experiencing, that I too have seen. It is hard to be calm when other Co Workers are being competitive. She wondered at the strange feeling she was getting at the Spa. It was as if everyone was glancing from the corner of their eyes in a silent pounding race. She/He who knew the latest Style of "touch" was often the most admired by other colleagues. But none of this had to do with owning inner calm. The most state of art methods must feel in sync with the back bone of massage and intuitive work:
Spiritual Work at It's Core is about:
- spoiling and pampering the client
- helping the client to reach inner Ommmm......
- giving the touch starved massage client the
experience of being nurtured.
- Clients are smart. They feel balance as well as anxiety.
- Own the calm first and you have learned the lesson of attraction.
WONDERFUL ACCEPTANCE OF MASSAGE AND PSYCHICS
In days of old to know the unique art of Psychic Reading or Massage was to be slightly dark, mysterious and in question by main stream society
. Today even church ladies schedule a massage session and accept that religion itself is "mystic." As a result, Intuitive Reading is much more accepted. Above all, that which gives Truth, Kindness and Calm speaks of love and light.
Beneath the
surface of massage and psychic reading is this:
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CALM attracts CALM.
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Calm and
Wisdom transcend into your client when you “own” it.
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Whether you are in snow or warmth, if my call light is on come on over for a kitchen table hot chocolate
reading. The kitchen is cleaned up, dishes washed, and home made cyber
Christmas cookies are on. In times of loneliness or feeling overwhelmed with the economy, an affordable reading of high quality may be just what you need. I would love to read for you.
MY INTUITIVE EXPERIENCE
- I have been reading professionally since 1970
- As a single mom I worked a grueling day job, reading cards in velvet at the town gift boutique and coffee house early evenings.
- In 1998 I began reading by phone for 3 Psychic companies
- 2001 I became a full time intuitive reader
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In 2002 I began reading for Keen
- Certified in Tarot - 2002 {have read Tarot since 1970}
- 2004 I certified in Trans-personal Hypnotherapy
- 2004 I published 2 books of New Age Poetry for women's empowerment
- 2004 purchased my Indigo Tea House for Angel Healing
- 2007 I Co Hosted a National Internet Radio Show "The Brass Ovary" with Spiritual Intuitive, "Adrienne Austin."
- 2008 I certified in Reiki, using it in combination with Hypnotherapy & Hot Stones. I call it 'Angel Healing.'
- 2008 I began my radio show "Angel Bling Psychic Theater"
- In 2009 I moved to "Achieve Radio" with "Angel Bling Psychic Theater"
- 2009 I completed my first Spiritual book on the Journey of Pets in our lives.
WHAT I CAN READ ON:
- Romance: Feelings, Intentions, Is there a future?
- What would they tell you from their heart and soul?
- Career: Will you get the job? How did your interview turn out?
- Real-Estate: Unexplained energy within? Will you get the house?
- Family: How are the kids? What do they need from you?
- Spiritual Healing: Redesign your life for maximum happiness
- Angel Blessing Reading: Monthly guidance reading.
- Pet Reading: What would your pet tell you?
Fetch your favorite beverage, count to 10 and call. If my light is on, I have a comfie kitchen table reading especially right for you.
A child Psychic in all their vulnerable
innocence has no business reading the tainted energy of an adult. I am concerned that Psychic Children are the new exploited Barbie Doll “Lisa Bonaire” fashion models of today’s media. Harry Potter has brought acceptance for magical children. Now we parade Indigo Crystal Children for all to see. But are they emotionally protected enough?
Pretty Outfits can be taken off. Energy is absorbed.- Adult
Clothing can be taken off Lisa Bonaire model children. They can leave their
miniature Barbie Model images
behind and become children again.
- ENERGY
DOES NOT WORK THIS WAY. Once a
child has absorbed tainted energy through a reading with a “masked” adult,
that energy can not be taken off like a cute outfit.
- Adults
have learned through a life time of trials and errors, bad and good, how
to “Mask” in the form of “Hidden Intension” or “Therapy”.
- But
children see past the mask into some very dark things. They see the shadows as well as the light,
with out maturity or understanding. They should not have to understand adult issues or comprehend a stage of life before their time.
- No
child should have to give up their innocence with out means to protect
themselves energetically.
- We can
sage smudge, ring bells or do what ever we want to clear our houses of
tainted energy and disturbing vibrations.
- But
when a child goes to sleep, all the masked disturbing energy of Adult
Reading will be processed through dreams, the most vulnerable time for
children that they need security and protection.
Let children read for children and family, only, so that they can be safe and secure.
What sweater do you reach for when your feeling absolutely YOU? Usually it's the one you've had forever. You feel comforted, relaxed and at peace in your Chakra Sweater. Every time you grab for it your in for a laid back day or creative focus. Your personal Ommm time is often shared with your favorite Chakra sweater..
RED/BROWN/TAUPE SWEATER - 1st CHAKRA
Red is the Root Chakra color. It's frequencies run deep like the roots of a tree into the frequencies of Family, Security, Core Value and Self Confidence. This color grounds you and feels like a Hug. Red's frequencies act like the foundation of a building.
- Families, organizations and security are based on red and earth color frequencies.
- How people feel about you and what they expect from you matters very much;
- You may reach for First Chakra when you feel you are missing family or security also.
- Reds, Browns, Okras, Plum, Maroon and Taupe are 1st Chakra Sweater Colors.
FEEL LIKE YOU ARE DRIFTING AND SHAKY? Balance by wearing a red, brown or taupe sweater to give you strong earthy foundational roots.
ORANGE/ SWEATER - 2ND CHAKRA
CREATIVE AND SEXUAL ENERGY radiate from your orange sweater. When feeling focused on a project that needs special energy this is often the Chakra Sweater favorite. Writing a book? Organizing a function or project? Need to think and strategize?
- Your Orange sweater says you are calm in the face of chaos or turmoil.
- FEEL LIKE YOUR IN NEED OF NEW IDEAS? Balance by wearing an orange sweater for a boost in creative juices and sexual empowerment.
YELLOW / GOLD SWEATER - 3RD CHAKRA
From your 3rd Chakra Gold or Yellow sweater radiate the Wings of Angels and Intuitive Personal Empowerment.
- Your Gold 3rd Chakra sweater is related to your personal self image and relates to your self worth, self confidence and personal empowerment.
- Feel Worried? Reach for your Angels and Intuition. Balance by wearing a Yellow sweater to fight the blues with sunshine and golden light.
GREEN /PINK SWEATER - 4TH CHAKRA
Your 4th Chakra Green or Pink Sweater speaks of Unconditional Love and the Healing power of this color frequency is awesome.
- Green and Pink, are heart chakra colors of unconditional love that’s potential is oneness with God and nature.
- Love, tolerance and compassion resonate within you.
- FEEL AS IF YOU ARE BEATING YOUR SELF UP? Balance by wearing a green or pink sweater to sooth your angry inner chatter.
- Put your negative feelings for self or loved ones on a back burner. Wear your green sweater to strengthen inner love.
BLUE SWEATER - 5TH CHAKRA
Your 5th Chakra Blue Sweater is the "Communicator" and "Truth Speaker". With the joy of a child it sings free and clear with out shame.
- You likely wave your arms and hands when you speak.
- FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE LOST YOUR VOICE? Balance by wearing a blue sweater when you feel you have lost your voice or feel no one is listening. Speak out in your blue 5th Chakra sweater!
INDIGO SWEATER - {BLUE / BLACK} - 6TH CHAKRA
Your 6th Chakra Indigo or Black sweater speaks keenly of Wisdom and a Sixth Sense. You are the divine mystic presence of antiquity and sacred 3rd Eye. A feeling of "Knowing" is with you in your 6th Chakra Indigo or Black sweater.
- You are not effected by your emotions, but intuitive wisdom. You see the issue at hand.
- You are naturally a person of non-attached clairvoyance.
FEEL YOU ARE ANALYZING TOO MUCH? Balance and wear your Indigo or Black sweater to recapture your wise non-attachment to make decisions that count despite crowd opinion.
WHITE OR PURPLE SWEATER - 7TH CHAKRA
In your White or Purple 7th Chakra Sweater you are surrounded by light and love. You are encased in a temple of light and spirit.
- It is no coincidence that many religions don white robes for prayer.
- In your white or purple sweater you are in rapture with the glory of the Universe.
- White is a color worn to represent spirituality, a clean slate, mystic oneness.
- Purple is often chosen to represent royalty and attunement with the Universe.
NEED RAPTURE IN YOUR LIFE? Balance and wear your white or purple sweater to make a clean slate, and recapture your spirit after a disillusioning day.
Delivering a new enlightened you comes AFTER the pain of depression, illness and helplessness.
It may feel as if you are being tested.
The light and dark “essence” fight within
you and it feels as if you will never be happy again.
You read the Self Help books and
can reason that negative thoughts create stagnancy. But no matter what you have
read or how much you spent on a course of Abundance, your actions and words need
discipline.
Why?
WHAT IS SOUL PIRACY?
The universe is a giant kitchen lab of unconditional
love. As you live and talk, so shall you
create your reality. Every time you say “I
Can’t” you add the salt and pepper to season your limits. Your words make it so. Like pirates on the
sea the negative vibrations from your own words and thoughts, steel away your
hope and creative possibilities.
WHAT IS A SPIRITUAL MIDWIFE?
A Spiritual Midwife is a Light Worker that can help you
through your darkness and pain.
A voice of warmth, a Psychic Worker or Spiritualist becomes
the “Midwife” that delivers truth and clarity
and births your inner light. Each delivery
is different. But if you keep an open
mind that truth and tears are part of the birthing process, you will bring
forth a greater wisdom on your life, love and spirit.
He calls every day, or sees you any chance he can get. Suddenly
his obcession stops. At first he doesn't communicate but a few days.
You tell yourself this is no problem. So you hang on a month. In
that 4 weeks he has dwindled to 2 calls. Then it just all stops. Why?
The Answers are as varied as the type of men there are. Here are some:
YOU CHANGED INTO ANOTHER WOMAN ONCE IN LOVE.
This often happens to the professional woman that puts an aloof and
balanced face to the public. She seems joyful or as if little bothers
her. And most of all there is a mystifying boundary around her that
absolutely intrigues men. Once in love she turns needy as a child.
Men become shocked. They had enjoyed the elusive woman....but this?
HE WAS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE
Right away he said words like, "Marriage", "I love You", "I Want
Children"......and you fell hook, sync and anchor into the belief that
what he said you could believe. You start saying the same words back
to him and suddenly he begins to pull back. Confused you call and
message him, maybe even scold him. Now his picture is back on the
dating sites, he says he is disappointed and with second consideration
he does not want to rush anything. {This is a danger zone.} He leads
you to believe with back off time he will know what he wants.} He
doesn't. This is the player that has found his tool to net women.
WORDS.
HE PUTS HIS FOOT IN THE DOOR JUST SO YOU WON'T CLOSE IT.
You have finally moved on from a long hurtful relationship.
Suddenly he is calling again. It is as if he can mentally feel you are
healed from him. Just hearing his voice sends you backwards in to
pain. He doesn't call back. You wait by the phone because he says he
has thought things over and you mean too much to him to lose. This
happens over and over and over just when you are ready to move on.
HE WANTS YOU TO HAVE HIS BABY
Maybe you have known
him long or only a short time but he constantly begs you to have his
child. He says things would be different in his life if you had his
baby. You have your doubts but get pregnant anyway. He runs. In the mean time you find out the woman before and after you also got pregnant.
Maybe you sent love letters every day while he was in prison, sent him
money, and gave him a secure home when he got out. Either way, your
pregnant {by his request} and now he's gone. Why did he back off?
HE WANTED A MOMMY TO NURCHURE HIM ..SUDDENLY YOU HAVE PROBLEMS AND HE DOES NOT WANT TO HEAR THEM.
This is the broken winged bird. He has just gone through a rough
divorce, recovering alcoholism, a lost job or disability. Like
Florence Nightingale you made it your mission to be there for him.
Oddly, when you have a problem he is gone. Off to another mommy woman
he crys and she evolves her life around him. You are left high and dry
after an operation in the hospital with no visits, or no shoulder to
cry on in a life crisis. You are devastated. This lover was looking
to breast feed not have a mature partner.
YOUR RELATIONSHIP BECAME A PRIZON
Things started out wonderful. You felt it safe to expect he not
watch his Paid Preview Porn any more. After all, he had you. In turn,
he said he expected you to never go out. Soon your friends quit asking
you to go any where. Dutifully you followed your half of the bargain. He did
not follow his end. He is a `Masta-holic' and could not stay sane of
mind with out extracurricular activity. You found his Paid Preview
Porn bill and it was not pretty. You had been ripped off. When you
bitched about his lying unfaithfulness, he accused you of being too
controlling. Now he is mentally gone. All you have left is time
invested and hostile untrusting silence.
HE IS A NEW AGE BAD BOY AND LIKES FRIENDS - WITH - BENEFITS
Here is an odd twist. The New Age Bad Boy loves peace, sensitive
conversation, the Dali Lama and can even be a mentor for many people.
He makes you feel enlightened, has "slow hands" and understands what
you need as a woman {or man.} Often he is bisexual. {He may say Sex
is a form of "communication" to expand spiritual consciousness.} You
thought he loved you. On your way to get Bagels, fresh out of the
covers, he calls another woman in town on his cell phone. In front of
you he tells "her" he needs a ride over as he has been staying with a
"friend". You demand fidelity. He looks wounded and says "He's sorry
you feel that way." You never hear from him again.
HE WAS THE WORLDS BEST LOVER BUT NEVER TOOK YOU OUT IN PUBLIC
Maybe he was married, and absolute secrecy was the rule. Perhaps
he was a flirt offering you wonderful attention in the privacy of your
home, but never took you out no matter how many times you mentioned
it. The sex was amazing so you put up with it. Eventually you just
quit asking for a night out. Welcome to the booty call man. A date
for dinner out is next to marriage in this mans eyes. He worries
constantly that his other victims may see him with you. Freedom of
choice is his rule. Get an AIDS test.
WHAT CAN I DO FOR YOU AS A READER?
I will ask you for your loved ones name. I will connect with
his/her energy and focus on 3 questions first before taking questions:
1} HOW DOES HE FEEL ABOUT YOU?
2} WHAT ARE HIS INTENISONS FOR YOU?
3} IS THERE A FUTURE FOR YOU BOTH WITHIN 12 MONTHS TIME
I will read on your situation and be honest with you. In this
world the last thing you need is a pretty fluff reading that will lead
you on to stay in a bad relationship. I will also tell you if the
person of your life truly is worth your time and effort.....all things
are possible. Your wise actions control the course of much of your
life.
What will President Obama's historical legacy be? If prayer is the telephone line to the Universe and God, what happens when the world prays for a world power to go down? Could Universal manifesting be a catalyst to the financial collapse of another country? How will have President Obama's legacy have changed America's image? How will history see we treated him?
Despite what hysteria conservative America is hurling to God and the Universe against Obama, his greatest historical Presidential contribution will be that he traveled the world and brought world leaders together. In short he brought America's "good guy" image back. If you are surviving hard times, it helps to have Universal friends.
WHO ARE THE "OATH KEEPERS?"
- In the 60's they called them "S.D.S." or "Weathermen", convinced Nixon would find a way to put all free thinkers in Concentration Camps fanatical underground armies crawled with guns in woodland boot camps preparing for Gov't take over. .
"The Oath Keepers" are Conservative underground fanatical law officers and Gov't officials training and enlisting veterans to protect against Gov 't take over by the Liberals. - Convinced that President Obama is creating detention camps {concentration camps}like Hitler, the Oath Keepers feel the country is on the verge of taking away all guns and freedom and desecrating the Constitution of America.
- Many of the very problems they are accusing President Obama of he inherited from George Bush on his first day in office.
- The "Oath Keepers" profess their belief is not based on President Obama's race, but Gov't take over the downfall of our country.
- Add to this the Biblical and Aztec prophesy that the world is ending in 2012 and you have very frightened people waiting for the end to come.
A one term presidential "bridge" in which President Obama brings America back to the arms of "world grace" will be his historical Presidential legacy. - President Obama's term as first black president will be judged by the predictable increase in white "Patriot" vigilante groups as the "dark before the dawn" before true equality.
- President Obama will not be able to fix the economy.
- President Obama's shining star will be "Health Care", however "Public Option" will be not accepted in his terms.
- Presedent Obama's Passion will be to make the Afghanistan war a International joining team effort, but not to take the war on as his own. He chooses to not have mass American soldier life loss.
- The financial crash of corporate greed and spending irresponsibility, {before Obamas term}, will be compared to the natural process of the "dark before the dawn."
- It will take at least 10 years for Conservatives to accept that Obama's place in history was for the diplomatic better good of the nation to regain grace.
One
of the most important relationship rules you can remember is that you
must “train” the person you love how to treat you from the beginning. It’s really no different then training a puppy not to pee on the floor. Allow the pup to continue having accidents with out discipline, the pup will still mess on your floor. Put that {lover} in the hands of someone who cracks down and magically they behave. Why didn't we do that? We get so hurt and aggravated when someone's abusive behavior becomes an Angel for another. Pay attention to unforgivable red flags. Don't forget to take your "bitch pill" when he/she:
· cancels plans without calling first,
· continues to drop in at all hours of the night without plans,
· would rather see you at your bedroom instead of taking you out,
· Borrows the car / money from you without paying you back.
· wants sex but continues to say you are just friends.
· Loves to make you jealous but insists you are "psycho" for being so.
· Uses suicide to keep you in their life
· Hits you
HOW TO SAY NO FOR BOTH MEN AND WOMEN
The following references are for training first stage relationships. One of the problems for women and men who are consistently taken advantage of, is
they believe that "talk" "talk" and more "talk" will heal the
relationship problem. After awhile they begin to feel as if they
are beating thier head into walls. For these exasperated souls, {both
men and women}, I suggest learning how to "take a bitch pill."
- "OTHER" CANCELS PLANS REPEATEDLY: ......
Just do not accept the next plan. Words are cheap. Action is
everything. Refuse to nurture the canceller. They need to earn your
company. Say no with evasiveness.
- DROPS IN OR CALLS WITH OUT PLANS: Let
the answering machine take their call. Answer the door and say,
"Another time? Give me a call first. Thanks for stopping by." Sounds
cruel, but so is their lack of consideration. Is "other" waking you
out of deep sleep to chat or talk sexualy but never during the day?
Not good.
- BED ROOM DATES INSTEAD OF DINNER DATES: This
is called a Booty Call. Don't allow it. It is an absolute
sealed deal once you allow your bed to be the second encounter. It
will continue to be the "safe zone" to non commitment. Say NO, explain
why, and be consistent.
- BORROWS THE CAR AND MONEY REPEATEDLY:
The second
time you loan your car, the more it will be asked for. The SECOND
time you give out money, for sure it will be expected you
loan again. If they are doing nothing to help themselves, why should
you? Tell the car loaner your insurance does not allow it. SAY NO to
loaning money without return.
- FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS:
Do you really believe this will blossom into something more? Just say
no. A friend is a friend, a lover is a lover. Say NO the next time
"friend" is mentioned when you thought it was more. It's ok if they
feel that way. But its not ok for you to settle for less if you need
more.
- GOES OUT OF THEIR WAY TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS:
If
this person spends more time talking to others then you, why even go
out a second time? Just say you had a nice time at night ending, and
realize you saw a taste of what is to come. Don't make a scene or be
angry.
- THEY USE SUICIDE THREATS TO MAKE YOU STAY: Careful compassion is needed with this soul. Do give a concerned ear
and 1-800 SUICIDE #. This person needs a therapist. Believe their
threats of death, and refrain from feeling the need to be their Angel
of Mercy. This is what psychologists are for. Their need holds
essence of control over you, and could cause guilt forever...and
ever....and ever.
- HITS YOU, THEN GIVES LOVE
Don't allow a second time. Walk away the first time it happens. WALK AWAY. Say No to abuse.
It’s up to you of course. But remember,
if you are always walked over because you are a slave to
your compassion, its time to change your patterns. You have much more
power then you think. Remember that if you allow a puppy to pee on the floor, it will continue to have accidents. The choice is yours.
She felt like she was throwing a knife into her own big toe. It wasn’t that she purposely looked for cold men. They were drawn to her strength. It was exciting for them to see her passionate and vulnerable. But the closer she got to their heart and souls, the higher their boundaries became. She changed. She could feel herself turn into a tearful little girl. This irritated them. She couldn’t even figure herself out. She remembers the time she actually waited years for a guy to come around. Back and forth he came into her life, always running when things seemed perfect.
HERE ARE SOME REASONS MEN MAY BE COLD
• He was hurt once and won’t let it happen again
• He thinks he has more control if he is evasive
• He loves to be needed but career always comes first
• His mother always comes first {and that inheritance}
• He loves to love from a distance.
• He likes to conquer strong women. Its like winning a contract.
• He’s repulsed by hormone drama
• He likes it just the way it is. No promises.
EXCUSES FOR HANGING ON TO COLD MEN
• If you hang on he will love you eventually
• He’s hiding his true feelings
• Even though he’s put you off for years, he’s your soul mate
• As long as you’re his only woman it’s ok
• If you entice him with great sex his heart will melt
• He’s married. If you don’t complain he’ll leave her.
SIGNS YOUR WITH A COLD MAN
• Your supposed to read his silence. When you do, he rejects you.
• He entices you to go out behind your mates back. Then he rejects you high and dry. {Challenge over.}
• He won’t look you in the eyes
• When things get “real” he stops calling.
• He rejects you in public to sit by yourself
• He’s repulsed by emotional feelings
SIGNS YOU ARE NOT READY TO HEAL
• You confuse anxiety with sexual chemistry
• The challenge to conquer his heart becomes tunnel vision
• You turn off on men that are too nice {no challenge}
• You call cold men “Intelligent.” You must have a “thinking man”
• You see men sensitive to your needs as weak
• You make excuses for his coldness, and wait…and wait.
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At this time of year it’s easy to get overwhelmed and depressed. May I suggest a Purge Reading? A Spring Life Cleaning reading looks at the NOW of your life, on the good with the bad, and where you stand.
This is not a fluff reading to compliment your ego. "Purge" means ridding yourself of excess sabotage. Remember! Truth can be hard to hear, but leads to healing and a better future. Positive changes seen in your life will also come forth. Its all good.
WHY A PURGE READING?- Purge = Cleaning out the blocks of romance, career and Finances
- A Purge Reading congratulates your accomplishments as well
- A Purge Reading = Mental Tune Up to Clear your Juices for 2010
- Therapy & Psychic Counseling
- Where are you now in life?
- After a good reading write important points down to meditate on.
- Want to go over important new ideas later? This gives you a starting point.
WHAT IS AN AUTUMN SOUL CLEANING READING?
- When Autumn Housekeeping the first thing you do is tackle the clutter.
What are you emotionally hoarding?
- Throw out the useless, clear out your energy for new love, {better love,} career or spiritual bliss.
- An Autumn Soul Cleaning looks at the NOW of your life first
- What Patterns have been Cluttering your life journey?
- Remember! I can tell you what I see. The house cleaning is yours.
- What comes up as the first thing to throw out in your life?
- What goals need cleaning up so you can shine in 2010?
Remember only your first name and a question is needed for a detailed reading on your life concerns.