As a Virgo woman, you have probably taken control of every detail in your life. But what about finding love? Have you used your detail-oriented nature to devise a list of all of the qualities you are looking for in your perfect mate? Or have you given in to your idealistic side and decided that you will know exactly who your soulmate is the moment your eyes meet?
Virgos often have a difficult time finding love because of these two conflicting aspects of their personalities. For this reason, most astrologers would likely encourage you to consult a psychic in order to hone your instincts and filter through all the confusing signs that often come from your ruling planet of Mercury.
You probably feel, as most women do, that finding love is a daunting task. Finding love is not easy for anyone. But you can improve your chances dramatically by learning how to use the essence of who you are to discover what you want and need in a lifelong partner. For this reason, you need to understand what being a Virgo is truly all about, how your sign affects your choices and behaviors, and how it determines with whom you will be most compatible.
Outlining the characteristics of a Virgo does not mean every woman who was born under this sign is exactly the same. Nor does it mean that every trait is automatically applicable to you. However, a general understanding of what being a Virgo means can help you find the love and romance you seek. You should ultimately consult a psychic so that he or she can directly address aspects of your personality that might stray from the norm. But here are the basics of the Virgo personality:
Virgos tend to be very analytical, which means they often thrive in the business world, but in the world of romance maybe not so much. This is because they tend to analyze every detail of a potential partner's behavior. On the outside they appear to be calm and completely together, but on the inside, their thoughts are often zipping around their brain at the speed of light.
This can cause distraction that, to a potential mate, may be mistaken for disinterest. Therefore the first thing a Virgo woman who is looking for love needs to remember is to focus. If your date is talking to you about his passion for mountain climbing, and the whole time, your mind is asking you questions like "Would we really be compatible?" and "Why does he eat his peas one at a time?" and "Is he staring at my nose? Why is he staring at my nose?" chances are this date is not going to go well. Calm your mind. Look your date directly in the eye and focus.
Another common characteristic of the Virgo woman – one that is inherently in conflict with her analytical side – is that she is a hopeless romantic. She fantasizes about the moment that she will see her soulmate across a crowded room. A lilting ballad begins to play in her mind as they float toward each other in oblivious bliss. Then, of course, the song skips and those annoying questions start roaring through her brain again, completely spoiling the moment.
So what is a Virgo woman supposed to do to keep her romantic side from sending her to a fantasy land in the clouds but also keep her analytical side from bursting her bubble and sending her crashing down to Earth? Ultimately the key is to find a balance between these two aspects of your personality – something that can most effectively be achieved in two ways:
- Consult a psychic to discover where your inner balance lies
- Look for a mate who is statistically more likely to be compatible with you, according to Virgo standards
Traditionally, a Virgo woman tends to be most compatible with a Taurus and least compatible with a Pisces man. This is because Taurus is a fixed Earth sign, meaning that he is grounded and practical enough to understand the analytical side of the Virgo, yet he is just whimsical enough to cater to her romantic side. Virgos are Earth signs as well, and so are Capricorn men, which run a close second to Tauruses when it comes to being romantically compatible with Virgos.
Those born under the water sign Pisces, on the other hand, are likely to be a virtual nightmare with their attraction to turmoil and their disordered lives for the structured, meticulous Virgo. Water signs (including Cancer and Scorpio) in general should, in fact, be avoided, as they all tend to thrive on chaos and disorder. Water signs also tend to be too emotional to get along well with the practical, no-nonsense Virgo man. The last thing you want is to spend your life comforting your crying husband because you hurt his feelings when you asked him to pick up his dirty socks.
Again, none of these factors is set in stone. Virgos do tend to have certain characteristics, but no two people are exactly the same. In fact, no attempts at finding love are entirely comparable either. So if you are a Virgo woman looking for love, take the advice given here, but also be sure to consult a psychic to get a reading that applies specifically and uniquely to you.
Look at is this way: Many people diagnose their own illnesses by looking up information on the Internet. But they are not getting the full picture until they actually visit a doctor and receive a professional diagnosis. The situation here is the same. Now that you've got the basics, consult a psychic expert to tailor the information directly to your own special needs and unique personality. Afterward, finding love just might become even more natural to you than organizing your closet!
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|Published: September 9, 2009