Getting to Know the Sagittarius Man

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Black and white illustration of a couple sitting at dinner with the Sagittarius Archer over a red background behind them

Sagittarius is a fun-loving, happy sign that's usually a joy to be around. The Archer seems to always be upbeat, and he wants everyone around him to be the same way. If you're down in the dumps, he'll cheer you up with his witticisms and cajoling. You'll never find a Sagittarius man boring. He loves to travel, and an incredible appetite for adventure.

The Archer is open and honest and never tries to hide his feelings, so you'll know exactly where he stands on most issues. Don't ask him a question unless you're prepared to hear the unabashed truth. He never means to be hurtful; it's just that he isn't a very good liar, even when a small fib could spare your feelings. On the other hand, when a Sagittarius man pays you a compliment, you can rest assured that he's being sincere. If he tells you that he loves you, he'll mean it, but you might never hear those words from him. Even if he should fall in love with you, he might still have trouble committing to marriage or any long-term relationship.

Finding and Keeping the Sagittarius Man

The Archer loves all the earth's creatures – both human and animal. So, you might find him at a dog show, a horse show, a zoo, an animal shelter or a wildlife preserve. Because he has so much compassion for his fellow man, he may volunteer at soup kitchens, homeless shelters or nursing homes. Sagittarius is fiercely competitive by nature, so you might find him engaging in sports, too. With an insatiable appetite for travel, many Sagittarius men find jobs in the travel industry. He might be a travel agent or work for the airlines or a cruise ship. Archers tend to frequent exotic locales, so if you get the chance to visit such places, you'll likely run into several Sagittarius guys.

Sagittarius is drawn to intelligent, dynamic women. Getting his attention usually isn't difficult as he finds practically everyone interesting. The problem will be keeping his interest. He becomes bored easily and finds commitment difficult. He often feels that he should experience a wide variety of women instead of settling all his energies on just one. To keep an Archer's interest, never allow him to become bored with you or with the relationship. If he finds himself in a rut, he'll seek excitement elsewhere. Do the same in the bedroom by being bold and creative in your lovemaking. Never worry about shocking him, most Sagittarius men are game for just about anything.

Compatibility with Other Zodiac Signs

  • Aries March 21 – April 19

    Both the Sagittarius man and Aries woman enjoy life to the fullest, so a relationship between the two should be fun and exciting. Each partner will totally understand the other's needs and desires. The only problem might be that these two will be so caught up in each other, they'll risk ignoring friends.

  • Taurus April 20 – May 20

    The Taurus woman may be too much of a homebody for the Sagittarius man, who prefers a busy social life. The Archer's flirtatious nature will not set well with the security-loving Bull. She'll need to go against her nature to avoid feeling threatened or insecure with his outgoing personality.

  • Gemini May 21 – June 21

    The Sagittarius man will find the Gemini woman captivating. They'll enjoy many activities together, but since neither is very demonstrative, this match might not have much passion if they don't make an effort to stoke those flames.

  • Cancer June 22 – July 22

    Sagittarius craves adventure, travel and meeting new people, while the Cancer woman may rather be at home with her family. Because of the Crab's deep need for stability and security, the Archer may feel trapped. Cancer woman may need to work on not being so clingy if this relationship is to stand the test of time.

  • Leo July 23 – August 22

    With some work, the Leo woman can build a future with the Sagittarius man. Both signs are passionate, so there'll be no lack of romance. Problems will arise when Sagittarius pays too much attention and energy on others, which could end up hurting the prideful Lion.

  • Virgo August 23 – September 22

    Careful and pragmatic, the Virgo woman may see Sagittarius as careless and irresponsible. The Archer will find her too sensible and boring, and he may never be able to give her the emotional security she craves. If paired together, these two will have their work cut out for them.

  • Libra September 23 – October 22

    Both the Libra woman and Sagittarius man are free spirits who will understand this need in each other. This pair will have a lot of fun attending parties and other social functions together, and their lives will never be boring.

  • Scorpio October 23 – November 21

    The Scorpio woman is passionate about everything, while Sagittarius is rarely passionate about anything. The Scorpion won't easily relate to the Archer's casual attitude about life and love. This may make it hard for her to believe he is truly devoted to her until she is able to interpret his nature.

  • Sagittarius November 22 – December 21

    A relationship between a Sagittarius woman and Sagittarius man could thrive in the sense that both will view life as one exciting adventure. Unfortunately, neither will want to face mundane chores and decisions that everyday living requires, which could be a challenge.

  • Capricorn December 22 – January 19

    The Capricorn woman is all about responsibility and taking care of business, while the Sagittarius man prefers to have fun. Capricorn also needs to know her lover is truly committed to the relationship, and likely will have trouble with Sagittarius' flirtatious, flamboyant ways.

  • Aquarius January 20 – February 18

    Both the Sagittarius man and Aquarius woman need to retain their individuality in a relationship. This should not be a problem with this match. Both signs enjoy meeting new people and discovering new horizons, and the pair will share many great conversations together.

  • Pisces February 19 – March 20

    The Pisces woman is very sensitive, so the Archer's blunt honesty may hurt her feelings. The Fish needs security in a relationship, and Sagittarius may feel smothered by her need for constant reassurance. If these two are to make it for the long haul, he'll need to reign in his casual flirtations, and she'll need to be more understanding about his need to socialize.

Where to Find Help

If you're looking for love with a Sagittarius man, you'll want to be sure of his intentions before falling hopelessly for him. The Archer falls in and out of love easily, and you don't want to be just another of his casual relationships. A professional astrologer can offer excellent advice about how to proceed. They can create personalized charts and analyze precise points of compatibility.

Finding love is never easy, but it can be especially difficult with a Sagittarius man due to his fear of commitment. Calling a talented astrologer can help you discover the best strategies for keeping the Archer intrigued. He or she may also use tarot cards, runes, numerology or other spiritual tools and to help guide you on your path to true love. They can help you learn how your Sagittarius man thinks, and what he needs to keep him satisfied in the relationship.


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