You know, Virgo and Scorpio, you have a really good chance of success if you’re considering any type of relationship or partnership. Make no bones about it – seeing a Virgo woman and a Scorpio man together is not really a surprise. These two signs are among the better pairings of the zodiac – extremely compatible with each other – and while all might not be sweetness and light each day, overall, you’re likely to do just fine!
Don’t misunderstand, this doesn’t mean your relationship will be boring and one of just settling into a routine (unless that’s what you want, in which case go for it). But your general sun sign traits fit together well and if the rest of your chart aspects and personality traits are in tune with each other, the astrological forecast is pretty clear for you.
The Virgo Woman
Virgo is a practical, straightforward woman who is detailed, probably health-oriented in some aspect, open with communication, and very good with money. She might have a problem with perfectionism that can make her seem the opposite of all these traits, but that’s because of analysis paralysis. If she can shake that off, it’s all systems go on well-thought-out plans.
Virgo women are independent and totally able to take care of themselves, but they do benefit from reassurance and honesty. Most people want a caring, trusting relationship, but this is especially important to Virgo as there can be a bit of imposter syndrome going on when she ends up as the center of attention, even if that attention is just as a friend. She might not show it – and she sure as heck doesn’t need to be babied – but a few well-timed words of support are gold.
The Scorpio Man
Scorpio can be very loyal, which is wonderful for the also-loyal Virgo. He’s usually stable and logical. He’s tends to be calm on the outside (though more on this later) and is confident enough to be able to reassure his Virgo partner. He has a competitive streak, but that’s not necessarily a problem – it just needs to be channeled in the right way. Remember, competition does not have to be adversarial.
Now about that calm exterior. It’s no secret that Scorpio is an intense sign and that calmness can mask some boiling lava. The good news is that Scorpio can control this emotional minefield. The bad news is that Scorpio can become quite cold and shut off from whomever or whatever has irked him. Scorpio also has a dark reputation, but that’s often just that – a reputation stemming from having Pluto as a co-ruling planet and having a penchant for dwelling on the deeper issues in life.
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How This Can Work Out
You’re both good with money, you can both step back and analyze a problem, you both plan well, you’re both loyal and usually sensible, you’re both independent, you’re both into details. In other words, you’ve got all these basic traits in common and, while other chart factors can certainly influence your specific personalities, you’re going to find this undercurrent of understanding. You’re also both respectful of privacy and, when things are good, communication is direct and flowing.
Virgo’s attention to health and Scorpio’s attention to some of the finer aspects of material life often blend well, creating a comfortable and practical home or office. Virgo is an earth sign and Scorpio is a water sign. Both water and earth work together to form a lovely landscape in which great things can grow. Any plans the two of you make should be interesting because, as a fixed sign, Scorpio can figure out the day-to-day workings that the plan requires and Virgo’s mutable quality allows her to comb over the plan, fixing and adjusting to suit unforeseen situations.
Every relationship is going to have its issues and Virgo and Scorpio are no different here. Scorpio’s interest in living well can sometimes result in spending that doesn’t seem so sensible, so if the Virgo in the equation keeps a tight grip on her spending, financial independence is a must for these two. A Scorpio man’s ability to become cold and withdrawn in a fight is at odds with a Virgo woman’s preference to hash things out. Virgo needs to give Scorpio some time to thaw before speaking, but Scorpio really needs to work on remembering that Virgo is a partner here and coldness will only put a problem on ice, rather than solve it.
One other issue is that Virgo may be more easy-going than Scorpio. Sometimes, this can be a real problem because easy-going can often devolve into letting things slide. An easy-going Virgo woman is still responsible, but she may not seem so concerned about issues eating away at Scorpio, which can make her look a tad uncaring. Meanwhile, Scorpio could look like he’s fulfilling that obsessive stereotype over something that’s pretty small in the scheme of things. Before either of you assume that one is being uncaring or oversensitive, remember that you have these different approaches, and that you need to both sit down and start analyzing what happened. Work it through step by step, and you’ll likely find the situation becoming a lot clearer and easier to work with.
Virgo and Scorpio as Partners
This is a pretty good pairing for business based on both signs’ ability to be sensible about money, and the ability of the mutable and fixed qualities to create a winning business plan. Have weekly meetings to update each other about different aspects of the business and to divide up duties for the next week. Virgo may want to take on a more public role than Scorpio so that Scorpio can concentrate on the details of a contract or new product or service. Keep good financial records, too, just so that both are aware of exactly what is happening with the company’s money. Look at food, health, and lifestyle for potential company ideas.
If you two are friends, there are no real major astrological clashes other than the cold-Scorpio-open-Virgo issue. Given your interests in health and good living, dining out, cooking together, and finding something physically active to do could play a large role in your friendship. You’re also both able to look at the philosophical side of life, so afternoons and evenings spent in deep conversation over coffee or tea could be just what you both need, too.
Romantically, you two are a stable match. Watch the conflict-resolution styles, again, and approach whatever you do as two partners trying to create a great life together. Scorpio can be a passionate sign and Virgo has a healthy constitution, so to speak, but this isn’t an unpredictable, hot-and-cold romance. A Scorpio man and a Virgo woman is a cozy pairing.
If you want to find out more about how the two of you might react in different situations, you can get an online astrology reading. Knowing what each of you has to deal with and how your charts interact gives you more information to work with. And this is a pairing worth working on!