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Which Attachment Style Are You? Take the Quiz & Find Out

Free Attachment Style Quiz

Attachment styles play a major role in love and dating. Experts say they shape how you approach relationships—from who attracts you, to how you handle conflict, and how well you resolve challenges together. Your attachment style influences every part of your romantic life.

Figuring out your attachment style can be tricky. With so many confusing terms, it’s hard to know where to start. Our free attachment style quiz is here to help you see the patterns you tend to follow in love and relationships.

Quiz: What’s Your Attachment Style in Love?

Grab a pen, paper, and take the quiz below to find your attachment style, then read our guide on attachment styles in relationships to learn what it means.


1. When someone pulls away emotionally, you usually…

A. Try to get closer and seek reassurance
B. Feel relieved and retreat into yourself
C. Panic, but pretend you’re fine
D. Talk about it openly and ask what’s going on


2. In relationships, your biggest fear is…

A. Being abandoned or replaced
B. Losing your independence
C. Getting hurt the moment you let your guard down
D. Having your needs misunderstood


3. How do you typically handle conflict?

A. Over-communicate, even if it causes tension
B. Shut down or avoid it entirely
C. Swing between silence and explosion
D. Stay calm and try to resolve it together


4. What’s your texting style in a romantic relationship?

A. Lots of messages and check-ins
B. Delayed responses, minimal texting
C. Hot and cold—depends on your mood
D. Steady, consistent, and responsive


5. How do you feel about emotional vulnerability?

A. Terrifying, but you crave it
B. Uncomfortable—better to stay private
C. You want it, but don’t trust it
D. Comfortable and healthy


6. When someone expresses a need for space, you feel…

A. Rejected
B. Relieved
C. Confused
D. Understanding


7. You’re most drawn to partners who…

A. Give you constant attention and affection
B. Are independent and low-maintenance
C. Are intense and unpredictable
D. Are emotionally open and steady


8. When you’re upset, your first instinct is to…

A. Reach out immediately
B. Disappear for a while
C. Spiral, then isolate
D. Reflect and then talk it out


9. Which phrase sounds most like you?

A. “Why don’t they text me back?!”
B. “I don’t need anyone.”
C. “I want love, but I don’t trust it.”
D. “Let’s figure this out together.”


10. Your ideal relationship feels like…

A. Constant closeness and reassurance
B. Freedom with minimal emotional pressure
C. Intense, unpredictable passion
D. A safe space to grow and be seen


Attachment Style Quiz Results

Tally all your answers and see which letter appears most, then check below to learn about your attachment style.

Mostly A’s → Anxious Attachment Style

You crave closeness and often worry about your partner’s feelings or commitment. Recognizing this pattern is the first step toward greater security.

Mostly B’s → Avoidant Attachment Style

You value independence and may pull away when things get too close or intense. Understanding this style can help you open up and connect more deeply.

Mostly C’s → Disorganized Attachment Style

You want connection but also fear getting hurt, which can cause mixed signals in relationships. Awareness is key to breaking this cycle.

Mostly D’s → Secure Attachment Style

You’re comfortable with intimacy and trust, able to balance independence with closeness. This healthy style helps you build lasting, fulfilling relationships.

Want to dive deeper? Connect with a Keen Psychic for personalized love insights.

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