I ask God to speak through me and give me the words I need to help you. God guides us by giving us 1st gut feelings on right and wrong directions. So always follow your 1st gut feelings they are always right, your 2nd gut feelings are not. Be very careful in speaking with so called "Guides" for you really don't know who they are, or can be, or where they came from. And remember, never go out of your way to hurt or harm anyone, for that is the key to heaven, and never give up.