Aperture

Social Media is not reality.

I’ve been a public psychic for 30 years. And in that time my philosophy about psychic perception, people, romance, relationships and Free Will has evolved.

Optimizing your life frequently requires tremendous effort. Romantic connections (sometimes Optimal Mates) are a spiritual challenge. Often it’s a delicate balance between being active and passive. These nuances are difficult to keep up with. Human beings are the most complex beings on the planet.

I can focus on your person of interest and tell you all about them. I can explain their emotions, their reactions and their beliefs about life and you. I can give you understanding. When I explain your amore, what customers almost never ask is “what am I doing to contribute to the miscommunication and misunderstandings.”

You can, and probably are very justified in your views and position. But gaining an understanding of exactly how you and your POI mesh together are a different issue entirely.

Going forward I will tell you about your Optimal Mate (if your POI is yours) and what the best trajectory looks like for the two of you. However, I will also tell you what I feel like you are likely to be able to tolerate and change.

It doesn’t matter how optimal the path. If neither you or your POI are willing to grow and change, and let go of the destructive patterns that are holding you back from the relationship you want, nothing wonderful will materialize.

We do absolutely have Free Will. However, what people CAN do and change and what they WILL do and change are two very different things.