Didn't resonate. She said he doesn't give the same vibration off emotionally. He cares, but only interested in himself, in nine months he might feel differently, and "some movement" will happen. After a year if someone doesn't know if they are interested in continuing to get to know me or are attracted to me then why would I wait around hoping one day he might? I've spent much of my dating life waiting around hoping a man will realize they want more with me. I'm always just a friend. I wasn't asking her if he was going to marry me, I just wanted to know if this guy was ever going to take me out for a drink. I'm worth at least that. It shouldn't take a year+9 months to decide that much!