Once I confirm the identity of the spirit that wishes to speak with the caller, I enter a trance state and simply repeat what is told to me by the dearly departed. It's like one ear is alert to hear the caller's questions, and of course the spirit hears them too so I may add their body language and other details.....at times readings become humorous for the caller and myself.
There is nothing cursed about this, I am 100% impartial and a messenger and forget all that was said due to the trance state. What is conveyed is for you and you alone.