Super Great guy. Jim and his husband are my reality check. There is no topic that I have approached as a gay man that they do not understand where I am coming from. This man literally will help you heal and grow and become a better person. I was a sad wreck when my poi left, and he told me honestly he's gonna be back but do you and heal, and I have come a long way and still check in as I have days I slip back and am off track. He will reality check me and put me back on the rails. I love that they just didn't blow smoke. "I will tell you what your wanting to know, but don't expect it to be easy and this is how you get there" XOXO chat with him. it can be hard sometimes, but he's truly a gem.