Mediumship requires the medium to establish a firm connection with spirit. Please be understanding of the process and that it is not 'quick'. It is disrespectful to the spirits to rush through a mediumship session to try to get as much as you can in a few minutes. If you do this, you will not be satisfied, which in turn leaves me, as well as your loved ones, dissatisfied.
It is best to load your time with at LEAST 15 to 20 minutes for mediumship, if you would like to receive firm evidence of your loved ones' presence.
When requesting a connection to a specific person, I will ask you their name and relation to you. This helps to establish the connection a bit more quickly and precisely to start the flow of the session.
If doing mediumship in chat, a photo of the person is very helpful as well.