We all want to be totally in control of our finances. Even I, a powerful and amazing psychic, still want more control over my money handling. This is something that we all struggle with. Don't worry, I have the solution. First, we have to focus on what we want. Then write down our goals. Then spend money by budget only. Do you get me for where I'm trying to go? We overspend to compensate for our own insecurities. We are living way above our means.