Thank you so much for your advice!. You hit the nail on the head with every word you said. I know we are soulmates and we have learned so much from each other the past 3 or 4 years. F.Y.I. We first met in junior high and I was actually her first kiss. We were separated back then because I had to move away to Michigan. The night we came back in to each other's lives, I came home from work and she was at my apartment hanging out with my roommates. I didnt know exactly what it was going to be but I knew something huge was about to happen in my life about 2 hours before I got home. I now wonder what if I never had to move away in junior high? I enjoyed your reading very much. Thank you!!!