Get your cup of tea and come tell your queer aunt all about what is going on. I can break out my cards if you like, I can read intuitively, or we can just start talking. This is your time, so just let me know. Here are the kind of things I have been helping people with for a long time.
Relationships:
Relationships are like intestinal gas if you have to work that hard it's probably crap. Any time two or more adults try to make something work together there are going to be hard times. Sometimes a little compaction with your partner goes a long way. Sometimes there are too many hard times to make it work. Sometimes you just need an outsiders perspective on the subject.
Finding someone:
Trying to find someone worth being with starts with knowing your own worth. Once you know what your worth it can be hard to find someone of equal value. Most of the time a little self confidences and manifestation practice can make it a lot easier to find the person of your dreams.
Figuring yourself out:
"Knowledge is power. Knowledge of self is ultimate power." I don't remember who said that, but it's true. Loving yourself is having a relationship with yourself except you can't just walk out. The core of every good relationship is compaction and understanding. Do you have that for yourself or just others? Give me a call