I have found that being specific in what you ask for in your blessing is best. Asking for a blessing to come in a time frame and being specific about what it is you want to happen and how. I would like to be blessed with financial abundance of $5000 to come in 7 days in a good and gentle way. Don't want your favorite uncle to die to get you that money. The wrong way, I ask that the woman of my dreams come and love me. Its not specific enough, how long do you want her to stay and love you, one night, one year, your lifetime? Dreams is plural, could mean three or 10 women show up within weeks of each other, not good. Call me today and lets work on a blessing together. Spirit can't give you everything you want but it doesn't hurt to find out what it can do.