The term ‘twin flame’ is often used interchangeably with ‘soul mate,’ however, that’s a big misunderstanding. Where a soul mate is your perfect match, a twin flame is defined as your perfect mirror. Wondering if you’re in a twin flame relationship? Or are you wondering where your journey with your twin flame is going?
These are the 8 stages of every twin flame relationship:
1. Desire to Find Each Other
This is the first stage. You may have experienced bad relationship after bad relationship, struggling to understand why you have not found happiness with “The One” that doesn’t yet exist in your life. You wonder if there is better out there you wonder when you will truly find the one and what it will feel like. Deep in your heart you know that there is someone out there for you that fits into your life like that missing puzzle piece. But part of you is skeptic – if it truly exists you don’t quite know where or when they will appear in your life. Although you ache for your twin flame, you have a feeling they will appear into your life at some point.
2. Visualizing Your Twin Flame
At this point you begin to have a brief glimpse of your twin flame. You start to notice someone in your surroundings, and you feel the connection is growing stronger and stronger. All of a sudden, your twin flame is on your radar you can feel it or you can sense it. It feels like coming home. But the anxiety swells confusion, hesitation, excitement and joy all overflow at once. Only thing that you truly know is that this person is truly special and that the universe has put this person in your life and you’re not sure what’s next.
3. Falling for Your Twin Flame
When you begin to fall for this person you will fall fast and hard. You will even start to develop feelings for this person before you even truly start to know them. You will feel a connection with this person you’ve never felt with anyone else before. It will scare you because you will love this person so much and feel drawn to this person in such a way. It can feel overwhelming and even make you feel love sick and disorientated. And that’s when this becomes complicated.
4. The Relationship
This step may take some time to get to. Both of you eventually will make your feelings known to each other. Your relationship will feel wonderful, connected, joyful – everything that you possibly wanted. Then all of a sudden. as you get comfortable in the relationship, things start to go pear-shaped. They start to get difficult and there’s a standstill.
5. Emotional Hurt and Purging
This stage can be most difficult. Your twin flame becomes distant. You start to feel hurt, disappointed, confused and feel a need to look for answers. There’s no real reason why your twin flame became distant.
All the feelings of hurt start to come to the surface from previous relationships, previous disappointments, hurt and fears. Anger starts to surface. All of these feelings and emotions are necessary for growth of the relationship. It can feel very difficult and overwhelming.
6. Runner & Chaser
As things become more difficult it is very common for one partner or sometimes both to distance themselves completely for communication to stop. To physically withdraw and emotionally run away.
It becomes a game of cat and mouse. It’s sometimes involves an emotional shut down and the silent treatment. Other times involves physical separation and non-communication.
As tensions mount it is common for one partner (or sometimes both) to emotionally or physically withdraw and “run” away, and another to pursue in a game of cat and mouse. Other times this involves physical separation and in extreme cases, the permanent termination of the relationship.
7. Surrender and Let Go
At this point you’ve reached your wits end you don’t know what’s next you don’t know where you’re going. You’re frustrated that your partner has completely pulled away and now you begin to heal. You say to yourself that you will move on and start fresh with someone new – that it is best to let things go. A part of you doesn’t feel confident and you step back and forward. It is a very common to go through stages six and seven repeatedly through your twin flame relationship.
8. Being One With Each Other
As all of the previous hurts and problems become a thing of the past and this relationship becomes easier to deal with. You will enter the final stage which is finally getting together with each other and having a long-term loving for filling relationship that you have desired from the day that you met this person. You and your partner work on this relationship together to get it to that stable wonderful emotionally connected life changing relationship.
If you have been struggling through the stages and feel overwhelmed, contact me for advice and guidance on how to speed up the stages. I can help guide you to your most for filling twin flame relationship.
About the Author: Hi! Im Adeena, love psychic and twin flame specialist. I have over 27 years experience doing readings for clients. I specialize in reuniting you and the one you love, relationship repair, life path correction, and twin flames. I will help guide and navigate you through all love marriage and relationship problems. Thank you and I look forward to hearing from you. Many blessings!