As neighboring signs in the zodiac, the Virgo woman and Libra man have a special karmic link with one another. While this gives them great potential to learn from each other, it also can cause difficulties in romantic relationship. But this earth and air match has the potential to make their complex compatibility work.
The Libra Man – The Sociable Charmer
The Libra man is a people-person at heart. He is exceptionally charming and is always friendly and considerate of those around him. Others find this charm completely irresistible. Like the scale that represents his sign, the Libra man seeks balance in every aspect of his life. He avoids any conflict that threatens this delicate balance. He is very intelligent and well spoken.
The Virgo Woman – Self-Sufficient, Yet Loyal
In contrast to the sociable Libra, the Virgo woman is more introverted. She is very self-sufficient, structured, and efficient. She is completely devoted to those she loves, which makes her a great wife and mother. She is very adept at helping others who are hurting or in trouble. Her greatest downfall is her tendency to be extremely critical of others.
Something to Talk About
Great conversations are practically a guarantee whenever the Virgo woman and Libra man are together. He loves to talk, thanks to his charming and sociable personality. The Libra man has no trouble getting the conversation started and keeping it going. This takes pressure off of the Virgo woman, who tends to be a bit more reserved in newer relationships. But once she breaks through the initial shyness, she has absolutely no trouble talking freely. Once things get rolling, these two intellectuals can enjoy great conversations for hours on end.
A Slow Burn
Sexual chemistry can take time to develop between the Libra man and Virgo woman. They have a fundamental conflict of interests in the bedroom. The reserved Virgo woman is put off by Libra man’s flowery romanticism. On the other hand, he is bothered by her lack of imagination when it comes to making love. Finding that initial spark can be very challenging for this pair.
However, there is hope for their sexual attraction to grow over time. If the Libra man is willing to be patient and tender towards her, the Virgo woman will become more comfortable and willing to open up. This change will take time, but once she is able to trust him, she will be more willing to be vulnerable and supply the passion and expressivity he craves. This transforms the slow burn of their sexual chemistry into something they both crave and find fulfilling.
A Nagging Issue
One recurring issue this couple will likely have to deal with is the Virgo woman’s tendency to nag. From her point of view, she feels as though she is only “helping” the Libra man. After all, it is undeniably true that there is usually a good bit of truth behind her criticisms. At times this can even be beneficial, as the Libra man can improve his airy ideas with her grounded and practical suggestions. But constantly being under scrutiny and criticism by a Virgo woman can break almost anyone down – especially the sensitive Libra. This continuous nagging will hurt him deeply. Over time, it can cause him to feel as though he isn’t good enough for her.
The Libra man strives to avoid conflict at all costs. In order to maintain the peace, he will readily back down to the Virgo woman during a disagreement. He would rather give up and simply agree with her or withdraw himself from the conversation than get into an argument. The Virgo woman finds this incredibly frustrating, as her solution to conflict is to discuss it at great lengths.
While the Libra man backing down may offer a short term “solution”, these unresolved conflicts are always lurking in the shadows. Sometimes even unspoken words can cause a great deal of damage. Over time, the Libra man will grow resentful at needing to make these continuous sacrifices. In order to have healthy conflict resolutions, the Libra man will need to learn how to stand his ground against the Virgo woman so they can find mutually agreeable resolutions to their problems.
A Mutual Support System
Like any couple, the Virgo woman and Libra man will have to work through their differences if they want to maintain a stable, long term relationship. They work together exceptionally well, as there is no conflict to power here. The Virgo woman will happily work behind the scenes while allowing the Libra man to take the lead. Overall, this match has the potential to become something great together and form a calm bond with unwavering trust and support.
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