“I’ve got a big problem,” Trisha said. “I’ve met this great guy, Tom—well, actually I knew him already—and I’m falling in love.” “So your problem is…?” I asked. “He was my good friend’s boyfriend for two years. I mean, they are totally done, have been for months. We met again later and realized we were …
For some singles almost every waking minute is consumed with thoughts of romance. The perfect man or woman on your arm, someone to cuddle up to, plan a future with and chart a course towards happily-ever-after is the subject of the daydream imagination. For others the subject rarely crosses their mind except at night when …
At least once per day, usually much more frequently, I receive calls from clients asking about ex-loves from whom they wish to be given closure. Sometimes it is a freshly broken relationship and quite understandable that they would like to have a logical and mature discussion with their ex as to why the relationship failed, …
Inside a man’s mind… As you may have noticed, men and women are very different. The physical differences are obvious but what about disparities in motivation, thinking processes, and emotional landscapes? Ever wonder what he’s thinking? Perhaps you’ve asked yourself this question while feeling deeply confused or even intensely angry. This is a question women …
There are a thousand definitions of beauty. And there are many degrees of each. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There is sadness in beauty. Beauty can be ugly. It is a concept that has haunted poets, artists and academics for centuries. Males are visual creatures. In their minds’ eye, like the posters …
Men are notorious for being commitment-shy, but is this reputation truly fair and deserved? For some men, it certainly is, but not for all of them — not by a long shot. The trouble is, many men aren’t the type to come right out and put their deepest feelings, hopes and desires into words, especially …
The 5 Most Common Struggles For Couples Beyond the Honeymoon Stage After a year and a half of dating, Brittany, 29, was entertaining serious doubts about her future with John. The undeniable chemistry of their early courtship seemed a distant memory, and when she looked at John, she wondered where all those stomach-dwelling butterflies had …
“Honesty is the best policy.” Or is it? When you’re falling in love, growing intimacy is all about the well-timed reveal. A natural inclination to overshare can intimidate your new partner, but hesitating to disclose certain things about your past can cause hurt down the road. How will you know when it’s the right time …
Intimacy vs. Oversharing: Do You Overshare on Dates? Read More »
Have you ever been watching a romantic comedy–like Bridget Jones’s Diary or 27 Dresses–in which the hapless heroine is endlessly pining for and pursuing the wrong guy, when meanwhile, the perfect man is right under her nose, but she doesn’t see him? Don’t you feel like yelling, “Just stop! Daniel isn’t the guy for you! …
Dangerous Liaisons: 5 Signs He’s Not What He Seems Read More »
From ancient times, man has sought ways to improve his potency in bed, and women have pursued potions to render themselves irresistible to the various objects–male or female–of their affections. While love potions may conjure up images of sorcery, courtly love, and days of yore, modern science continues to produce data to support the idea …
