These questions will help tarot figure out your love life.
By Keen Editorial Staff

Whether you want to know when your partner is going to propose or you want to break a bad dating streak, love is top of mind for a lot of people getting psychic advice. If you’re thinking about getting a love tarot reading, knowing the questions to ask tarot cards about love is everything.

At Keen, we have some of the most skilled tarot readers in the world, but before you book a reading finish this article. We’ve put together a list of the 75 best love questions to ask a tarot reader so that you can find the clarity you’re looking for.

When you are ready, look for your personal tarot reader here.

Tips for Preparing Your Questions

The way you phrase your questions is just as important as the questions themselves. 


  • Be specific
  • Ask open-ended (no “yes or “no”) questions


  • Ask passive questions
  • Ask reassurance questions
  • Ask questions looking for a specific date to an event in your life

Good Questions To Ask Tarot Cards  

Finding Love

The desire to know how to find “the one” is a popular topic. In order to make your quest as successful as possible, here are some of the best questions to determine how you can find love.

  • How can I attract my soul mate?
  • What type of personality traits should I avoid when looking for a partner?
  • How can I attract my twin flame? 
  • What’s the best type of life partner for me? 
  • How can I attract the right person into my life?
  • Where am I most likely to find my soul mate?
  • How can I know if my crush is attracted to me? 
  • What steps do I need to take to attract true love?
  • How do I find a partner with the same life goals as me?
  • Does my crush like me?
  • What characteristics should I look for in a partner?
  • How can I be more confident when looking for love? 
  • What type of people have the best influence on me?
  • When will I find true love? 
  • What can I do to find my ultimate life partner? 
  • How do I know I’m ready to start a new relationship?

Coping With Loss

You can’t move on with your future if you’re stuck mourning the past. A psychic can guide you through the healing process so you can get on with your life. 

  • How can I get over a breakup?
  • Why can’t I let go of an ex?
  • How can I move on after divorce?
  • How can a future loved one replace the love I had before?
  • How can I cope with the loss of a loved one? 
  • How can I communicate with a deceased loved one? 
  • What should I learn from my recent breakup?
  • Would it be a good idea for me to try and communicate with a deceased loved one?

Relationship Road Bumps

Even the healthiest of relationships are subjected to a few road bumps here are there. Here are some questions to help you solve some of the most common issues. 

  • How can I strengthen the relationship with my partner? 
  • What past issues are coming up in my current relationship?
  • How can I be a better partner? 
  • Why is my marriage suffering? 
  • What are the threats to my relationship?
  • How can I get over my partner’s annoying habits?
  • What can I do to save my marriage?
  • What’s something I do not see in my current relationship?
  • How can I bring happiness back into my relationship
  • What false assumptions do I have about my partner?
  • How can I help my partner with a specific question? 
  • What does my partner want me to add to our relationship?
  • Why is my relationship in a holding pattern?
  • How can I increase sexual compatibility with my partner?
  • In what areas does my partner need more support?
  • How can I be more in tune with my partner’s feelings?
  • What habits need to change within my relationship?
  • How have I been sabotaging my relationships, and how can I change?


Gaining insight is one of the best ways to figure out your relationship highs and lows. A psychic can give you the clarity you’re seeking. 

  • What should I know about my relationship?
  • What is my path to a happy and successful relationship? 
  • How can I truly follow my heart?
  • What characteristics should I look for in a partner?
  • What’s the best way to communicate with my partner?
  • How do I know if my current partner is marriage material?
  • What parts of myself do I need to work on to have a balanced relationship?
  • What should I be aware of when starting my new relationship?
  • What’s the best way to gain clarity with my relationship?
  • What are my weaknesses with my relationship?
  • What are my partner’s unique qualities?
  • How can I stop repeating negative patterns in my relationship?
  • Where is my relationship headed?
  • What type of romantic getaway should I take with my partner?
  • Why do I keep thinking about my ex?
  • What does my love life have in store?
  • What rare qualities does my relationship have?
  • How have my previous relationships made me stronger? 
  • What does the universe want me to know about my love life?
  • What type of first date should I go on with my potential love interest?
  • What’s the most important quality my partner and I have in common?
  • How can I be more genuine in my relationships?
  • What’s holding me back from committing? 

Relationship Intel

Looking for confirmation about a potential relationship? Here are some of the best questions to ask a psychic.

  • Is the current person in my life my twin flame? 
  • Is the current person in my life my soul mate? 
  • What will happen if I get back together with my ex?
  • How do I know if someone is thinking about me? 
  • Is my current partner the right one for me? 
  • How do I know if I can stay friends with my ex?
  • Would my crush be a good match?
  • What should I do if my crush doesn’t have the same feelings?
  • What’s the best way to gain clarity within my relationship?

Writing Your Own Relationship Tarot Questions 

Here are a few tips to help you come up with effective relationship tarot questions. 

  • Grab a pen and paper and write down the first things that come to your mind about the current state of your love life.
  • List the pros and cons of your current situation.
  • Come up with a goal for your reading.
  • Use these notes to develop a list of targeted questions.

Are You Ready For Your Relationship Tarot Reading? 

Now that you’re prepped with the right love questions to ask tarot, it’s time to book a session with one of our tarot advisors. Not sure where to start? Here are some of our favorite love tarot advisors.. 

Insight From Dancing Petals



Melissa Alfred

Barbara’s Tarot Readings 



Lady Life Change

Echelon Consulting

Char the Brit 

Keen Editorial Staff
Keen's Editorial Staff is made up of world-class writers, astrologers, psychics, and advisors with diverse experience and spiritual sensitivity. 

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