75 Questions To Ask Tarot Cards About Love

These questions will help tarot figure out your love life.

Whether you want to know when your partner is going to propose or you want to break a bad dating streak, love is top of mind for a lot of people getting psychic advice. If you’re thinking about getting a love tarot reading, knowing the questions to ask tarot cards about love is everything.

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At Keen, we have some of the most skilled tarot readers in the world, but before you book a reading finish this article. We’ve put together a list of the 75 best love questions to ask a tarot reader so that you can find the clarity you’re looking for.

What Does the Love Card Mean in Tarot?

Traditionally, the love card (known as The Lovers) in Tarot represents the perfect union between two people. In most cases, harmony, love, and physical and mental attraction stem from this union, allowing those under its influence to find balance within themselves, and with each other in the form of a relationship. In this stage of the Tarot deck, The Lovers represent a slow understanding of oneself and their personal value.

How Many Tarot Cards do you Pull for a Love Reading?

While there are alternate Tarot spreads for relationships, you should typically pull 6 cards when doing a psychic reading with the Tarot cards. This is most usually done when in a current relationship, but it is also possible to do a lovers reading when currently single.

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Tips for Preparing Your Questions

The way you phrase your questions is just as important as the questions themselves. 



  • Ask passive questions
  • Ask reassurance questions
  • Ask questions looking for a specific date to an event in your life

Good Questions To Ask Tarot Cards  


The desire to know how to find “the one” is a popular topic. In order to make your quest as successful as The desire to know how to find “the one” is a popular topic. In order to make your quest as successful as possible, even if you’re in a love triangle, here are some of the best questions to determine how you can find love.

  • How can I attract my soul mate?
  • What type of personality traits should I avoid when looking for a partner?
  • How can I attract my twin flame? 
  • What’s the best type of life partner for me? 
  • How can I attract the right person into my life?
  • Where am I most likely to find my soul mate?
  • How can I know if my crush is attracted to me? 
  • What steps do I need to take to attract true love?
  • How do I find a partner with the same life goals as me?
  • Does my crush like me?
  • What characteristics should I look for in a partner?
  • How can I be more confident when looking for love? 
  • What type of people have the best influence on me?
  • When will I find true love? 
  • What can I do to find my ultimate life partner? 
  • How do I know I’m ready to start a new relationship?


You can’t move on with your future if you’re stuck mourning the past. A psychic can guide you through the healing process so you can get on with your life. 

  • How can I get over a breakup?
  • Why can’t I let go of an ex?
  • How can I move on after divorce?
  • How can a future loved one replace the love I had before?
  • How can I cope with the loss of a loved one? 
  • How can I communicate with a deceased loved one? 
  • What should I learn from my recent breakup?
  • Would it be a good idea for me to try and communicate with a deceased loved one?


Even the healthiest of relationships are subjected to a few road bumps here are there. You may even find yourself asking if you should stay or if you should go. Here are some questions to help you solve some of the most common issues.

  • How can I strengthen the relationship with my partner? 
  • What past issues are coming up in my current relationship?
  • How can I be a better partner? 
  • Why is my marriage suffering? 
  • What are the threats to my relationship?
  • How can I get over my partner’s annoying habits?
  • What can I do to save my marriage?
  • What’s something I do not see in my current relationship?
  • How can I bring happiness back into my relationship
  • What false assumptions do I have about my partner?
  • How can I help my partner with a specific question? 
  • What does my partner want me to add to our relationship?
  • Why is my relationship in a holding pattern?
  • How can I increase sexual compatibility with my partner?
  • In what areas does my partner need more support?
  • How can I be more in tune with my partner’s feelings?
  • What habits need to change within my relationship?
  • How have I been sabotaging my relationships, and how can I change?


Gaining insight is one of the best ways to figure out your relationship’s highs and lows. A psychic can give you the clarity you’re seeking.

  • What should I know about my relationship?
  • What is my path to a happy and successful relationship? 
  • How can I truly follow my heart?
  • What characteristics should I look for in a partner?
  • What’s the best way to communicate with my partner?
  • How do I know if my current partner is marriage material?
  • What parts of myself do I need to work on to have a balanced relationship?
  • What should I be aware of when starting my new relationship?
  • What’s the best way to gain clarity with my relationship?
  • What are my weaknesses with my relationship?
  • What are my partner’s unique qualities?
  • How can I stop repeating negative patterns in my relationship?
  • Where is my relationship headed?
  • What type of romantic getaway should I take with my partner?
  • Why do I keep thinking about my ex?
  • What does my love life have in store?
  • What rare qualities does my relationship have?
  • How have my previous relationships made me stronger? 
  • What does the universe want me to know about my love life?
  • What type of first date should I go on with my potential love interest?
  • What’s the most important quality my partner and I have in common?
  • How can I be more genuine in my relationships?
  • What’s holding me back from committing? 


Looking for confirmation about a potential relationship? Here are some of the best questions to ask a psychic.

  • Is the current person in my life my twin flame? 
  • Is the current person in my life my soul mate? 
  • What will happen if I get back together with my ex?
  • How do I know if someone is thinking about me? 
  • Is my current partner the right one for me? 
  • How do I know if I can stay friends with my ex?
  • Would my crush be a good match?
  • What should I do if my crush doesn’t have the same feelings?
  • What’s the best way to gain clarity within my relationship?


If you’re single and can’t seem to find love anywhere around you, don’t lose hope! Love will turn up when you’re not expecting it. Just listen to the tarot cards.

  • How can I find my soulmate?
  • Am I on the right track to finding my soulmate?
  • Is my best friend my one true love?
  • What can I do to start attracting other people?
  • How can I follow my heart?
  • How will I know when I love someone?
  • Will I get over my fear of love?
  • Will I have one true love, or more than one?
  • How do I know if someone loves me back?
  • Is romantic love the most powerful form of love?
  • Should love feel comfortable?
  • Once I find love, will I lose it?
  • How long before I love someone unconditionally?
  • Does love change you?
  • What does being in love feel like?
  • Can you love more than one person at the same time?
  • When does love begin?
  • Is true love possible for an introvert?
  • Where do I go to find love?
  • What happens if I never find my soulmate?
  • How can I be sure that my desire for love isn’t just lust?
  • How do I stop being jealous of people in a happy relationship?


Perhaps you and your ex broke things off a little hastily and now, after some time has passed, you’re starting to wonder if you made the right choice. Consult with a psychic and have them do a reading for you to see if a renewed relationship is meant to be.

  • Does my ex still love me?
  • Do they think that the breakup was a bad idea, too?
  • Is my ex currently seeing anyone at the moment?
  • Is there any chance that my ex and I will ever get back together?
  • Does my ex still think about me every day?
  • Did my ex ever cheat on me?
  • Did they ever talk to their previous exes when they were with me?
  • Did I ever do anything that made them jealous?
  • Would they have done anything differently if they had the chance?
  • If they’re in a relationship, do they mention me at all?
  • Did they keep all the presents that I bought them?
  • Do any songs on TV remind them of me?
  • If they could tell me anything now, what would they say?
  • Do they think that the breakup went badly?
  • Do they blame themselves for the breakup?


Whether you’re deeply in love, or near the end of the relationship, asking a psychic to do a Tarot reading of your love life is a good way to determine where the marriage is going and if it’s still strong enough to save.

  • How many kids does my significant other want?
  • Would they ever consider divorce?
  • Do they feel it’s important to save money or spend it all?
  • Do they have any debts I don’t know about?
  • Do they enjoy traveling?
  • Do they think we spend too much time together?
  • Do they like my family?
  • Do they like to do things by themselves more than they like spending time with me?
  • Are they secretly an alcoholic?
  • Are they eating right when I’m not around?
  • How can I communicate better with them?
  • Are they cheating on me?
  • Do they think about me all the time?
  • Do they love me?
  • Do they love our child/children?
  • Do they love me more or less since we got married?
  • Are they ready to spend the rest of their life with me?
  • What are they doing right now?
  • Am I supporting enough in the marriage?
  • Do they feel secure in the marriage?
  • Do they still enjoy the same things I enjoy?


Families can be hard sometimes but, at the end of the day, even if it seems like things can never be fixed, just consult the Taro cards for the truth.

  • Does my family love me?
  • Do they want me to come over a lot or not at all?
  • Am I their favorite child?
  • Do they know how much I love them?
  • Do they still love me, even though I’m not perfect?
  • Should I call them every day, or once a week?
  • Is having a family worth it?
  • Does my family respect me and my life choices?
  • Do my siblings want me around?
  • How do I improve my relationship with my family?

Writing Your Own Relationship Tarot Questions 

Here are a few tips to help you come up with effective relationship tarot questions. 

  • Grab a pen and paper and write down the first things that come to your mind about the current state of your love life.
  • List the pros and cons of your current situation.
  • Come up with a goal for your reading.
  • Use these notes to develop a list of targeted questions.

Are You Ready For Your Relationship Tarot Reading? 

Now that you’re prepped with the right love questions to ask tarot, it’s time to book a session with one of our tarot advisors. Not sure where to start? Here are some of our favorite love tarot advisors. 

Insight From Dancing Petals



Melissa Alfred

Barbara’s Tarot Readings 



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